The site itself isn't bad it's just the beasts that inhabit it
Was on here good few years back and when rejoined to see if it's improved (it hasn't it's worse) I immediately saw the same profiles and photos from 3 years ago. So not only lying about their photos they also seem to be serial daters
Most of the women have chips on both shoulders and come across very aggressive no idea why Aby guy would want that. They all claim they're independent and don't need a man they just want one. Feminist talk
This site is totally overrun by single mums. I must be old fashioned but I wouldn't bring a child into the world unless in a loving relationship in which you can financially support said child. Not on POF and society as a whole. Why bother when you get churn kids out & get the state to pay you. I have to roll my eyes when I see profession; Mum
Its not a profession it's a lifestyle choice. I hear them say anyone can be a dad but takes a real man to be a father. Yeah ok. I'll pass thanks
They also feel the need to put my child will. Always come first which I agree with but would put any guy off straight away. You can't tell me they've ALL been unlucky with bad guys? They had kids cos they're feckless slappers who don't care other people's taxes fund their life
Lot of profiles say READ PROFILE FIRST & then follows a whole shopping list of what the women wants. Only missing from the ridiculous OTT list are bananas and muesli.
Beware the only headshot and no body. A few extra pounds normally means they are the size of a small country.
Weirdly the fatter and unattractive they are the nastier their profile normally is.
I actually put no single mums on my profile and lost count I got called a stuck up c*** really classy women soon show their true colours
Horrible women on here. Leave the site alone
I've been on pof for 4 months. Plenty of attention, but no dates. All of the guys I've talked to are terrible. Some only want hookups while writing they were looking for long-term relationship. There were a bunch of scammers (read https://www.einnews.com/pr_news/*******/china-born-romance-scam-spread-overseas-cyber-forensics-net-alerts-dating-app-users) pretending to be Chinese American men (at least 20 of them chatted me up). They were all handsome, in mid-thirties, and been in America 5 years, although their English was all horrible, and they all insist on speaking in Chinese. They all want to chat on WeChat or Whatsapp, where you can send money. Their strategy was pretending to be very wealthy by showing pictures of them on vacation, in mansions, and in first class airplane seats. They all claimed to be investment bankers, who loved to travel, golf, skydive, surf, cook, drink coffee and other obviously fake hobbies. When I asked where they have traveled in America, they re-direct and talk about being too busy and traveling in every single country in Asia or Europe. Yeah right. They lie about simple things, such as claiming to cook a fancy meal whose picture they stole, claiming to work while talking to me throughout the day sending one message every two minutes, or claiming to know the area but wouldn't tell me where they went hiking. One hispanic guy spent 2 months talking to me without meeting up, so I knew he was unattractive. When I asked to meet up, he said his profile picture was from 5 years ago. His real picture is of a 50 year old man with white hair, overweight, and looked nothing like his profile picture, which was of him when he was 31. Trying to catfish me! Waste of my time!
These scammers ask for my number in there very first message. Pof is full of scammers. There's more scammers on the site, then their is real people. Why can't you do a better job moderating. The app has gone to complete $#*!. 8 out of 10 profiles are fake, people trying to get your number or direct you to another site so they can scam you. I literally have went through about 25 fake scammer profiles in the last 30 minutes on here. WHAT A JOKE! I counted 19 fake profiles in a row back to back, while browsing, before i found 1 that i believe was real. I found 2 that i think might have been legit so far. Pof used to, years ago be good and there was actually real people on it that you could meet an not get scammed, but now because you can't do your job correctly, the app is 99% scammers, all trying to scam you. How did you let your app be taken over by scammers? These scammers post there headline on there profile saying blowjob.com or some other sexual induendo trying to take you to another sex site where they can scam you. Plenty of fish doesn't care about there people or their safety at all. Should be called ( PLENTY OF SCAMMERS) I'm leaving and going to match.com or E harmony. I will gladly pay for a quality and legit app with real people then use this app for free. Nothing but scammers and fake profiles.
