EliteSingles has a rating of 1.1 stars from 555 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about EliteSingles most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and credit card problems. EliteSingles ranks 650th among Dating sites.
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Elite singles are not scammers that is why I am correcting my review here, yet they are not clear that they only serve US clients, it is not an international service, they do not have a mobile application. You meet non matching profiles. The finance are very reluctant to reply so for a quick response I finally reached this email *******@elitesingles.com My advise don't waste your money over paid dating sites, there are lots of free apps to check.
I paid almost $80 for one month subscription! I don't believe, it doesn't even match me with the correct people. Why it is advertised that it is one of the best apps for professional singles. It's so expensive even for $5!
Initially, I was getting a few smiles/contacts from women who lived geographically within my area and were age appropriate. I now get 15-30 "smiles" a day from women across the country who are 20 to 35 years younger than I with barely a word in their profiles. Interestingly, most of the smiles come immediately after I go onto their website to look at my profile and matches. In the next 10 minutes I get 10 or so emails saying someone has smiled at me. My subscription was renewed with no warning at a very high price. I found much higher quality matches on other dating sites and would not recommend Elite Singles. Also, a few of the contacts I did get that were worthy of conversation claim they found me on Silver Singles even though I never signed up for that service.
Date of experience: April 11, 2022
Elite has very few local members so it sends me old and remote matches. Elite's services are of the lowest quality. The App is poorly designed. I cannot delete those unwanted faces on my message list. Dating and searching on this website is not pleasure but suffering. People are not members without photos, but Elite will send them to you. If you contact them then they might want to read your invitation, and pay too high membership fee. In fact the website doesn't have enough members to run as a dating site.
Date of experience: July 7, 2020
-I signed up for 1 month and got into a 1-year membership.
-I was only billed 30 days after the purchase.
Making it impossible to refund the large sum taken from my account (According to "Katie" from support).
Predatory pricing.
-I am experienced with online purchases, but this caught me off guard.
*Will happily remove this message, if my request for a partial refund is granted, or if I have missed an important detail somehow*
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Poor matching, few people, clunky website, over priced, scammy refund policy
Date of experience: September 13, 2022
Total crap! Did not even send 1 person that fit in to my criteria! All super old, lived far, zero quality. I'd rather get the fake vaccine then date one person they sent. I am thinking of telling my credit card company to not pay them and/or fight the charges. If you ask for a certain ethnicity, religion or whatever and they just send you the opposite its a scam in my book. 100% $#*!
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That the men they pull from are older, live farther, are not a match at all. I am skeeved out! Ew! Just yuck
Date of experience: March 11, 2021
Women: Don't waste time and money on this service.
Poor qualify men. Minimum searching distance is 50 miles! Cant see pic unless subscribed on min 3 months and once I saw pics. It was nightmare! Bad vibes. Can't get money back. It's horrible
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Don’t use it period . I felt tricked to pay for subscription because the site doesn’t allow me to see photos . Once I paid I found out that I can’t find any quality people . Most people are in 50 miles !!! There is no option to filter to 5-10 miles . Totally a waste of time to have to browse through a group of bad vibe looking men .I paid 2 days ago and want to get out and want refund but customer service said because I paid via iPhone app I can’t get refund . Total scam !
Date of experience: March 1, 2022
After reading all these "professional" reviewers give this dating site 4.9/5, perhaps they should have actually tried it. After 4 months on the site, the only conversations I've had are with more scammers. Most of my matches only have a High School education, or don't even bother to complete the profile. Those I do converse with, quickly get pulled off the site for being fraudulent accounts. Lately I get people contacting me that want me to contact, not them, but other people off-site! This was the most money I have ever spent on a dating site, and I will never again! PLEASE don't purchase a membership. I met far better people on Zoosk, and Plenty of Fish for free.
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Complaining does nothing. Try a different dating site. Next time I won’t get a year plan to save money. Try for free or for a month to check another site out.
