OurTime

TERRIBLE site, no control over members. I've been receiving messages from people 40 years younger and 18 years older than myself.
Most responses asked for an email or phone number and had their address in user name and phone number scrawled across their picture. Messages from 50-3,000 miles distance.
THIS IS AN OVER 50 SITE THAT ALLOWS ANYONE TO JOIN.
Now it gets worse. When contacting them you reach "non-English speaking" English language c/s reps in the Phillipines who refuse to address any concerns and offer no assistance (I tried 3 times and hit a brick wall each time).
It's terrible that companies/people spend so much time devising deceitful schemes.
STAY AWAY, BUY A COUPLE NICE STEAKS.

This dating site only promotes phoney interactions.
They are nothing but a spam, stay away!
Inaccurate messages posted to your views!
Charges are despective!

BELIEVE EVERYTHING BAD IN THE REVIEWS! IT IS ALL TRUE...!
You WILL be targeted by their fake and inactive profile software AND IT IS INFESTED WITH SCAMMERS I WAS SOLICITED FIR $800.00 PAYPAL WITH PROMISES OF ETERNAL LOVE SEX BABIES AN ATHEIST CLAIMING TO LOVE GOD PROFILE CINDETTA STAY WAY LIES FOR TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT FELONIOUS SOLICITATIONS OURTIME IS A WASTE OF TIME AND $$$
I have proofs of PURCHASES EVEN FOR REPLY FOR FREE... NONE OF IT WORKS TO CONTACT A REAL PERSON DOING TRUTH THE FEATURES ARE HORRIBLE AND DON'T WORK YOU WILL REGRET GOING THERE
I AM A CHRISTIAN FIT AND NOT UGLY AND OPEN FOR MOST KIND OF RESPECTABLE RELATIONSHIPS!
Have not met one real person in FOUR MO. AS OF 05 15 2020
WADE INTO THE OURTIME GARBAGE DUMP YOU MAY AS WELL BURN YOUR $$$

It used to up to 2 weeks ago. Let you search by area see who is in there area you choose, now they are just like Tinder just give you a small selection. Don't waste your money!

I was duped into joining this site by switch and bait tactics! Although I had my reservations about giving them my credit card info I did anyway! What a mistake! They suckered me in by stating I had several messages waiting and of course the only way to read them is by subscribing! I held out until they offered me a one time deal of $44 for a years subscription! Which I'm sorry to say I fell for it! Not only were there not the number of messages waiting they claimed, the few that it did show never responded! And of course a week after giving my credit card information and subscribing to their service for their discounted price of a one time fee of $44, my card was charged another $64 without my consent! I have been trying to contact a representative this company, trust me they do not exist! All you get when you call the only number provided is ( All representatives are busy! Call back later!) And in the meantime I have had to cancel my credit cards and have new ones issued! This site needs to be shut down immediately!

I met what I thought was a nice lady on there. All she wanted what someone to pay her bills. Told a bunch of lies... don't waste you time on this stupid site.

Both me and my hubby matched on here, and compatibility is 110%
He was a suggestion and we matched, all im saying our future is bright
Never give up best site by far

I received many flirts & messages right from the start, which seemed encouraging and fun! But after only 2-3 weeks I realized that there were (at least) 5 "scam" men writing to me. They were all saying the exact same words. I reported this to Ourtime. Several times my profile was "not allowed", for what reason I never knew, they couldn't explain why. They blamed it on the "computer" sensing inappropriate words. BUNK! So I had to create a new password each time. Twice my profile was GONE, so I had to rewrite it. After 3 months (and three dates with nice men) I finally QUIT even though I had 3 months left on my membership. I quit because someone was using my photo & profile and flirting/messaging men - these men responded to "my" message, but I had never sent them anything! When I got an upsetting pornographic message, I called to quit the site. They gave me a hard time, but I think I'm finally off this very flawed site. Their advertising is attractive, but actually being on the site is disappointing, frustrating, and time-consuming. DO NOT JOIN!

