Seeking Arrangements

First what i like about the Site, The Women are less Flaky and willing to meet Asap. However theres alot of Pros on there who have a Set Price in mind, and dont care What u look like or who u are hahhaha, as long as u have the Money. The Worst all i said was looking for a Mutually Beneficial Situation, Reasonable Allowance per meet up was indictating anything Illegal. They just Suspended my Account, atleast give me a Warning so i can clean up my act. Plus i had paid for the Month, have 2 Weeks left. Its unreal When u know why PPl are on there for Smh

This site is a metaphor of white supremacy. 90% of the sugar daddies are Caucasian and many of them clearly state on their profile "I only date my own race", "I'm not interested in African-American women"... If you are Asian or African-American women, you will rarely get any men contacting you, and the ones who do are mostly married Asian men who are looking for excitement out of marriage. The site highly promotes and appreciates Caucasian women. They only hire Caucasian women for their TV shoots, poster shots and advertisements. Every single celebrity SA ever mentions on their twitter, facebook or instagram is a white woman. They say on their website "If you are not interested in African-Americans, Asian or Caucasian women, you don't have to be rude, just kindly decline the arrangement", see, they leave the Caucasian women as last disliked type. So, if you are racist Caucasian men, or unattractive Asian geeks who are not interested in women of you own race, USE THIS SITE! If you are an African-American or Asian girl, don't waste your time, you won't stand a chance.

Beware of the Romanian new scams:

I just fell for this one. Girl wants to marry you from the first email. She seems genuine and real. She says she doesnt want money, only love and security. She even sends you her id and skypes with you. Then you travel to see her, pay for everything, being dragged into shopping sprees. She will tell you about sick girls from her her home town, cry about her mother who cannot support her etc to milk cash from your soft spots. Suprisingly for a poor girl she sports the latest iphone and elegant clothes. There will be no sex as she has principles and she looks at you as her future husband. She told me so many lies, I knew something was wrong. She promised to come and live with me. After 5 days i found out i was conned and lied about everything and she asked me to shut up or she would tell the local police that I had raped her.

Thats a good one also but didnt fall for it. She has you book a full holiday (ticket, hotel, car) and the day before the trip she asks for cash by Western Union for taxi.

Also 100s of professionals or crazies asking for €500-5000 per day

You will get many kicks out of talking with lots of girls but be very careful. In 2 months no luck yet. I will give it another half a year and update you.

The women on this site are "Sugar Babies" looking for Sugar Daddies (suckers) who will support them, give them overpriced gifts from an onsite "store", and take them on trips.

I had a free account on SeekingArrangements (Seeking) and would occasionally pay for a limited time to get access.

At some point, my account was hacked. Somebody else used their credit card (not mine) to pay for a premium subscription. I noticed when I started receiving email notifications that something was off.

I emailed SeekingArrangement and explained the situation.

Their response? "Not our problem"

So I told them to shut the account and I wouldn't be using their site anymore.

Thing is, that account is somehow linked to another site and now *that* other site has suspended my account and is demanding the money plus fees (which amount to 1/2 of what the actual charge was!)

This company (if it even is one) is incompetent and has severe data security issues.

DO NOT PROVIDE THEM WITH YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION - their systems are easily hacked and their response is beyond pathetic.

Save your money, there are other businesses to give to. This one and any associated businesses are not worth your time.

I was a customer 2 twice on seceret arrangements. When I was 33 I had alot of older men sending alot of messsges because Iied and said i was 27 years old. I left the site alone because I ending up with a narcissist. He damage me mentally and cause me alot of pain. I was his toy do what ever he wants with me.
I decided to go back on the site at the age of 40. I lied and said my age was 33 got alot of messages from older men. Once I verify my identity, seeking arrangement had posted my real age 40 I got no messges for a week.
When I scroll down men between the ages 50 and 80. And 95% of men on seeking arrangement are seeking woman between 18-35 only 90. Its sick starting from 18years of age. Young woman don't go on this site this a decreet escort for men in a prestige way. Cute