Date of experience: April 17, 2022
I joined this site for 3 months (paid at once) and the clientele are absolutely NOT elite. There is clearly no screening or matching going on. I don't think it even recognizes your preference settings. I am looking for a more educated, higher earning partner who is my equal. What a joke. Don't waste your money!
Date of experience: February 1, 2020
When I set my profile up they would not allow one picture, I don't know why. But I get dozens of likes with pictures of women and their phone number written over it so they don't vet them properly. Worst dating site I have ever been on unworthy of the name, Elite. Join at your peril!
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Here is my tip...don't.
Date of experience: March 27, 2022
Does not live up to its advertised promises. The majority of men on here do not post a photo (as you will see in the photo below). Also they do not write more than a few words about themselves. So it is impossible to figure out if they might be a fit. EliteSingles advertises that 80% of people on here have a college or university education. Not true in my experience. Most men had high school diploma or less. Also, even though I requested matches that live in my area they keep matching me with men who live across the county much farther away. I've requested a refund.
Date of experience: August 9, 2019
8 out of 10 contacts that contacted me I was informed shortly after that they are scammers with fake profiles. It's the worse dating site I've joined especially after paying for it. The app doesn't work well either. They need to do proper verification before allow profiles to be seem.
Date of experience: October 3, 2021
Insists that they will match you with """elite""" / highly educated individuals but almost every 'match' is high school diploma or girls that are barely 18, no matter how many times you set your preference to age appropriate matches and higher education settings. Every profile is old, a match that ignores your preferences, or fake. They make you pay upfront to use basic features before you can realize it's a bad deal. Stick with more well-known sites, or location based dating apps.
Date of experience: January 26, 2022
Joined this website was a half year ago, was not going to renew the membership after the due date but they renewed it without my consent, even-thought with the cancellation message I got from them as a proof, but they wont return the money back to me no matter what! Leaving my comments here just let the others to aware of it, or don't even use it as there is very litter chance you will meet the right person from this site.
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My advise is don't use this website as they are not trustworthy!
Date of experience: August 26, 2022
RUN! The site is clunky, and I receive 1 or 2 scam messages on a DAILY basis (see example below). People I message never respond (OK, may not be a "looker"...), and the few who "like me" live thousands of miles away and haven't read my profile. There are a lot of men on this site with high school diplomas, and not the educational minimum promised. This site is a waste of time, but more than that, it leaves me with an uneasy feeling that I have been duped and that my identity could potentially be compromised.
Date of experience: March 24, 2022
-almost no local matches. In live in Detroit, and after six months only a handful within 3 hours
-constant spam makes it impossible to tell if someone is real or not
-after asking to cancel, they continue to charge me and will not stop. Had to cancel my card to get rid of these people.
Avoid at all costs
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Dont
Date of experience: July 15, 2022
Site is full with "BOTS". Numerous fake profiles. I thought this would be a great site for higher income professionals but not in the millionaire status-I was wrong. Suspect profiles and pics were submitted to customer service and these profiles are still active... Rip Off... I gave them one star because they were willing to refund my balance for the unused months I paid for.
Date of experience: December 7, 2022
I signed up with them thinking it was a legit site as I was looking for a friend that matched my education level. Well, I got plenty of responses, "Jane Doe Sent a Smile". Try to reply back, but no response. Hmmm. Well, maybe they are not interested? I replied to at least 30 of the "Sent Smile" messages to start a conversation with no reply. If someone sent me a smile, I thought I would get back at least one reply!
So it gets worse, now my debit card is being charged for all kinds of different dating sites! Thank goodness I have fraud protection and my bank refuses those kinds of transactions. I would avoid and go with a more mainstream site. Cheers!