I had some matches that see me ed genuine and real and then there were the others whom I will now refer to as s trolls.
I had 5 conversations in a week that I actually thought were going somewhere. The actual first one was actually genuine.
Now for the others. Ok one guy started talking about himself and it was a pretty nice conversation, then it turned into how he wanted to OWN me, ok done. Block that profile. Then there were two that claimed to be foreigners and new to the area, well here's a clue, if you're going to say you live in a rental apartments make sure it's in a place with more than one complex jack $#*!. And the other, well he claimed to live about 300 miles away and wanted our first date to be in some little itty bitty town between the two of us. Well a little research shows this is such an out of the way place the post office and police station share a trailer. No, that's not sketchy at all. Then my absolute favorite after 5 minutes of chatting was telling me where we were going on our honeymoon.
I may hate being alone but I'll be damned if the last thing I check my purse for on the way out the door is a taser, a knife and a gun.
Run ladies just run. Meet a guy the old fashioned way. I've decided that once a week, I'll go to a coffee shop or take my $#*! out to dinner and sit at the bar with my unsweetened tea. The worst part about this is I PAID for this bull$#*!. RUN, DO NOT STOP, RUN

There are SO many things wrong with OurTime
- It will not "Remember me" for login.
- There is constant nagging to renew or "upgrade," i. E., pay more for features of questionable value. You see these annoying notices practically every time you click your mouse.
- It's very hard to narrow searches to distances near you. Impossible I think for "matches" that OurTime picks out for you.
- Yot can specify to see only profiles with a photo, but you still see profiles without photos.
- You get an email saying you have a message. You click See Message. Instead of taking you to the message it nags you... to reactivate or upgrade. (I turned off auto-renew, planning to quit when paid subscription is done.)
- OurTime will send you an email telling you you have a message, but really it's a "Flirt" (Flirts are pretty meaningless, like "Hi.)
- The interface for Messages is totally confusing.

If you are thinking about OurTime, you should know what a rotten dating site it is. As soon as my subscription is up, I am done with OurTime. What an aggravating waste of money.

First you pay for every little thing. Next if you do talk to some1 you will get a email from ourtime where they have blocked em cause they scammers. Do not spend your money on this site

I WAS CHANGED TO SENIOR PEOPLE.COM FROM OURTIME WHEN I RENEWED THIS YEAR... I AM A FEMALE LOOKING FOR A MALE... SO WHY AM I GETTING PICTURES OF FEMALES?
ITS A WASTE OF MY TIME AND MONEY! THE TIME IT TAKES TO CLEAR OUT THE LADY BIO'S I HAVE NO INTEREST IN... THEN THE FEW WHO DO, I'M OFFENDED!
GET THIS FIXED! IT'S SAD WHEN I NEED YOUR NUMBER ON SPEED DIAL... KATYRNV1391

Although I mention OURTIME, it applies to any dating site. After sending thoughtful, well written messages to ladies, more often than not, a male will be ignored. Yes, there probably are a small percentage of fellows, tall & seemingly with status, who may receive responses. What I do not understand is this: I see the same ladies with their profiles month after month on a couple of sites. Some appear quite nice looking or at least decent looking. Are they probably ignoring other males, as they ignored me, & truly feel that it is just a question of time before the ideal gentleman reaches out to them? Wouldn't they understand that they are bypassing plenty of good men, rejecting almost all, but not finding what they fantasize about? They seem intelligent but Einstein had a famous saying about expecting a different result using the same methods over & over (month after month). As the months roll on, doesn't it become apparent to these elitist ladies that their quest, is for the most part, a fantasy? What do they really want?
Some have titles, "Looking for Mr. Perfect, or Looking for Mr. Right." What does that really mean to these ladies on the same site month after month? Are they fooling themselves? They are frustrating me, but not fooling me.

I have tried Match, POF, Zoosk, Fitness Singles. They each have nice features. But none has annoyed me to the extent that Ourtime has. The more minor thing is that when you use the search feature and scroll down to read the profile an annoying box, prompting you to Like or Flirt hovers down and blocks your ability to read the profile. Everywhere you scroll this box follows you and blocks your view. So annoying and user UNfriendly! The other issue i have i one thats truly unethical of this site. I happened to notice 8 likes and flirts sent from my mailbox that I did not send. How can they possibly get away with that?! I sent their "Help" a note asking for that to stop and expressed my displeasure with this cheap dishonest way to generate traffic on their site. To add insult to injury, I received an automated response back saying that if i was upset about their auto renewal i could take steps to disable that. It said that if this had nothing to do with my issue then just reply and Then i would get a personalized response. Oh so you have to write to them twice to get a real response? So i did reply and guess what came back. The same exact automated response. What a sorry excuse for customer service and what an unethical and annoying site this is. So glad i only bought one month.

