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Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.5 stars from 386 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and sugar daddies problems. Seeking Arrangements ranks 694th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Seeking.com, still 4 starts.”

Abu A.
12/30/23

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Top Critical Review

“Seeking.com”

Maddy B.
7/22/24

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you. Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

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Thumbnail of user nathanielw14
Canada
1 review
25 helpful votes
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May 8th, 2016

I'm 5'11 pretty good looking male model, ive messaged over 40 people and not one of them has seen the messages or responded back, or even viewed my profile... I think 90 % of the accounts are fake accounts they have implemented into the website. STOP SCAMMING YOUR CUSTOMERS WITH FAKE MILLIONAIRE PROFILES

Thumbnail of user alpham39
India
1 review
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February 14th, 2023

Found this girl on sa from Bangalore. Tg I'd loyaltypls,Worth the time and fun. Would suggest you guys
If you looking for a great time. Charges more but worth it n well behaved girl. Very sexy

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Thumbnail of user williamm1088
New Hampshire
1 review
8 helpful votes
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September 5th, 2019

This site is filled with liars, thieves and scammers. Both men and women. Stay away. Eventually the site will take your money by closing your account without a refund.

Thumbnail of user camilas12
Texas
1 review
8 helpful votes
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November 13th, 2019

I think I was very disappointed when I realized that in this website most men were basic people with some money in their pockets.
And a lot of scammers.

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Oklahoma
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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September 16th, 2021

Girl scammed me out of almost $1000, I had all the evidence, they blocked her account. She just created another one, with pictures of herself, I let them know, and they then go and ban me without a reason. And I had just paid them about $260 to re-up my short time having membership. NO REFUND, NO EXPLANATION!

Borderline Fraud by the company.

Tip for consumers:
Watch out, the website does not get rid of bad actors!!!

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Thumbnail of user cheny15
Singapore
11 reviews
66 helpful votes
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September 6th, 2019

When registering, I saw this site asking about your net worth and yearly income. Started browsing the girls and I thought it'd be great if we can message normally. Only to know that you'll get locked out after 3 messages or so. Got a reply and here we go with the "upgrade to Premium to read". See the premium pricing, 90$. A small amount of money to prove you're a real daddy, but probably feeds the devs (and the girl you like) for days.

You'll probably feel good that girls starts messaging you and lets you see their photos, but you'll feel bad after you realize that you actually get nothing more unless you pay, worse if you know that those girls are either fake or about to spend your one year income in one or two days.

Oh it's also funny that girls gets everything for free so don't think that their premium badge means they bought the same feature as guys. They could get it for free by requesting to the guys, and they can gain access to messages for free, while guys have to be on premium.

Ultimate gambling site.

Tip for consumers:
You rich or you lose

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Not the girls

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Thumbnail of user kimbellaw
Switzerland
1 review
7 helpful votes
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March 20th, 2017

I got suspended like 3times... I think they did that so they can use the profile to there own benefits... they are scams it's not a good web site stay away don't west time

Thumbnail of user jamesm1622
Colorado
1 review
33 helpful votes
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January 16th, 2019

I was on Seeking Arrangement, now Seeking.com for a couple of years. First year I only met one woman and she had been released just that day from a women's abuse shelter. Scary.

I have found that there are 4 types of women on the site:

1) prostitutes/escort: looking to have one time sex with you for money.

2) scammers... this is by far the largest group of women. They talk to you like they're a nice girl until the day you're going to meet (maybe sooner), then their car breaks down, or they can't pay rent, whatever. They know enough to build a relationship with you by text and then take your money. I've sent money to numerous women and then they never show up. Never.

3) Women who think you're going to send them money monthly and they don't even need to meet you. One women wanted $6,000/mo and when I said I wanted to meet she told me that was a violation of the site's TOS.

4) There are a handful of real women in a financial jam looking to become a SB. I've had 3 such arrangements. Short term because these women are generally quite unstable.

I was banned from the site for allegedly using escort language (not intentionally) and they won't reconsider even though I was and am looking for a SB.

Spent thousands of dollars mostly for nothing. The site is addictive though because you always think this one may be real...

Thumbnail of user sama912
Colorado
1 review
0 helpful votes
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August 6th, 2022

I had posted a review before, now after some time. Thought of posting another review with new experiences my friends had on this site. Men post womens pics for revenge and men disguised in women profiles and ask to send money, women living in other countries and faking that they are in your area and ask to help them thru Venmo etc. obviously many men including my friends and myself in past reported to customer service and the trick customer service plays is when you report they block those woken from your search but the member continues to be active to prey on others. Some lazy women obviously Learnt the tricks to make 100-400$ a day by faking and promoting their webcam porn on this site with no vigilance by customer service. Men pay for this $#*!ty site more than 110$ per month to realize All these scammers and lose money and women on other side join for free and steal Money and get away free.