I can't imagine your making any money off the app because who would pay to talk to fake people and willingly offer themselves up to be scammed, proboly from some foreign people from Bangladesh or something. Definitely going to leave this review for plenty of fish online, in the hopes that it will help people in the future who ever think about using the site.
Man, I was on this site for at least a year off and on. All honesty I'm like a 7/10 nothing too great but I'm not ugly. So I'm thinking yo, I'll find someone whose close to my age and fun.
Nah. Not the case at all.
Unlike many people leaving reviews I realized that the girls in my area were actually people I went to high school with at some point. I'm 26 now and seeing their pro pics was a little weird at first. All that being said let me tell me you about my experiences.
In my 1 year I had about 30 girls with kids message me saying hi. I was very attentive to them and answered appropriately until I realized they just wanted a sugar daddy. When I backed off they got mad. Dumb $#*!.
I messaged about 50 girls a day for 2 weeks. Almost trying to see how many girls were real or would even respond. To my surprise atleast 200 females didn't reply to me at all. 20 females did reply only to tell me they didn't like black guys and another 20 replied to tell me that they aren't looking for a relationship...
Wtf, I don't get why you would be on this dating site if you don't want to date anyone.
My conclusion after a year is this. More than 80% of the females on the site are looking for guys to tell then they are hot. It's all ego. They don't respond to anyone who isn't a model type. Trust me I even played games and posted a pic of Ari Shapiro from NPR and birches went crazy talking like 60 messages a day from females. Basically ugly, fat and egotistical girls sit back on their phones and let good guys go for the guy who can any girl. They live off the "hey you're cute" messages even though they say they hate it. It's hilarious to me. Too many stupid females just looking for ego boosts. I'll pass.
Also after reading these reviews I think it's pretty obvious a lot of females find their love after waiting but lets be real youre picking and choosing from 200 guys a day probably. SO YEAH! I think it's obvious why THESE HOES FIND LOVE.
$#*! POF
I recently decided to try online dating for the first time and decided to give this site a shot because it was the most popular free site, and I wasn't looking to spend money on something I wasn't sure about anyway. I made a profile and uploaded some pictures and waited. Sure enough I was getting tons of messages a day from guys in my area. I was excited about the good chance at meeting someone, since it's hard to do so once you leave college, have a job, and aren't thrilled about meeting guys at the bar. I found out rather quickly though that most of the people on the site aren't people I was even remotely interested in. Middle-aged men constantly messaged me asking me if I want a sugar daddy or a lot of guys looking for sex. Now, I understand no matter where you go or what you do you're going to get people like that, but it was ridiculous. Out of all of the messages I got I only got a few that really made me want to talk to the guys. They seemed normal at first, but then if I wasn't able to meet up/reluctant to yet would get irrationally angry, acted like they were in love with me and said really obsessive things before even meeting me etc. And a lot of these guys were very attractive and seemed like they had a lot going for them in their lives. I was getting more and more frustrated because I wasn't finding what I wanted at all. I met with a few guys I talked to for a little on the site and I can tell you none of them were how they made themselves out to be over the internet. Pretty much to sum up this site it consists of people looking to hook up with people in their area, people with mental/psychological issues or people who are completely socially inept. Waste of time if you're actually looking for a serious relationship and want to meet someone.