Worst website ever. Don't waste your time on it. I tried to create profile 3 times and every time my account was deleted! This is BS

Sign up if you want to lose your money. All I got was a bunch of con artists. They will steal from you

Men are fake. Most just want to pay you 25-50 for vids pics or phone. Half don't ever come through and scam you

Don't online date. This website just solidified why I was against it in the first place, but I thought I'd give it a try since it's difficult for me to meet someone between work and school. Just hope to meet a good guy offline. The guys/men on there are either too old, cheap, alcoholics, show no integrity or honesty, are too young and still in the partying and player stage, young and "don't know know what they want" ( but want sex and to waste your time) or the classic "I'm not over my my EX, so I'm on the site looking for a rebound.

It's a scam. A lot of the guys on here are for one thing only, and are not willing to put in any effort or investment. Doesn't matter if you are a good girl/woman or not. I went one a couple dates with a young 31 year old good looking guy. Met me at a cheap restaurant and I felt silly in a dress and took 2 hours to get ready for. Should have seen that as a first red flag. I ended up getting him small gifts and tried SO hard to show him I was interested, and he admits that he doesn't know what he wants and he's not over his past relationship. So obviously to me he's just looking for sex, and to party, but he won't admit THAT. He was NOT willing to put forth an investment for it, just to waste my time, but not his, because he's only trying getting his selfish way. After this experience, I've had it. It's either waste your time, or if you need financial help, a 60 year old man will pay for sex. There is NO such thing as a decent looking guy, with a decent life situation that will invest in an attractive girl, only old ugly men will, because well what choice do they have, no offense to being older. Save your time and delete your profile. You won't find what you're looking for on there. It's a scam. All the guys are scam artists, and most, and pretty much all don't really have money. Or it they do, they keep it to themselves. I deleted my account.

As a SD 30%-40% of the SB are scam and claim to live in one of the big city like LA and they don't. My first equation always is "Where you located" and they first try to avoid the question and when I press they say LA but at the moment they are out of town helping they sick grandma (BS) and then they offer you pictures and video for small fee which I don't understand why someone will pay for this when it's free all over the internet.
20% of the SB are there just to $#*! with you They have no attention to actually meet with you and they all want to chat with endless messages,
30% of the SB are professional prostitute gold diggers which you can find them on the street or some clubs for half of the price.
10%-20% are legit SB like student, single mom, ordinary young girl that just need help with there tuition, rent, and bills, Finding those legit girls are time consuming and you can spend somewhere between a week to 2 weeks being everyday online.
I wish SB had to pay to register even small amount and I wish Seeking will determinate and publish the city location of each member base on IP address and not only outside the country.

Used this site about 8 years ago. Was ok back then, a few scammers but nothing like today, had 3 amazing arrangements that lasted over the course of eight years & we are friends for life.
Women complain about men? I'm one of the few honest men on this site, they say if you're too nice you finish last. Well I can say, I started two months ago, mostly scammers, a few dates were no shows, a few I met looked nothing like their pictures, few asked for the money up front in the restaurant & then just walked out. Most of the profiles either ask for money up front or want luxury items or go to the most expensive restaurants.
The last date was the worst, a 20 year old Latin girl with tattoos wanted a ride to the restaurant, I obliged, when parking to go to the restaurant, she pulled out a knife, threatened me with it & stole my wallet, luckily for me it was my cash wallet. $1200 gone but I live for another day. I did give chase but lost her, it seemed she had planned & probably done it a few times.
I did complain to seeking but it seems they don't care, her pictures are still up & preying on other victims.

You might find one or two genuine profiles out of a hundred but in my books it's not worth it!

All the proof was sent to SA & then deleted.

Lol, it seems that I got banned from SA for reporting a criminal.

THEY ARE A FRONT FOR SCAMMERS & CRIMINALS.

AVOID THIS SITE!

THE GOOD REVIEWS ARE PEOPLE FROM THEIR OWN SITE.