Bottom line is such sites should be taken off. The owner Brandon wade lives thousands of miles and makes millions off of members and promoting prostitution on site and saying some choice words to cover his prostitution site. So he wants all women scammers or fakes to be On site to promote and lie to men that there are thousands of women

Tip for consumers:
Once you pay forget about money as they don’t refund for any reason. Infact when prostitutes complain about you, they take your money and ban you from site

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Thumbnail of user gp117
Nevada
1 review
6 helpful votes
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April 9th, 2020

Site is filled with scams, some are guys pretending to be girls to get money. Also even if you pay for a membership the site is quick to delete your account. Stay away.

Thumbnail of user imannj
Florida
1 review
3 helpful votes
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December 23rd, 2020

This website caused me so much stress and trouble. Men who claim to want to spoil you end up being con artists and scammers who want to get you in financial trouble with banks and fraud. The website does nothing to limit or prevent these people, it's a shame. I had to get questioned and my bank account closed, now in extreme debt because someone wasted my time and scammed me on this website. Do not believe or trust anyone on this website and by all means DO NOT DEPOSIT OR TRY TO CASH ANY CHECKS SOMEONE SENDS YOU! Please take my advice!

Thumbnail of user derickd9
Iowa
1 review
7 helpful votes
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May 28th, 2019

Paid a premium account and a day after, got banned from the platform. I have violated a rule, still it's not fair for banning me instead of suspending. Basically, they scammed me $90!

Thumbnail of user evelyng288
New Jersey
1 review
2 helpful votes
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March 30th, 2022

I contacted them regarding the premium upgrade to my account since student emails are entitled to free premium upgrades. Their response to my question was in turn to SUSPEND MY ACCOUNT for asking for money upfront WHICH I NEVER HAD. I had only just created my account the day prior and barely talked to anyone on the site. I emailed them back and told them that this was a mistake and to kindly correct the error & that they never even answered my initial question and they told me that the next time anyone reports me I will be permanently banned. I'm so over this site and I only made my page yesterday.

Tip for consumers:
Beware of emailing them about account issues. They will just suspend you instead of handling the problems. Worst customer service on a dating site and I’ve dealt with apps that don’t even have a customer service department.

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Thumbnail of user courtneyc41
North Carolina
4 reviews
45 helpful votes
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October 1st, 2016

This is by far the grossest, ridiculous site I've ever been apart of. I've been a member of the site for a year now and the guys that hit me up on there are rude, arrogant perverts. This site should be ILLEGAL, men don't want sugar babbies they want prostitutes. I've never met one man off that site who wanted to take me on a vacation with him... or spoil me buy me dinner, take me on his boat... none of that bull$#*! they rant about in their 'about mes' all they want is sex! But then call girls prostitutes because they need financial help. It's just so $#*! backwards. I recently got 'suspended' because I reported a guy who admitted he was jacking off to my photos and told the site manager (who I'm convinced is a pervert himself) that they need to take care of this problem and need to better monitor men on there. So I'm sure to take care of that problem they got rid of me. Anyways! Just stay away from this site ladies... if you want a good sugar daddy who is sweet go to a bar! Or a really nice restaurant. Don't get me wrong though there are some really good men on there but it's like finding a needle in a hay stack honestly! Good luck!

Thumbnail of user markm194
Texas
1 review
15 helpful votes
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August 21st, 2015

This company uses any means to take your money and never refund you.
They provide information of women and men who do not exist as they are computer generated pictures and text...

PLEASE DO NOT GET SUCKED IN THIS SCAM.

Thumbnail of user danielbernardini5
Pennsylvania
1 review
5 helpful votes
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May 24th, 2023

I made an account, had it deleted same day for NO reason, then had zero explanation for the deletion and was told by Zoey, that she would ignore all future messages. I find it highly irresponsible to have a support team that lacks basic communication and support. What if she or the team made a wrong decision? No consequences or apology for that? That is very sad for a company and not a good look at all. I was told to review the FAQ's which I did and nowhere there did it say anything i did to be permanently banned. Of course, god forbid they even tell you what you did in the first place. Whatever support team they are running is mediocre to put it nicely. Your support team can't offer assistance, feedback, or an apology for wrongdoing? That's quite laughable. Clearly this site doesn't understand what support means. Thank goodness I didn't pay for a subscription either or else I'd be out of money with no explanation. Watch out everyone, they can claim to delete and ban you for no reason and if you paid, say bye bye to your money. This site is run by scammers and incompetent folks, in my opinion. However, proceed at your own risk. But, I wouldn't use it knowing who runs it.

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Thumbnail of user jamess4883
Colombia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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June 12th, 2021

I got my account suspended. No reason given. For some "suspicious activities".

I just lost 100 usd after 2 weeks, no meeting, no sugar baby.

THANKS i only bought 1 month membership.

Tip for consumers:
Try 1 month at a time. NEVER more than that.