Princess this Diva that - Angel, babe etc just some of the usernames I see used on here by the women. An extremely high opinion of themselves
1st thing I notice is how the women's profile are abrupt and say such things ''if I don't reply once don't keep messaging me ' and '' if i don't reply youre not my type' this just tells me TOO MANY MEN ON HERE chasing bang average women. If it was 50% men 50% women they wouldn't act like that. More like 90% men and 10%
Pof where
Women with no job or low paid job want man with a decent job-
Women who are 5'1 tall demand a man who must be 6 foot at least -
Bang average women want a hot looking model-
Non women drivers demand man with car -
Etc etc. Just totally silly demands that if you were in a bar you wouldn't dare
These women must get hundreds of messages a day despite being rude in the profiles and making more demands than Jennifer Lopez
Pof headlines. I'm back = been on here ages and too picky yet still not worked out what I'm doing wrong
Seeking genuine guy = must be hot
Cheats and liars need nor apply = stupidly keep picking bad guys then not learning their lessons and going back to bad guys
Make me laugh = must be hot
Seeking partner in crime = must be hot
Where are all the good guys= must be hot
You get the drift. As some hot 6foot guy with a 6 pack would message some of these 'ladies'
And finally what's with all the tattoo photos of your whole leg covered or arm inked up? Nearly as bad as pics of the pets
I WAS on here about 4 years ago and I left because it was awful. It's now even worse which takes some doing and amazed it's got 3 stars. The women are ruder pickier nastier, act more entitled and just worse than 2015. The lists of what you must face to qualify has gotten longer as has the demands such as MAKE ME LAUGH or ONLY SAY HI AND YOU'LL BE DELETED.
I swear within 10 minutes of browsing I saw tons women on POF from my last time in 2015 with the exact same photos as then. So not only are they lying about how they look but how can they be on a site totally overloaded with men and not have found anyone? Are they that picky that they been on here 4 years and not found anyone or are they just on pof for games. They must have had the opportunity to go on hundreds of dates and still not found Mr right. Either they're the unluckiest women ever or theyre standards are stupid. I bet if I log on in 2023 they'll still be on there with photos years out of date
I still saw the women complaining about getting messages about men only wanting sex and they were still in bikinis and flaunting their assets in the photos, What do they expect ffs no common sense
Add in the #metoo movement these days and you've got a website full of feminists all demanding a young Leonardo DiCaprio lookalike and refusing to compromise in the slightest
They'll be 50 soon and bitter with just their cats and it'll serve them all right
I used this app back in August 2016, I was just thinking because I'm watching what to watch in Netflix and I saw a movie about a girl who wants to sue a dating app, and I forgot to ever thank you this app, who made me meet my husband, was the only person I met and date with the app, I met him in person an August 28, and 4 years later we got married an August 28, we quickly deleted the app, because we knew we didn't want to keep talking to other people, so I barely used it, I didn't pay for a premium membership, I know he used it a little longer than me, and he dated other girls, and he did even pay a premium membership, but from my side I just want to thank this app, to lead me to him, I'm happily married, IDK if it was luck or the app, but I really want to thank for lead me to this wonderful man, I want to let people know that no love is easy, there has been many hard times, many times we were about to break up, but we work through it, and here we are today, everything is about boundaries and the willingness to make things work, and If you are in this app, just trying to find someone to screw just talk straight, so not play with peoples fellings.
It is the most difficult site to register on Keeps on chucking me out sending me in circles to fix things, wouldn't accept any usernames I fed it!
Be careful who you meet on here. I met this girl marcie beckstead. Total stalker. I had to change my number and delete my account. Just be careful.
Liars scammers marrieds and pervs not worth the time or effort. Have been here for awhile and have not met any quality people
Once i joined plentyoffish. It was some time cool. But then it get a bit annoying. So i joined datesforyou.org and I found some nice girl.
This is the sleeziest and most irresponsible site. After about 10 minites, feels like you need a bath. Pure filth!
If you're a happy friendly decent woman you wouldn't need to go near POF
This site is full of women who before dating apps came along would be single forever now they've found this and they've gone all power mad
Signed up and within a hour or two got loads of meet me messages. They were all fake profiles all wanting me to. Email them (it's not safe on here lol) or click on their site
Let's pull no punches the women on pof are social misfits/weirdos/drama queens/overweight/low IQ/unpleasant attention seekers.
