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Overview

Roommates.com has a rating of 2.1 stars from 322 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Roommates.com most frequently mention total scam, pay money, and read messages problems. Roommates.com ranks 10th among Roommate sites.

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    48
  • Value
    48
  • Shipping
    15
  • Returns
    21
  • Quality
    39

This company responds to reviews on average within 3 hours

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Top Positive Review

“Frustrated”

Nina E.
3/18/24

I have a Premium account with Roommates.com. Why are all messages going unread? I've never had this happen in the past. It's like no matter how many potential roommates I reach out to, this is happening. Frustrating..

Top Critical Review

“It's a HUGE scam”

Mashwe H.
7/22/24

I read the reviews and I am a believer of all that was said, they constantly send you msgs claiming you have a match, but no one ever responds, when I tried to call to inquire before I pay, they don't respond just ask to leave msgs that is never answered, it is a HUGE scam don't pay these guys they are trying to rob you

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Thumbnail of user jol229
Tennessee
1 review
4 helpful votes
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June 14th, 2016

I only had a few matches (6-8) who were seeking in my area for my price but when it came down to actually trying to reach out and get in touch with these matches, no one would respond to my queries. The least they could have done would be to reply, "No thanks, not interested." The gentleman who contacted me was not even one of my matches but I think he searched in a broader range and found me. He moves in tomorrow!

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Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

It is frustrating when people won't respond to at least let you know they read your messages, but that is great news that you were still able to find a roommate using the site.

Congratulations!

Roommates.com Customer Support
support@roommates.com

Thumbnail of user jonathanh64
New York
11 reviews
18 helpful votes
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April 16th, 2016

This company might be ok if they were upfront about what you can do for free.
I spent a week desperately waiting for a response to my messages to get a roommate fast (i got a job offer in a different city and need to move fast), only to receive a message, and find out that i can not read it or any message without paying.
If they told me this up front, it would be ok, but waiting to tell me this after i have wasted a week of my time and someone else's seems really dishonest.
Honestly, craigslist works much better and is free.
*Update*
I give the company credit, they responded to this review, quickly, calmly and in a professional manner. However, in my experience, most companies will provide a checklist of features at each price point upon creation of an account, so the customer is not unpleasantly surprised and forced to upgrade.
But i am really impressed with how fast they replied to this, good work.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

We are sorry that you felt misled regarding the memberships to read your incoming messages. That was not our intention. We do have the Frequently Asked Questions list under the More Info tab before you sign up and on the Support tab on your account once you sign in, which explains the cost and how the site works. It is also posted in the Terms of Service on the site. You are always welcome to post your contact information in the free messages that you send to other members, which has worked great for many of our members that do not wish to pay for a membership.

We would love to give you more tips to make your search more successful. If you are still looking for a roommate contact us at support@roommates.com.

Roommates Customer Support

Thumbnail of user laynad1
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2018

All of the recommendations on this site are from top-notch scammers that basically scam for a living. They'll be places that are willing to let you stay there rent free, and they would actually pay you to babysit their child. Do not fall for these scams. If anyone gives you a check and asks you to deposit it and spend money then A) go to your local bank and check if it's fake OR B) do not deposit that check no matter what! They will steal your money! Please be safe and go to actual trustworthy sites.

Remember, if something looks too good to be true, it most likely is. Do not give too much info out. Do some reverse image/phone # searches before you give out any more info! You'll save yourself a lot of time, money, and headaches. Be safe! Don't waste your time on this scam site that's no better than craigslist (it's probably worse).

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Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

Those are all great tips! Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so you do have to do your homework. We are sorry you are not happy with the site and we assure you that Roommates.com is not a scam.

We have assisted countless members in finding the perfect roommate. We are doing all we can to stop the scammers. Additionally, we have implemented several new security features we believe will reduce the amount of scamming activity on the site.

Obviously we would love to see everyone who uses Roommates.com be successful in their search for a roommate. However, we do realize that is not always the case as the process of finding a roommate can be difficult.

If you are still looking and would be willing to give us another try, we do have some tips to help you make the most out of Roommates.com and would like the opportunity to assist you in finding a roommate.