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Thumbnail of user lindsayl138
Japan
3 reviews
12 helpful votes
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October 19th, 2021

I joined this site first without paying just to watch. Three weeks later I decided to try a membership. I gave my credit card number and all my details to suddenly get a message "You have been banned from the site for a violation of the rules" Not possible because I had not made contact with any one at all. I checked my credit card 1 week later and they had taken my money but banned me from the site. Three months later (when the subscription had expired they took) I got and email saying "we have reviewed your ban and as a one time offer we will lift you ban and allow you back on our site" I knew what was coming but I wanted to make sure this is a scam before I left a review. I went back online (again, i had made zero contact with any members) I used my credit card again to join and yes, same thing happened, Took my money but banned me from the site. So now they will not reply to any emails and they have all my credit card information. I have seen other reviews from Men saying the same thing and that also 50% of the women on there are fake and are staff of the site. But I could not find even one woman who has been banned. 100% this site is involved in dishonesty and scamming money from people.

Tip for consumers:
Just a scam

Thumbnail of user ritikabook
India
1 review
2 helpful votes
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January 6th, 2023

Men are disgusting at this site. They literally treats us women like prostitutes. Illiterate men, they don't even know how to talk to women, basically harassing women on the app.

Thumbnail of user rohits34
India
1 review
4 helpful votes
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January 25th, 2017

I'm from India and believe there are some basic differences with the site compared to what people in the US might find. I've been a member off and on since 2014. Met 25 women (most were just a `ice-breaker over a drink' had a relationship with 2 and am in touch with a couple of more. The quality of people on the site has worsened and succeeding requires patience. I do not think its worth the time and money any more.

The cost of living in India is a lot less than the West, so we perceive the fee to be a lot higher than it seems in the West. The number of women are also far lower (a US city with a million people has far more SB's than an Indian city 10 times the size. Men outnumber women by a big margin. Under 10% of the men are paid members (research of my previous SB) as price is a barrier.

40% of the SB profiles are non serious - girls put up a profile and stop logging in after a couple of days. 25% are escorts. Many of the others have unrealistic allowance expectations or are unsure about wanting to be on the site. It would require writing to at least 10 people to meet with 2 potential SB's and have a 2nd date with one. Its difficult to write to those 10 people, if there are barely 2-3 seemingly serious profiles appearing each month - even in the large city I live in. So even a SD with experience of the site and not really looking for sex on a date, would have to pay $200 to have a chance of meeting one SB.

Thumbnail of user henryh619
Texas
1 review
3 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2023

I've personally had several girls that are under the age of consent approach me from their seeking accounts.
I also had my account hacked on Seeking.com and instead of appreciating that I told them about these things, they banned me for life from their site!
So let's get this straight, I tell Seeking.com about them having under age girls on their site and hackers in our accounts, and they actually sent me an email saying they were aware of this, but decided to delete my account and not allow me to get back on their site. How is that them wanting less crime or caring for the young girls that are being trafficked on there!

I was a faithful supporter of seeking.com. I had great arrangements from it, so I wasn't complaining to them about anything, I actually thought that I was helping them in their mission to protect girls and our personal info. But instead of them appreciating my notice and thanking me, they chose the hackers and traffickers!

I'm a legitimate pres/ceo of a company, and for 4 years enjoyed the site. I guess as long as I don't tell them what they already know, but don't want known publicly, I could have been a member?!

I do have proof of purchase and membership.

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Thumbnail of user daisys17
Malaysia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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February 10th, 2017

I don't know is it me or them
I've met some people
Some are really bad Some are okay but none of them is rich
What they've offered me is lower than my salary so this relationship is just like a side income
My last sd that i had before i join SA gave me 5 figures allowance
While in here they only offered from 1 to 4k with a lot of T&C
I have to do this and that
Can't do this & that
It's too tiring for me to take care of them with those unattractive offers
I only can have 1 sd because i don't like to sleep around but It's not worth it
It's been a year i'm in SA
Still waiting for a better arrangement

Thumbnail of user lann32
Massachusetts
1 review
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January 14th, 2022

I met a great married man on SA only problem was I fell in love with him. Chris danforth the best man I ever met his lucky wife lan won him back broke my heart

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GB
1 review
16 helpful votes
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March 20th, 2020

I joined this site some time ago as an alternative to regular dating sites, I'm a professional gentleman and wasn't really looking for a traditional romantic relationship. As I invariably end up paying regardless this seemed more pragmatic. While I did meet one or two genuine ladies most were not.
I encountered mostly fakes and frauds - ladies who tried to con you by requesting transfers of cash up front as a "deposit", and ladies who are clearly prostitutes using this site despite the terms and conditions clearly stating this is not allowed. However - be warned - if you call out a prostitute you should expect to get banned. Even using the term (escort, prostitute whatever) to identify one of these "ladies" appears to be grounds for an instant ban as I found to my chagrin.
As Seeking.com are a US company I imagine I will find it next to impossible to sue for the outstanding membership fees paid, obviously I can afford to write it off, and I'm sure they work on the principle that the kinds of members who pay can afford to lose it too, and as many members (myself excluded) are in fact married men, obviously they won't want to get too loud about their activities there!
All in all it's a win-win for Seeking.com, a great place for the many prostitutes who use the site, but not good for the "established members" who in fact pay for the site to keep running. Avoid.

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Egypt
1 review
1 helpful vote
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July 5th, 2016

Any idea why when i try to open the app a pop up says "new version available" then when i press ok there are no updates through app store and app will not open!

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