Ourtime is NOT a good site. Horrible customer service and lot's of scammers. It's very expensive and has the Worst website to communicate on. I do NOT recommend this dateing site.

When you ask them to remove your credit card info, and remove your automatic renew status. They do, AND YET THEY STILL TAKE YOUR MONEY, THIS IS FRAUD. The site has 80% fake profiles, you get pinged all hours of the day and night with a code that you supposidly asked for to sign on, and you did not... NIGHTMERE ALTOGETHER. They only way to stop them once you give your credit card is to COMPLETELY CLOSE YOUR ACCOUNT WITH THE BANK AND GET A NEW ONE!

So…I have a question for anyone who has been on this site. Do you see this same things I am? SO many of the profiles have the same written content. How do they see what someone else has written? I can't view what other women are looking for (since I am not looking for other women!) Also, could just be me, but so many conversations get going over a period of time, interest seems to heighten, then they go silent.? This isn't just one person…this is many…and after they proclaim I am "one in a million".? Is this site just pushing interest and pretending to be actually subscribers? Or are these scammers? Either way, it doesn't inspire confidence. Lastly, they say they are trying to protect me from the imposters…but so many profiles are clearly not reviewed. What's odd about that is, they didn't allow a photo upload on my profile with me and my granddaughter citing it was outside their "photo acceptance protocol". Seriously? Have you SEEN some of the photos people are allowed to post? Bare chested and in bed? While me and my granddaughter at the mall is not acceptable? I wonder…who is at the wheel here…and who is actually behind some of the profile posted…? Not so sure.

My new husband and I are proud ex-members of ourtime. My only complaint is the number of scammers acting as members. I spent a lot of time weeding out false interests.

I don't believe the profiles on our time to be real, all I get is views, no one will answer my messages, so I believe it to be fake, and a waste of money.

This site deserved a ZERO star rating. They have not provided a single response any ANY of my MANY requests for help. They take your money and provide NO VALUE WHATSOEVER.
The website is a BOGUS SCAM and a TOTAL RIPOFF!
I will be making a formal complaint to the authorities and hope something can be done to stop this money grab.

This is a conjob that has no intention of finding u a mate the profiles are fake as soon as u contact a member they appear mysteriously online in the chat area but do not respond. They want your $$ so u do not meet anyone u just keep renewing. CLOSE THESE SCAMS UP!

I am a single woman who joined this website in hopes to find a man friend that might develop into a relationship. YUH... RIGHT! All I found was online predators. I met a men and even casually dated him for about 6 weeks. He was still on there while dating me and turned out to be a serial dater, even when he 'claimed' on his profile that he was not! He also 'claimed' he was a 'widower' which also turned out to be a LIE! He claimed he was in love with me, and I was 'the one' and we could both 'stop looking'... all along he was serial dating!
Countless email exchanges with males that were ONLY after a 'hook up'. Once they found out I was not into 'hooking up', they dropped off emailing. One was from the same town as me, so we emailed back and forth a bit and turns out, he plans on moving overseas... so why is he on a dating website claiming to want a 'serious relationship'!
Also, my 'matches' showed profiles of men that had not logged in for months!
AVOID this hook up site if you are genuinely looking for a potential relationship.
P.S. I would rate it a 0 if there was a 0 option.

DONT MISTAKE ME FOR ONE OF THESE OLD FUDDY DUDDIES THAT CANT WORK THE INTERNET! QUITE FAMILIAR WITH IT AND NOT HAVING ANY TROUBLE ON THIS ONLINE DATING WEBSITE SO FAR. FOR ME, IVE TRIED A FEW DIFFERENT COMPANYS AND ENJOYED PRIMETIMELOVE.COM THE MOST UP UNTIL NOW BUT OURTIME IS QUITE DIFFERENT AND I THINK IT COULD BE JUST AS GOOD BUT TIME WILL TELL. SORRY FOR ALL THE CAPS JUST NOTICED HA HA. Brian, late fifties