Like most things in life you only get out of a website the effort that you put in. Yes, there are lots of escorts and scammers on this site and you have to be really careful not to meet one and then get ripped off. Never send money up front, and if you expecting sex don't hand money over at the first meeting ahead of the bedroom or you might find she disappears to the ladies room with your envelope and doesn't reappear. However read on...

I have been divorced for several years and how been on and off the site over past years for a month at a time now. I'm an attractive guy in his 50's who keeps fit and doesn't want a serious commitment but I do enjoy the company of beautiful ladies and it is easier to converse anonymously and discover those who genuinely enjoy the company of older men and the attendant likelihood if sex. I don't however want to pay through the nose and be bled financially and there are, like the scammers and prostitutes plenty of girls with a completely overrated view of what a man should pay. Conversely (and these are the gems) there are plenty of students and other girls on the site who are honest and open, need some help with rent and fees and want to have a good time with a man who treats them well, takes them to good restaurants and on holiday and who is willing to give them a reasonable monetary gift at each meeting.

I have met some lovely women through this site and had great fun ( and a few annoyances because one or two don't turn up when arranged). Some of those women have remained friends. As a guy, you should write a nice profile, don't send disgusting messages, expect to pick up the tab at all outings, pay what you can afford (a decent girl will discuss that face to face with you) and do meet her for lunch or coffee before moving on to a proper date (nice girls don't usually want to have sex unless they are comfortable with going out with you).

Seek with caution and ye shall find.

A "sugar daddy" site that bans almost anyone actually looking for a sugar daddy or sugar baby. No refunds either. Scam any way you put it.

This site takes your subscription money, cancels your profile so you have too subscribe again. Tried 3 times

My girlfriend and I have a semi open relationship and enjoy meeting other bisexual men and women for fun times together enjoying nights out, dancing, good food and fine wine. If there is a connection it could extend to pleasure. We found Seeking and wrote our profile stating that in NO WAY were we looking for pay per meets or other women (and yes LOTS of young men too) wanting only financial arrangements to meet with us. Despite being very clear on the profile EVERY SINGLE WOMAN AND MAN that we ever responded to demanded money almost immediately. Sometimes it was later on in the dialogue and prior to actually meeting but they all wanted money. My guess is that in the six months we were on the site we made contact with 100 women and maybe 10 or so men. Not a single one wanted to meet for a friendly drink. It was give us the money and we'll come. I saw other reviews mention bots but I'll be honest and say that the majority of the profiles we interacted with seemed fairly "real" and most even responsive and open to a dialogue. Until it got to the part that we weren't looking to pay people to meet then they blocked us and disappeared very quickly.
Also to be honest I don't even have a problem with prostitution if both parties are willing so I guess if you're a married guy (which I'd guess 90% are) and/or willing to pay hard cash for sex then this is an amazing site. Need a gorgeous escort for a night out of town away from the wife? This site can deliver that quickly. That said, my girlfriend and I just have to chuckle at how Seeking positions themselves as a luxury upscale dating site. And how the women on the site actually view themselves as "sugar babies" with an allowance rather than street whores getting their weekly trick money. Quite humorous. There are much better sites out there for genuine people looking for fun and compatible relationships.

Seeking.com was created because
seekingarrangement.com was shut down when the founder was charged with prostitution or facilitating prostitution. They change the name and now take a hard zero tolerance to any reference to prostitution.

I know, seeking.com knows that 98% of conversation are about some type of physical arrangement. They love this, it is their bread and butter as long as the US government does not have enough evidence to close them down. They spent a $#*! load on attorneys so that every single word printed on seeking com does not make them look like they are facilitating escorts. Personally if a girl wishes to use their physical assets to earn some cash and it is 100% consentual I don't see a problem as it is safer to do it here then walk the street looking for an escort or use skip the games and pay for an escort looking to get laid for their next hit. The laws is the law. I will say this while I understand that it is critical I. Every email they send of printed work they don't mention or condemn prostitution, they sure do treat maying members like absolute $#*!. They have too much to lose to offer suspensions so for a violation of a TOS. Instead they take a hardcore $#*! you permanban if like me you allude to what you are seeking. Funny thing is they can see every word l of every message on that app and if they banned all of the violations of TOS would literally lose 99% of all users. Also you can't complain if you are scammed or they will bann you. Check my out secretbenifits. It is similar in nature but far cheaper