Please let us know how we can improve our service. If you are interested in learning more about utilizing Roommates.com contact us at support@roommates.com.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user mariek477
California
1 review
5 helpful votes
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December 13th, 2022

Despite the negative reviews, I signed up for this site, thinking my luck would be better. Nope. Scammers paradise. I'd get a "perfect match" notification, only to find the profile gone by the time I clicked on the message. Don't bother with this site. I never thought I would say this, but Craigslist is a dream compared to this site. Their "pay to play" model is just plain dumb considering all the scammers on the site.

Roommates.com: No need to post your canned response about the site being a bulletin board in which people post for roommates, etc. We get it. Site still sucks.

Tip for consumers:
Don't bother.

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Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

It's unfortunate that the site didn't work out for you. We do appreciate the feedback and it will be taken into consideration for future site improvements.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user libbya28
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 17th, 2022

Total waste of money. There are not enough people on there to really find anyone. You have to pay to communicate, which is fine, but there has to be people to communicate with. I contacted them after less than two weeks and was told no refunds. Apparently this is a common experience. Found my roommate from craigslist, lol.

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Thumbnail of user benb143
California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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July 26th, 2017

Roommates.com is a great service that connects you to trustworthy people. I found a great roommate from this site! Giving 4 stars instead of 5 because I don't get nearly as many leads as I do from other sources [i. E. craigslist and facebook], but in the end Roommates.com was the source that ultimately allowed me to reach my goal. Very easy to set up and free to use

Thumbnail of user kimberlyk97
Illinois
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 13th, 2018

If you add a phrase in your ad about checking background info you will have better luck. Meet people at public places first before bringing them to your home. I asked that applicants bring their driver's licenses and proof of income to meetings. Talk with friends about how you can do this in a way that meets your needs and respects your future roommate. Put things in writing before moving in.

Thumbnail of user davids214
California
1 review
7 helpful votes
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March 21st, 2014

I had to cancel my listing once I realized what they were doing. Here was my comment to them: There is no functionality except to see a match or listing but only basic information without upgrading. There is no way to communicate with prospects without upgrading. In fact there is really nothing useful that can be done without upgrading. Why do you allow people to even post for free. I was VERY dissatisfied and your service is useless to me and I found it underhanded and misleading. If you had just said that this is NOT a free service up front, it would have at least been honest. I will be using another service and posting my experience regarding Roommates.com.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

This is Roommates.com Customer Support.

I am sorry to hear about your dissatisfaction with Roommates.com as well as the fact that you feel misled by the website with regard to the upgraded memberships. Please understand that is not our intention.

A Roommates.com Basic Membership is free. As a basic member you can add a profile, browse your matches and send RoomMail messages all for free. As a Choice Member, you can open emails, view larger photos, maps, and the comments sections of other member's profiles

When you go to the Roommates.com website under the More Info tab, you will find the Frequently Asked Questions page. On this page you will find information on how the site works with the free membership and the upgraded membership, along with the membership cost options. We encourage you to send out messages to your matches. Most members will upgrade so they can communicate directly with their potential roommate.

When we started this service, we designed the site so that people are able to utilize the website without purchasing a membership and many of our users have successfully found roommates this way. The most common ways are to send contact information within messages to other users and post contact information within profile descriptions for other users to see. So while it is true that without having a paid membership you do not have the benefit of being able to read Roommates.com emails that you receive, you do still have the opportunity to achieve your goals while utilizing the free portions of the site.

If you have any further questions, please don't hesitate to contact our Customer Support through the website and we will be happy to assist you.

Roommates.com Customer Support
support@roommates.com

Thumbnail of user jaredc271
Rhode Island
1 review
2 helpful votes
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October 8th, 2022

I'm a new member and I have already been reached out to by scammers within 24 hours of being on the site. I have found one real person but aside from that it has not been a positive or productive outcome. The scammers also get aggressive.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so there will be all kinds on the site, but we do provide a Report and Block button on every profile and in the message center to assist in bringing accounts to light for customer service to remove and to keep yourself and other safe on the site.

If you have additional questions please contact us at support@roommates.com.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user kayleh
Missouri
1 review
2 helpful votes
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June 22nd, 2016

Roommates.com seriously was awesome in helping me find a roommate. I signed up on a few other websites to find a roommate and no others quite compared. I am extremely organized and felt like roommates.com and their layout was as well. It was easy to describe what I had available for rent as well as list all of the features and details. They also have an internal email feature that makes it easy to communicate with potential future roommates without giving out any of your personal contact information. I upgraded to the 30 day membership so I could have access to view emails from potentials as well as have access to other information. I literally found and decided upon my roommate 1 day before my upgraded membership expired, which is awesome because I'm super picky and I did not even know that it was expiring the next day! I really do recommend this and only this website if you're searching for a roommate!

