OurTime

I joined because they gave big discount. Auto renew was turned off but they renewed account.
I called and they apologized and said I will get refund in 2-3 days. 4 months later, still no refund. I posted on the site what happened and they kicked me off for inappropriate content. Deserve zero rating. Fake profiles, someone hacked my account and changed profile more than once.dont trust them.

Beware - this site is loaded with scammers. I don't see that they do anything to verify members are real. Look out for those with heavy accents, fall madly in love with you quickly, say they travel internationally, never meet and of course eventually ask for money. I've had 3 send me to their fake "I own this company" website. I will not be extending my membership. Customer service didn't respond to my emails asking what they do to verify the member is real.

I was flagged for saying "No drug use" because I used the word "drug". Since I was flagged once, I'm no longer allowed to have a completed profile.
I have been emailing back and forth with CS (after 2 weeks of trying to get a live person) and after several emails, I still haven't been told how to correct this issue, only that I was in the wrong. Why would anyone pay over $100 for this aggravation?
Save your time, save your money, if you want to meet someone, join a meetup.com group! They're free, fun & have no cat fishers as you're actually meeting people in person with your same interests.

I regularly get notification that someone "likes" me, only to discover they never contacted me! The first few times, I bought into it and replied with a statement or question, but none responded. Why would you "like" someone and not respond when they speak? This is FRAUD!

I've used a lot of dating sites in my late forties/ early fifties, ourtime ranks high on my list because it's so blooming simple (a bit like me ha ha)! Some sites I love (primetimelove.com a good example) but others I just do not get the appeal (e. G tinder ha ha)! Anyway hope you all find what you're looking for and have a good 2018!

Site is filled with fake profiles and guys pushing to get personal information. Also, filters don't work; keep getting smokers, women and people outside the age range I set.

Go to the Bar. It's more effective.

Every man on the site looks like they have just been released from a maximum security facility. Tons of fake profiles and men sending long messages to scam you at every turn. This site is horrid. So glad I only signed up for a month! I haven't met one decent man here yet. People should NOT be allowed to create a profile until they COMPLETE every section.If you go to the chat, it looks like a hundred men are on there but if you click on someone, it shows they haven't been on the site for awhile. So very strange! Bottom line, save your money. Going to try EHarmony. Expensive but likely more worth the time & effort!

I joined Ourtime, but when my initial billing period was up, it was impossible for me to turn off the auto renew. I wrote to the company who has no human customer service reps, only bots. I challenged the billing from my bank, the bank dropped the charges 3 times. On the third time I re filled out my profile using rather vulgar and false information. They finally closed my account. So I now have no proof of purchase. This site is run by people with no business ethics, no integrity and quite simply put, crooks who only want your money and make it impossible for you to cancel.

Started a free subscription in May 2015 and then went inactive one week later following website rules. When I reapplied 8 months later for a paid subscription I found 50 + emails to me. At no time was I informed by the website of these contacts and this is very poor customer service and complete rudeness to all the parties involved. No phone number to contact OT. Don't waste your money on such a poorly run website for dating purposes.

Very poor technically! Problems with security! Even bigger problems with scammers and gold-diggers. In other words, it's scammers' paradise, they feel great there and run rampant. Customer service ignored all my attempts to report a scammer. Do yourself a favor chaps, just stay away from them!

They don't return emails and no one ever answers their customer service number. The only information shown with pictures is an age and location. There doesn't seem to be any member that doesn't have a picture, which I find very hard to believe. On every dating site there are always members who don't want to post a picture, and after you join they try to sell you additional basic communication links.

I was not happy with the service and had it set to NOT automatically renew. They charged my credit card anyway. I called customer service to ask for a refund *******065 my bank gave me the number) of course they say I authorized the renewal which I DID NOT. In 3 months not one acceptable match, they suggested women, I am not into women, being one myself! You cannot screen who sees your profile, no settings for location, no settings for you to only see local people. Over half of the men who contacted me were fake profiles. The possibly real ones either look like Santa Claus, white beards and obese, have their shirts off their over 60 year old bodies, need someone to hold them down and trim their eyebrows. And should you make the first move, after an email exchange or a chat will not contact you again unless you give them your phone #. Do not waste your money. I am now going to have to cancel my card and get a new one to prevent a future charge and deal with the hassle that entails.

