Seeking Arrangements

I'm an ex model and used SA for 2 years- I am 30 and based in London- 90% of the site are FAKES, LIARS and/or complete weirdos!
I always search men who earn over £500kna year- this shows a very small result of men so from that small result joy a 0.01% chance are genuiene.
I can say in the 2 years I was on SA I met 20 guys and only TWO earned serious money and were normal.
I had to search and message members every day and it was like a job in itself weeding out the good from the bad.
It's went to crap about a year ago as they don't vet the members and so men who are clerks can pretend to be CEOs.
I have not been back on as I seen they now CHARGE WONEN to join which goes against the whole point of the site- unless you register with a student email.
It's full of men who earn nothing pretending to have serious money.
My advice avoid and try somewhere like elite singles so u know they check out abd are earning serious money instead of SA where they all lie!
Shame as 2 years ago it was a great site but they don't have the genuiene members any more just sad fat fakes.

Don't waste your money, again 96 to 98% fake accounts of woman that are 9 and 10s and which you will never get a response.

Joined to try out sugar dating but honestly it was a waste of time and energy. Didn't trust it from the beginning, messages sounded to generic for me, with men asking me to contact them on kik or whatsapp. Added one on whatsapp and still felt pretty weird about it so I proceeded with caution. He had up no display photo or anything else that might give me an idea that this is a legitimate person. Anyway he offered me $800 usd as my weekly allowance if i just be a companion to him, no sex. Not that I was willing to give some stranger sex for money, but I found that as very odd. His reason for this was because his wife had died and he was just so sad. So he said he's ready to help and asked for my credit card statement because he wants to clear that up for me ofc I didn't send him anything like that. Two days after he asked for that he says that he is ready again to help me financially and he's gonna send me money but can't do it through paypal or zelle or anything like that. I asked him to send it through western union which he ignored. So he directed me to some website about checks, telling me which one to choose and whatever then telling me he will send routing number and account number and that I must have $64 to pay for them loool I came up with some excuse and blocked him instantly. So just saying this to say, if you hear this story don't buy it. They're just tryna rip you off, don't get caught

I am a findomme. My kink is to have submissive people OF ALL GENDERS financially support me. I mean, this is a Sugar site… isn't that what we are all here for? Anyway, I listed on my profile that I am interested into financial domination and would love to have a relationship with a likeminded individual. My account was suspended TWICE because they flagged it as commercial activity/ prostitution. Excuse me but what?! My bio said nothing about selling sex for money. I listed my username, the fact that I like financial domination, and what I was looking for in a partner… that's what all dating sites have in common. You introduce yourself and you write what you are looking for. When I reached out to customer service they basically told me I was flagged because it was "inappropriate" and because one user took offense to my use of the word financial domination they've decided to suspend me. I pled my case but they shut me down numerous times and tried forcing me to watch their stupid idiotic videos on conduct and etiquette. I DID NOTHING WRONG. I did not mention the sell of sex for money, I did not use foul language, I did not use racial slurs, I POSTED A BIO ABOUT ME AND A FETISH I WAS INTO. Kink shaming is so 2010. Seriously. This is insane. Don't use this site.

They refuse to correct my overcharges. I get a form letter each time I e mail them. So they ripped me off 4 times in 2 months@ $109 each charge.

I joined in March and have had a number of successful arrangements so I'm really happy. The word "arrangement" is really important because I'm looking for FWB not SD/SB and there are maybe only 5-10% of ladies looking for this. So I have to be patient sifting through the prostitutes, escorts and fake profiles (probably by men wanting to know how to talk with women...) but it's worth it and I am extremely selective! BTW I don't consider myself to be a Sugar Daddy because:
1. I don't do monthly allowances
2. I avoid doing pay per meets
I will however arrange and pay for a weekend away but without giving money, I'm a gentleman and I think it's chivalrous to pick up the tab. Here's food for thought: if the husband is the only wage earner in a couple then he is the one that picks up the tab for holidays and entertainment, so is there a lot of difference?