Thumbnail of user wesh4
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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August 31st, 2011

As with the other reviews, I can verify everything that they've said is true. As a paying member, you are subjected to scams. When you turn these scammers in, nothing is done to remove them from the site. Other non-paying members can not view your profile or read your e-mails. If you send an e-mail to complain about the lack of customer service, you will get a rude response telling you to just discontinue use of their service. They will not offer you a refund. They are a waste of money. Don't bother.

Thumbnail of user susanw2817
Virginia
1 review
2 helpful votes
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July 3rd, 2022
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Roommates.com did exactly what it advertises. I got on and paid for the use of it. The person renting a room also paid her part. It took me about a week to find a roommate. The reviews complain about scammers, but you will find them everywhere, Craig's list and Facebook included. I am very satisfied with my experience with roommates.com and if needed, will use them again.

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Thumbnail of user michellej12
Arizona
1 review
10 helpful votes
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July 16th, 2013

This website sucks! I am sorry for setting up an account, what a waste of time- I can't set my preference to narrow my search and then to have to upgrade just to figure what area of phoenix these listings are located. I will blog about my experience through Roommates.com not a very easy or rewarding experience this has been for me. I am more frustrated then ever wasting my time with this ridiculous site. I will spend more time validating through rating blogs about you ROOMMATE.COM good luck with your business, I would rather go through craigslist then to pay roommate.com who trick viewers to setup an account only to request payment for capabilities to view information on available roommate ads from the start of creating an account. Roommate doesn't operate business on integrity or for the interest of internet prospectors.

Thumbnail of user andreap50
Colorado
1 review
6 helpful votes
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February 26th, 2016

You can't do anything in the free version of the site that would lead towards finding a new roommate. You can't see what a person writes about themselves, you can't read their messages, you can't see their photos or exchange contact info. The only thing you can do is write a profile for free. I suppose that's convenient for the service to claim they have lots of people using the site. A bunch of free profiles seeing their matches, sending messages in the dark, hoping the other person has a paid account. But for $20/month, it seems like quite the premium for a bare bones profile matching and message services. It doesn't really have any vetting behind it, to give it an appeal over just using something that is free, like Craigslist, or posting on community Reddit/facebook groups etc.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

I am sorry to hear about your dissatisfaction with Roommates.com. When we started this service, we designed the site so that people are able to utilize the website without purchasing a membership and many of our users have successfully found roommates this way. You are welcome to list your contact information in the comments section of your profile and include it in any messages that you send out. All outgoing messages are free and you can see the nickname of the member on incoming messages.

As with most websites, there are added benefits to purchasing an upgrade. Those benefits include having full access to your roommates.com emails as well as being able to view larger photos, maps, and the comment sections of other member's profiles. Purchasing an upgraded membership can be done at any time. Many individuals who utilize Roommates.com wait to purchase an upgrade until they have several emails waiting for them. This way, they fully maximize their upgrade.

If you have any questions on how to utilize the website and/or make the most out of your membership, please let me know. We will be happy to provide you with additional tips on using Roommates.com.

Roommates.com Customer Support
support@roommates.com

Thumbnail of user cd83
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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March 3rd, 2016

In 2008, I had the opportunity to move to Boulder, Colorado for a new position. Not knowing the area well--and not having time to travel there to investigate--I found Roommates.com and was able to connect with a family that had a basement to rent. It worked perfectly for me! After a couple phone calls and providing references to my prospective landlord/roommate, I made the commitment and moved to Colorado! I ended up staying in that rental for two years, much longer than originally intended as it worked out so well.

A couple years later, I went through the same process when moving to northern Virginia for a job in DC. Worked great again, and while my landlord eventually decided to no longer want a roommate, I was once again able to use Roommates.com to find my next residence!

I would not hesitate to use them again if the need arose. Just be sure to *exchange* references with your prospective landlord/roommate and check them before committing.

Try it!

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Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

Thank you for being so loyal to our site. We are thrilled that you were able to find such good places long distance. We appreciate your helpful tips regarding checking out the references before committing. Thank you!