Site hasn't worked right for months. Contacted them, said they'd fix it but never did. Wanted people within 50 miles & ages 75-85 and they were all over the US and all ages. Will never sign up again the Our Time

This is not a good site! Seriously folks - they matched me with defunct profiles to get me pumped up... but I searched the users and found from the back door when they last logged in... may as well be talking to the wall. Also, many times the message box gets highlighted... but there is no message... In general, the matching criteria are garbage and their sorting of messages/emails/matches are defective. I mean -- why spend time emailing to defunct profiles and waiting for a response... which their own algorithms just matched you with? They hide a lot of this by not providing the sorting capabilities to quickly see these scams. Save your money.

Ive met a lovely lady on OurTime and im very happy. In fact, this afternoon I cancelled my account. I was getting a bit frustrated up until a month or so ago when I met Irene but it only takes one, so my advice is keep trying! A few of my work colleagues are divorced and use primetimelove.com, so that was my next port of call. But now I hope ill be away from the world of web dating for good. Fingers crossed, slow but steady!

Why fill in your requirements when Ourtime take no notice and send people from miles and away too far for a relationship. When you reject someone why then send the persons details again and again sometimes the same person is in the list 4 times just to make up numbers I suppose. There is no one to contact at Ourtime it is a run yourself website they promise everything and deliver nothing but are quick to take your money and push more bits that cost more of course. All they are interested in is money not the people who use the site and it is pot luck if you find anyone.

Do not expect any help from anybody at that company. Don't ever expect to speak to a supervisor. For some reason they seem to be in meetings every day all day. My emails should be self-explanatory. And the reason I deserve a full refund.

On our time 1 month and was 'fished' 2 times for sure, maybe 3 times.
Had 1 message.
Not exactly what I was looking for in a dating site. Took down my profile
And will stick to bars, and friends setting up Blind Dates {ugh} instead of this.

Our Time has got to be one of the worst sites I have ever experienced. Their service is virtually zilch. My account was hacked; OT closed my account; and their Costa Rican based service center did nothing to help me put my account back together again. I believe it was hacked, but the hacker(s) had to have come through their system. In addition to no help, I was given no additional membership time.

When I allowed my membership to expire, my number of views increased exponentially to five times what I normally received each day. Many of these "views from other members" had no pictures and incomplete profiles. OT must be worth something but not what it is asking for in membership fees.

Some of the profiles don't have pictures and nothing written on the profile. What's the point? Why would I even respond to someone with no picture and nothing said about them. Weird. Also, I have not seen one decent looking man. I settled for a few who are average looking but they seem to be all scams. This is a really bad site. Don't join.

I used to have my profile on OurTime in the past and it worked fine for me. So I wonder why there are so many negative reviews.
However I finally found my soulmate, a man to share my life with on another website recommended by a friend of mine: PrimeTimeLove.com
Make sure to try both of the sites. Who knows where you may get lucky!

In my opinion we have to be realistic and finding a true match has got to be difficult especially if you have been in a long standing loving relationship. The site is not good the same profiles appear time after time and despite stating in your profile the distance you are prepared to travel you still revived likes etc from men miles away. Customer services have always answered and dealt with my requests however cancelling a subscription is not easy. I did meet a lovely man however due to me it didn't work out so it can happen but I believe it's rare. I've tried a few times and for me I'm in the hands of fate if it happens it will if not I stay on my own. I never wanted to live with anyone or marry them just wanted to find a good caring man.

Ive always said you should try everything in life and im proud that even in my late fifties I could attempt something as alien as internet dating. And I really enjoy it! And its not just OurTime that Im learning to use but also another site called Primetimelove.com. They are both very different in terms of the way the site looks and works, but they have a lot of similarities too. Ive had dinner and high teas with gentlemen on both sites, so I dont think I could pick a winner. In fact the only winner here is me, as I have a life again!