If you're looking for a relationship like these claim why would you put your main photo of you in a bikini or one with your breasts hanging out leaving nothing to the imagination then have the audacity to complain men only message for sex? Anyone who has an ounce of common sense and who wasn't craving attention would realise what kind of men pics like those would attract so would put normal pics up
It seems true men will **** anything. The amount of unattractive overweight women on here who mention in their profile what they want and don't want is laughable. They should be grateful anyone messages them. MUST be real desperate men on here. The attitude by these women is actually quite amusing. Seeing some unintelligent heffer making ridiculous demands sums it up. POF- where average looking women become divas!
Then there's the other kind. The strong independent type who love to say they don't need a man. They're normally teachers, whose only love is their job. Their longest relationship has only been less than a year because work gets in the way. They might learn when they're 60 years old alone except for a dozen cats
Let's be honest if you're a woman that's any sort of catch and don't have issues you aren't still single at 37. The odd one maybe you'd make an exception for but way too many for it to a coincidence. They've gone through goodness knows how many men and now want to settle down lol
Oh keep a look out for photos of them kissing their pets and pics of huge tattoos which couldn't look more ladylike if they tried
Ps nice review for justfit website pretending to be a real review below lol
I have registered with POF 3 times in the past and I always wondered why there were so few replies when my messages were respectful and positive. Occasionally I would get a message from a member that had just closed their account so I began to piece the vague evidence together.
I think the vast majority of profiles are fake. I think POF is behind this because all of the scammers use Google text accounts that look like phone numbers. Many of these so-called members just start asking personal questions just like a hacker trying to collect information. They come on real strong if that doesn't work they magically disappear the next day. This makes sense only if there is a scam going on.
As far as the real profiles. They are the bottom of the barrel types of people. Women in their mid 30's to 50's who have listed their longest relationship as being 2 or 3 years. What does that tell you? That should be a red flag for any man seeking a long term relationship and not thinking with his $#*! all the time. In other words for you who are slow on the uptake. It implies that the woman sleeps around a lot, has commitment phobia, or both!
I don't think POF gives a damn about the integrity of their dating site because they merely sell their lists of millions of free members to advertisers, and that's where their revenue is generated besides conning guys with fake profile replies that get them excited enough to upgrade their account. READ THE REVIEWS EVEN ON THEIR OWN SITE THERE ARE NEGATIVE REVIEWS BECAUSE THEY DON'T EVEN POLICE COMMENTS MUCH LESS THE SCAMMERS, RECRUITERS OF PORNO HOOKUP SITES, OR PROSTITUTES. They booted me for 2 reasons. 1) Because I reported all the scammers I came across. 2) Because I called out all the women who had fake profiles full of contradictory verbiage that did not make sense. For instance 90% of all profiles say, " Casual dating but nothing serious" or "Want to date but nothing serious". What conclusion would you draw? Then some of the women actually said, "Am in a serious relationship but just want to date someone on the side. Don't judge me or you'll be deleted!" What dating site that had any integrity would allow such BS?
In order for this site to have 3 stars they must be from 2003 when you had a chance at meeting someone not today
When you finally finish wading through the TONS and TONS of fake profiles and ones trying to sell you nudes which must be 70 percent of the site you'll come to the real women and wish you hadn't bothered
To say they are rude aggressive and unpleasant is an understatement. I immediately thought nobody wants these women and they're bitter now. Misandry is rife
If I'm being polite I'd say they were all very average looking
If I was being honest id say they were either
Overweight,
Past their best,
Tattooed all over and proud!
Unintelligent
Utterly Deluded
An entire picky mob who all think they will get a male model and won't reply to anyone who doesn't look like one regardless of how they look. Online dating is for women not men that much I realised
If you're below average looking and mid 30s early 40s how can you have a checklist of 12 things a guy must say yes to? It's ridiculous the women act like that and they seriously wonder why they are single
They need to realise the difference between being realistic and being totally deluded. The older you get the more your worth goes down. It's like a car. Why would I would an old banger when I can get a decent model. I would wager the same women will be on here in 10 years time no doubt still nasty bitter and with the same photos up
I did chuckle when they put they enjoy road trips. You live in Wolverhampton ffs not near route 66 plus you don't drive!