Roommates.com Customer Support
support@roommates.com

Thumbnail of user shirleyd319
New York
1 review
3 helpful votes
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November 15th, 2020

I am a new customer and I sign up and was approved by them via email, I even upgrade. They sent me some matches but when i went to log into, their system would not take my log in (aol) or my password. I request a reset - several times and have not gotten anything at all. Is this site a SCAM? I am wondering since I am not getting a reply from them. Has anyone else had this issue?

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

Please make sure you are sending your email to support@roommates.com and check your spam or junk folders to make sure our responses aren't ending up in there.

We are happy to assist you and respond to all emails received within a day.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user sherrir38
Virginia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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August 27th, 2019

I have used roommate. Com for several years. It is a little more expensive then other sites but in the scheme of renting, it is not ridiculous. I have sent many messages that have gone unanswered. I assume the receiver did not want to pay to get the message. I feel like if they will not pay to receive messages one they're not very serious about finding a place to live and two if they won't pay $15 to help themselves find a place will they pay the rent repeatedly on time. I have been successful using this site. I do wish it had a cheaper annual fee that you could use instead of the shorter more expensive ones.

Thumbnail of user elainer18
Pennsylvania
1 review
0 helpful votes
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March 31st, 2016

When I decided to place an ad for a roommate in my home, I was reluctant about the type of person responding as this was a new experience for me. I started searching for a site specific to my needs and came across Roommates.com. I joined and placed my posting and within a week or two received an email from a potential roommate. She is an awesome person, honest, caring, professional... she is my friend! I am looking for another roommate to join us. Thank you so very much. Elaine

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

We are happy you were able to find a roommate and a friend! That is great!

Roommates.com Customer Support
support@roommates.com

Thumbnail of user bennetth32
Virginia
1 review
3 helpful votes
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August 4th, 2021

The site encourages you to sign up and create a profile without ever revealing that you have to pay a fee in order to read the messages that people send you. It's only after you've put in the work of creating a profile, and you get a notification that someone sent you a message, that the site reveals you have to "upgrade" in order to read the message.

This is obviously intentionally deceptive on their part. If they wanted people to make an informed decision about whether to sign up, they'd say right on the front page, "If you create a profile, you have to be prepared to pay or it won't work."

This also allows them to make deceptive claims about how many users are on their site. They can count everyone who creates a free profile as a "user", without disclosing that most of those "users" abandoned their profile as soon as they found out they had to pay.

Tip for consumers:
The number of "users" on their site is vastly exaggerated, since they are counting everyone as a "user" who abandoned their account once they found out they would have to pay.

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Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

Thank you for your comments they are important to us and will be taken into consideration for future site improvements.

You are able to utilize the free portion of the website to find a roommate by including your contact information in the free messages that you can send out to members so that only one of you have to pay for a membership. We've assisted countless members in finding a roommate with this option.

Our Terms of Service that you agree to when creating an account do include all the Fees and Costs information regarding the memberships.

If you would like to give us another try and get some helpful tips on how to utilize the site to the fullest please contact us at support@roommates.com.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user jillc167
Florida
1 review
8 helpful votes
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May 24th, 2019

My husband and I had never done anything like this before and saw this site had good reviews so we gave it a try.

At first they seemed good. We got a few calls, one or two people came out to see the room. But the longer we were on, the less action we got. I also noticed I was seeing the same people looking for a room for months at a time.

The kicker for me is that in the last 6 weeks I noticed people being removed from my matches only to come back on a few days later as a match.

I am currently working with a realtor at full price to rent my room. We had no choice, this sight just did not work.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so the amount of response will vary depending on who is looking in your area.

If members unhide their profile, change their status or reactivate their account they will show up in your matches again.

It's unfortunate you didn't have any luck finding a roommate on our site, but if you want to try us again we can give you some helpful tips on how to get the most out of your membership by contacting us at support@roommates.com. Hope to hear from you soon!

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user jd833
Florida
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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June 28th, 2021

The site has low activity; same rooms appear month after month.
Messages are not prompt, so by the time received the person contacting you may have disappeared or taken a different room depending on role.
Quality of the users varies, and nothing is vetted -- not the renters, not the landlords.

Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your money.

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Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

It's unfortunate that you did not have any luck finding a roommate on the site.