I joined this website last year and I haven't had a single man offer to be my sugar daddy. In fact, I was told that I needed to alter my profile page to talk about what I don't want in a relationship. Of course after looking up how to create an attractive profile, it stated that I had to talk about myself( I. E. Personality, hobbies etc.)
I decided one evening to message men myself and sound flirtatious. So I messaged over 20 men that I found attractive and I got them to view my profile. But I got no response. I only got at least four replies. One says that I was too far. Another was like thanking me for the message but he already found what he was looking for here. I don't know why you just don't ignore the message if you already have a sugar baby. You are supposed to deactivate your account. I found one guy who wanted a friends with benefit arrangement and he had his specifics on what sexual activity he wanted from me. Then, I had another guy say I'm too young. Now, I'm almost twenty five years old in about a few months. How old does he want his sugar baby? A friend got an email describing her as too pale and too skinny for me. That is just plain rude! She cried so hard. I don't get why girls even put themselves out there on this website. You don't get what you paid for! And I also find this odd that a bunch of millionaires and billionaires in my area can portray themselves as the men with the most money and then I'm hearing that they can't afford dates! Also, I think they need to look at how to write an attractive profile too. I mean why would you put white women only. Why not put I prefer white women. Overall, this website doesn't work at all.

*******731! He will wine and dine you ladies! 100% born ladies only! I had a blast with R. Smooth and good looking

It's full of fake profiles and all they do is try to get you to chat on there because every time you send a message it cost you $#*!ing money.

I'm an ex model and used SA for 2 years- I am 30 and based in London- 90% of the site are FAKES, LIARS and/or complete weirdos!
I always search men who earn over £500kna year- this shows a very small result of men so from that small result joy a 0.01% chance are genuiene.
I can say in the 2 years I was on SA I met 20 guys and only TWO earned serious money and were normal.
I had to search and message members every day and it was like a job in itself weeding out the good from the bad.
It's went to crap about a year ago as they don't vet the members and so men who are clerks can pretend to be CEOs.
I have not been back on as I seen they now CHARGE WONEN to join which goes against the whole point of the site- unless you register with a student email.
It's full of men who earn nothing pretending to have serious money.
My advice avoid and try somewhere like elite singles so u know they check out abd are earning serious money instead of SA where they all lie!
Shame as 2 years ago it was a great site but they don't have the genuiene members any more just sad fat fakes.

When they say money buys love... it's true at least on SA. If you have money to spend this is the site for you

Don't waste your money, again 96 to 98% fake accounts of woman that are 9 and 10s and which you will never get a response.

Joined to try out sugar dating but honestly it was a waste of time and energy. Didn't trust it from the beginning, messages sounded to generic for me, with men asking me to contact them on kik or whatsapp. Added one on whatsapp and still felt pretty weird about it so I proceeded with caution. He had up no display photo or anything else that might give me an idea that this is a legitimate person. Anyway he offered me $800 usd as my weekly allowance if i just be a companion to him, no sex. Not that I was willing to give some stranger sex for money, but I found that as very odd. His reason for this was because his wife had died and he was just so sad. So he said he's ready to help and asked for my credit card statement because he wants to clear that up for me ofc I didn't send him anything like that. Two days after he asked for that he says that he is ready again to help me financially and he's gonna send me money but can't do it through paypal or zelle or anything like that. I asked him to send it through western union which he ignored. So he directed me to some website about checks, telling me which one to choose and whatever then telling me he will send routing number and account number and that I must have $64 to pay for them loool I came up with some excuse and blocked him instantly. So just saying this to say, if you hear this story don't buy it. They're just tryna rip you off, don't get caught