They also like the beach when there's not one near for 300 miles. Also hobbies sleeping, snoozing and gaming aren't going to endear yourself to me
Ps what's with all the photos of women kissing their dogs? I like dogs but don't wanna kiss them. Love me love my dogs is a well worn headline they use.
Plenty of Fish... well this lake is not actually a lake. Its an office or dungeon with 40-50 year old computer sloths that run the show and play god! Conventional wisdom will tell us that love isnt something you go looking for, but at some point in your life bumps into you at the supermarket, at a football game, friends bbq, someones wedding etc etc. Yet for some reason we have all fallin for this fake fantasy that online dating is genuine and the way to go in this day and age. I am believer in love! Ive believed in it a few times in my life and will continue to do so as im an old fashioned romantic. I feel shame and regret in myself for being takin in by these so called "matchmakers". There are no sites at all in the online dating world that arent out for devastation and financial gain. Sure there are reviews about people citing all the great things about them but come on... we all no reviews arent formed by actual individuals. We are smarter than this. Heres my review ladies and gentleman... in poem form. Tonight we sit on our phones/computers piling through dozens of profiles of can he/she be the ones... hoping to find love and happiness in a digital age, glamorized ads that promise they are the best and all the rage... at what cost do we put on our hearts to find a match, all the while these heartbreakers are laughing at us while we look for a catch... im not impressed at how the year 2015 i was takin for my money, just to find a beauty i can call my honey... take heed all you lonely and dismayed, do not use any more dating sites because you are going to get played.
So theres a review you can take to the bank... oh wait it was 100% free! Take care all you wonderful beings looking to find something that we all need and want! Love ya!
TERRIBLE WEBSITE! I DID REGISTER 3 TIMES AND EVERY TIME I COULD NOT LOG IN! THEY USE MY INFO AND PICTURES AS A SPAM! LOTS OF FAKE PROFILES!
Answer: Oh yes, they want you to upgrade and pay! But when you pay you will see these profiles who you liked or who liked you disappear. They were nothing but bait-and-switch. You gain nothing when you pay, it's the silliest way to spend money. Are you looking for hook up or relationship? I wanted a relationship and I was really frustrated by Pof. Eventually I found what I was looking for on https://j4l.com/402007 But I've lost nearly a year on Pof. Not to mention emotional drain and money!
Answer: I just deactivated my account. This site is a sewer. Do not pay anything for this site or any site. I searched for free on other site( even paid ones you can search for free) and I saw the same guys on most of the other sites as well. I'm gonna grow old alone unless luck steps in and maybe I'll meet my guy IRL.
Answer: Yes it is if it's anything like my phone having the app sometimes shows that you're online all the time
Answer: Delete AND contact the company. If you know who took your pictures be sure to include the name on the profile that your pictures were used on, so they can deal with that person. Once you have deleted your profile, everything is GONE. I have never had anybody use my pictures on any other sites. I'm no great beauty, that could be the reason, Still, once your profile is deleted, everything is gone.
Answer: You cannot do it from the mobile site. You need to use your search, example safari and look up pof desktop version and go to the help in the top left. It will walk you thru it, if I remember correctly. Good luck
Answer: First, write to POF and explain. Now, and I mean NOW call up your credit card company and tell them what happened. I am sure POF will not contact you. Make sure to use the word "unacceptable" when describing the consumer service to the CC company about POF. Keep all emails too. Please keep me posted. Thanks Ann B.
Answer: STAY AWAY FROM THIS SCAMMING SITE! Any good you hear from or about it... DUH ITS THE SCAMMERS THAT WORK FOR EM. I been booted so many times due to unpopularity cuz i wont date trash so i get booted they keep your money they are garbage
Answer: Fake doesn't really describe them... more like downright liars!
Answer: Golden rule #1: Do onto others as you would have them do unto you Golden rule #2: Anything that sounds to good to be true, is not. Golden rule #3: Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Answer: POF is not free at all, you have to upgrade; become a paying member to be able to do anything interesting.
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