As a bulletin board service responses will vary depending on your location and who is looking or offering in that area. We aren't able to guarantee other members will respond to your inquiries.

If you would like some helpful tips on using the site please contact us at support@roommates.com.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user chrisa77
New York
2 reviews
9 helpful votes
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August 26th, 2014

I agree. Roommates.com is a huge waste of time and money. I was looking to rent a room in NYC. After upgrading for the 1 month unlimited access, I sent out about 40 inquires. Of the 10 or so that actually replied, 9 were from scam artists. The tenth I'm not sure that he was or not. The site does alert you about scammers. Basically everyone that replied to me, I received a message from the administrators that the user was a fraud and suppressed. Complete waste of time and money. I don't mind paying to upgrade if I'm going to get what I need. With this site it's not worth it. I believe almost 90% of the profiles are scammers. Zero stars.

Tip for consumers:
Don't waste your money.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

This is Roommates.com Customer Support.

I am sorry to hear that you were contacted by a scammer and I understand that finding a roommate can be a difficult and frustrating process, especially if you are not receiving as many responses as you'd like.

If you paid for a membership and the message received was a scam message, you are entitled to a refund.

When a fraudulent account is detected by our Fraud Department, the account and any messages sent from that account are automatically removed in order to protect the legitimate members of Roommates.com. Unfortunately, many times scammers don't make themselves known until they get you to email them through their private email address, which Roommates is not privy to. We are doing all we can to protect our members and keep scammers from posting on our site.

Roommates.com is a bulletin board service. As always, some areas may have more roommate potential than others, but aside from your My Matches List, we also offer a Power Search, and a Basic Search option that can assist in increasing your Match list.

Please contact our Customer Support through the website and we will be happy to assist you with a refund.

Roommates.com Customer Support
support@roommates.com

Thumbnail of user kansass
Washington
1 review
0 helpful votes
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January 30th, 2018

Love this website! It's a paid account, but it's worth it, plus it weeds out all the baddies, in my opinion. Not only did i find a great roommate through roommates.com, but had so many great potential people contact me! Highly recommend it!

Thumbnail of user danielles119
California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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July 26th, 2017

I found a roommate through here, and trusted it because I thought it would go by personality. I emailed roommates.com support just to let them know that it simply just did not work for me and it was a horrible experience. All they replied back was that I should have done a background check. Well, background checks don't always show that people are insane and thieves. I am more upset with the lack of caring by the website more so than my horrible experience with my roommate. Finding a roommate in a big city that you do not know anyone is hard enough, and though in theory this website is a great idea, they need to show a little bit more compassion for when it doesn't work. I wish they would at least refund people when their website does not work. I will not be recommending this to anyone, and highly believe you should not use it. Save your money.

Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

We are glad that you found a roommate on the site, but it’s unfortunate the roommate you chose didn’t work out. The site doesn’t have options to match personalities, it just matches basic preferences, such as location, smoking, pets, etc. There is no guarantee that roommates will be a good fit when using a bulletin board service unless you have spent a good chunk of time with them, and even then it is not the same as living together. The site doesn’t do background checks or prescreen its members so you do have to be careful and use caution.

Hopefully you will find a new roommate soon that you are happy with.

If you have additional questions don’t hesitate to contacts at support@roommates.com.

Roommates.com Support

Thumbnail of user siobhanp8
Texas
1 review
10 helpful votes
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January 13th, 2021

This is the second time I have tried Roommates.com. It's cheap, 10 bucks a month but it's still a waste of 10 dollars. I have found people use it as a dating site(I'm a women, if I'm looking for a date I'll go on Match)
The people I have approached that have a listing start giving me all kinds of excuses(I can't show the room for two months, I'm renting it as Airbnb right now, etc) If you don't have a room, get off the site!
I feel like people are on there for giggles just to see how much they might get...
Waste of time!

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Thumbnail of user jessicar18
Customer-Support -. – Roommates.com Rep

Hello,

It's unfortunate you weren't able to find a roommate on the site. Roommates.com is a bulletin board service so you do have to do your homework to find the right match, but we have assisted countless members with finding a roommate.

There is a report button on each profile so you can report those that aren't on the site for the right reasons and we do our best to keep them off the site.

Hopefully you have found a roommate by now. If you would like to try the site again and want some helpful tips on using the free portion of the site please contact us at support@roommates.com.

Roommates.com Support

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