Date of experience: April 28, 2022
I signed up and then cancelled 3 hours later. Today I happened to be looking for something in my bank statement and saw they billed me for $172.00. Absolute scammer rip offs. I send an email telling them a second time today to cancel. Don't waste your time on these sites. If you want to meet someone then keep your eyes open to those around you within your daily walk.
Date of experience: August 10, 2019
An "elite" site who's sole functionality is matching people with like people, doesn't require anyone to fully fill out their profile or post pictures. Most matches came in the first week of signing up, and most of them told me nothing about themselves or had pictures. ALL messages and smiles sent to me were from people out of state. If they are going to make this site successful, they need to require everyone to take it seriously. This was a total waste of my time and money.
Date of experience: June 12, 2022
This is the worst dating app I've experienced. It he "wild cards" are in different countries - because that will work out well for dating. The site does not really follow your criteria. I've seen more profiles that I have no comparability with. It's an extremely disappointing app. I don't recommend it.
Tip for consumers:
Don’t use the site.
Date of experience: November 29, 2021
The platform is inferior and feels very dated. On the app, the photos are cropped so you cannot see faces. There is no method for sorting, deleting matches. When you click on likes, the profile photo has no functionality so it's impossible to see who liked you without looking that person up on the list of matches. Overall, a very frustrating experience - i do not have the patience to deal with it. I called the customer support number to try to get a refund and was on hold for 40 minutes. Finally gave up - wasted $200+.
Date of experience: August 30, 2021
This site is the worst site I've ever used. I signed up. They take all the money up front. No matches locally that meet my criteria. There is no matching at all in fact, and you can only get a few suggestions per day, most of them are not active members. I'm a 43 year old woman in Minneapolis, and the photos below are my "matches."
Tip for consumers:
Don’t use!!
Date of experience: May 17, 2022
The app runs slow, never displays pictures in the matches tab and I'm always under review. I am confused on how it works and I support IT! To remove someone you pick the permanently delete and block that's harsh. I think OKCupid is much better. What a waste of money
Date of experience: March 18, 2021
Hi there. On July 31,2021 I signed up as a paid member for EliteSingles to meet quality people who are compatible with me. Unfortunately in the past few months that I've been a paid member, not just I met anyone, nor have been matched with anyone. Any messages I received from so called members, were followed up with ES customer care warning of my safety or of fake account. This was supposed to be fun exploration for a partner not an annoying experience. This has been very frustrating! I feel ES makes promises that can't keep and takes peoples money without adding any value. I sent a request for a refund my money. I am not interested in this game.
I wish I knew this before I registered.
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I joined this platform - EliteSingles to meet quality people who are compatible with me. Unfortunately in the past few months that I’ve been a paid member, not just I met anyone, nor have been matched with anyone. Any messages I received from so called members, were followed up with ES customer care warning of my safety or of fake account. This was supposed to be fun exploration for a partner not an annoying experience. This has been very frustrating! Save your money and time!
Date of experience: September 17, 2021
I purchased a subscription thinking it was going to be a great site to possibly meet someone. That has Not been the case. Instead, I receive many emails stating that they've found a match, but that they'd love for me to meet a friend. They include an email address for me to contact "their friend/colleague." I receive at least one of these messages per day, up to 3 daily. Naturally, I report them to the EliteSingles. I tried to cancel with a partial refund. (Trying to contact Customer Service was a nightmare. Unable to speak to someone.) I do Not recommend this site. It's extremely overpriced for what you'll receive!
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I’d read as many reviews as possible about this site prior to subscribing. Should you decide to subscribe anyway. Do it initially for one month only.
Date of experience: April 15, 2022
This dating site promises professional people. 90% of the matches can't spell and the grammar is atrocious. I have already been alerted to two scammers. A gentleman said he was an electrical engineer. In reality he drove college kids to football games. His picture was at least 10 years old. One fellow said what all he wanted was a"pretty girl". This is truly one of the worst dating site. A total Scam incredibly difficult to navigate this site too
Date of experience: October 8, 2019
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