There are a small number of self-sufficient career ladies on the website who don't want money, they just want to be pampered, spoilt a bit and feel special with someone who respects them. Spend a nice time with someone nice where there's a real connection. It takes patience to find them, but it is possible! They, like me, just don't want or have the time for a regular relationship which is why SA works for me whereas traditional dating websites are a waste of time for me.
I only gave 4 stars because the website isn't perfect and bugs from time to time. But SA is the only website where I've found REAL FWB relationships, so I'm ok to pay my dues even if it's expensive because it works for what I'm looking for. If it's not working for you, then think carefully about what you're doing and what you're looking for!

Scam site owner little Asian guy Brandani entices hookers to join site for free
Owner Brandani lets hookers escorts prostitutes have free memberships
When solicited you for sex for money and you tell his Ho' s to get lost get off site get a job go some where else
Stop polluting the site. Little guy Asian owner Brandini get a few fake members to see you for money.
These prostitutes' he loves on the site complain they we told to get lost Little Asian owner Brandini has your account suspended. And doesn't refund the money. FYI EVERYONE DISPUTE THE CHARGES WITH YOUR CC COMPANY. THEY WILL REFUND YOUR MONEY F BRANDINI FAKE COMPANY TRYS TO RIP YOU OFF
DONT JOIN FAKE MEMBERS AND LOTS OF DRAMA WITH THIS LITTLE ASINA OWNER

You have to sift through all the fake and scam profiles.

I connected with a 42 year old SB. She has one son. Early teen which she shares with the ex every second weekend. The boy lives with the ex.

She is a business professional, really easy going, athletic, C cup and on the kinky side! We agreed on $300 ppm.

Our schedules don't line up so we've only connected three times since. It's a challenge but we message regularly. And she sends me Titty shots on Tuesdays! Lol She's a great find and we connected!

The second SB's 26, hot, reasonably slim and C cup. We agreed on $300 ppm. Was amazing the first couple weeks! She hadn't been with anyone for three months and was so aroused. Introduced each other on the way to the bedroom and she stripped down and nearly tore off my clothes.

That was the first couple weeks. We agreed to a $1000 monthly allowance.

ALL Downhill from there! We lasted about eight months. Started slowly. Take her to pick up hair extensions. We get there and she said she needed $80. I hesitated... then gave it to her! Big mistake!

Sex was still really amazing! Then she'd ask for a ride to her nail appointment. I was to pick her up in 45 minutes. She comes out and says she needed $140. Crazy, I paid, then told her that this isn't working out and we were done!

She sucked up. I mean, the sex was really amazing!

We went along pretty good for about four months. Arguing, splitting up a couple times! Sex went from amazing to, she'd come four times in ten minutes. So, you have to drive me somewhere!

The demands started coming regularly!

Then, she tried to extort money out of me! Threatened me, my family, where she thought I worked!

She thought she knew more about me than I had revealed. She really knew nothing and there was nothing she could really do to me. She still messages every few months!

Gentlemen, do not let your SB know anything about you or you could be down that road.

There are numerous red flags on this site:

1/ Most profile pics appear airbrushed, or as stock photos, and have text seemingly written by impersonators who speak English as a second language (i. E. subtle grammatical errors and/or similarly themed text from one profile to another).

2/ You will be contacted by people/profiles on different continents (usually before purchasing the service in order to falsely pique your curiosity and get your hopes up). Their messages will usually be 1-2 sentences of complements, formulaically written, and with nothing substantive.

3/ Most females ask for money, but explicitly state they have no intention of ever meeting up.

4/ The majority of female profiles are under 30 years old (which is pretty convenient when you're preying mostly on horny, desperate men).

5/ Most profiles aren't written as other normal dating sites are written. For example, these profiles usually don't mention anything about specific current events, hobbies, or mass entertainment/western culture. Instead female seekingarrangment profiles usually just talk about money, achieving an otherwise unsustainable lifestyle, being showered with luxury goods, and having you provide it to them with "no strings attached". See point 3.

6/ Very few of the pictures of the women have any normal detail in them such as being taken in public places such as parks or restaurants or near other landmarks, very few photos include groups of friends, family, pets, or have any brand name products in the background usually (normally you'd expect to see some "real life" products or scenarios in pictures of real profiles).

Basically, in my opinion, seekingarrangement is this decade's version of a Nigerian email scam, or, boiler room stock broker. For the most part it's a fraud.

My advice would be to not buy the service.

I hate this site with a passion. I swear every "golddigger"/scammer site I use I always end up with fake accounts trying to set me up. I know how to reverse phone look up and look up photos. I also have a friend who can send stuff to his cousin to see if that person is legit. I can't stand "Nigerian scammers, Foreign scammers nor fake US people" pretending to be someone they are not for the sole purpose to abuse women in a physically torturing way.
I appreciate honesty, but I can't stand picky SD who mainly want Whites and Latinas and assume that all Black women are trouble or have attitudes. You don't want to be liked sole based off of your looks and money yet because your in the position with the money you feel the need to be prejudice.
I also can't stand being in fear that I could be talking to law enforcement. I understand some of them are trying to help prevent harm by an fake SD, but I am also not in the mood to go to jail because i'm tired of the government sticking their greedy hands in my pocket.
I also cannot understand why a these men who are engaged or anything serious like marriage cheat. Just ask and be fair about it to your partner. I prefer single, divorced or widowed men, but we all can't get what we want. Since it's a law that their wives can sue for all the money spent on a SB and possibly be thrown in jail, I already know a majority of the fake "man" will do anything and everything to save their own $#*! so their wives won't take all of their money.
To sum it up, this site along with many others is bull $#*! when it comes to helping an SB's. They cater too much to people in general with money and don't care about your well being until something bad happens so their precious little set doesn't get a bad review or shut down.

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My roommates and I tried this seeking arrangement and quite honestly all it is is a front for prostitution and escorting that's it flat out sex for money! I had had several gentleman offer me two to $500 plus for sex and that is called solicitation and this is also called sexual trafficking! And this is something I aim to stop at quite honestly they've got to be stopped this place has got to go out of business there are a lot of young girls that are getting wrapped up into this whole sugar daddy thing when all it is horrified word for prostitute and escorting! If you're smart stay away from the dating sites and just meet someone you know through Facebook or something like that but make sure it's a mutual friend and by all means stay safe because this particular website is for nothing but predators and trolls seeking out women that don't have money and offering them gifts and money for sex and exchange! It is the worst site I've ever come across in my life and I hope that I can take it down and put these people in jail for even thinking of having such a website like this.

We both actually met up with a gentleman that lied about his age and had no teeth! Now keep in mind he was supposed to be back around verified and checked so I looked at him and I could tell he wasn't 54 years old and you could tell he was 64 or 70! Anyhow he was right up front about he wanted and he was so gross and nasty he made my skin crawl and we couldn't leave fast enough thank God we were at a public restaurant and we were safe and I also carry mace which doesn't hurt however I will never sign up for any other site ever again because they are just fronts and I'm sick of death of seeing women being abused and treated like objects and play toys, we are goddesses not to be treated as such and this has got to stop again I repeat sexual trafficking is wrong it's illegal and it's got to be stopped in any way shape or form.

I had two profiles on there. One was well written and accurate and represented the real me: a young 39 year old who's 6'0 tall, fit, with a net worth of 5 million. I emailed women like I would on any dating site. I read their profiles, was respectful, and probably 50% of the emails I sent out were responded to. I met with 6-7 women though was asked out by many more bit whom I said no to. On dates I would never discuss an allowance until I felt comfortable and trusted the person... usually on the 3rd date.

My other profile was experimental and fake. It was of an old guy who was 59 who was fat, bald, and ugly. Fake profile guy simply emailed women saying he would pay them an "x" amount per month. 99 percent of women responded. Even though this fake profile had less net worth and was of an old guy every girl responded. Fake profile guy spelled miserably and referred to women as babes or hotties. Some girls who made a date with me on my real profile would even cancel for the fake guy just because he was direct in offering money. Idiots.

I ultimately then tried to figure out how low of an allowance would women on there tolerate despite being old, fat, ugly, bald, and rude. I came up with 3000. Even funnier was how the women would call this guy handsome or sexy.

I'm done with the site. Only 1% of the women on there are normal. The rest are just looking for the highest bidder. I empirically proved it. I did meet two women who never responded to the fake profile, even though the offer was 7500 a month. I ultimately came to respect them and had a low key, fun dating experience with those two that lasted for nearly a year each.

As a Sugar baby this website helped me to complete college without student loans. I am very grateful to be a sugar baby of over four years now.