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Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.5 stars from 386 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and sugar daddies problems. Seeking Arrangements ranks 694th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Seeking.com, still 4 starts.”

Abu A.
12/30/23

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Top Critical Review

“Seeking.com”

Maddy B.
7/22/24

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you. Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

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California
1 review
0 helpful votes
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September 14th, 2022

I I was a paid member of the seeking website and they overcharged me and I had to dispute charges with my credit card company as they would not remove charges that I did not agree to. I highly recommend anybody not using this site as they will have problems with charges to their credit card account. I asked them for an explanation and they terminated my account for no reason with no explanation. Mostly scammers and con artists on this site anyhow. Obviously seeking has manipulated their views to look favorable so that other people will join. Don't fall for it as you will end up getting burned and overcharged. They are a bunch of arrogant shyster's and you will be very sorry if you join.
Dan

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Stay away from this site or it will cost you money and you will get burned and their support does not respond and if you are foolish enough to join and get burned make sure you leave a negative review that way other people will not experience the grief and aggravation that you did thank you

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Arizona
1 review
3 helpful votes
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September 3rd, 2022

The owner is a scammer and a crook. Do not use this website. The site is setup to fraudulently charge your account with bogus policy violations. They then suspend your account, and keep your money. They have no customer support, none! Do not waste your time, and money. There are several sites that are much better. Use those.

Tip for consumers:
Never use the site. Use any of the other sites out there that are legit. The owner of seeking is a scammer and con.

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Thumbnail of user louisb60
India
1 review
7 helpful votes
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February 10th, 2017

Have been using several sites to meet young girls and this was one of the best. No idea why most reviews are so bad?! Site works just fine. Maybe double your chances by using other great sites like SugarDating69 or TravelGirls (if you want some vacation escort). But SA is absolutey legit. Period.

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Colombia
1 review
15 helpful votes
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September 3rd, 2020

I don't like to put 1/5 but this site cannot be worst. Tons of fake profiles, fake girls, too many are webcammers looking for customers.
The main problem is "girls" are not interested in a sugar daddy.

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Ukraine
1 review
5 helpful votes
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August 22nd, 2022

A site for greedy and poor men who are looking for free sex. I am a young gorgeous girl of 26 years old, I am not going to spend my time satisfying strangers for the sake of a plane ticket and food.

It is not clear why men are on this site at all. They only look through profiles and do not even write. Browse for what? For free nude pics or what ‍

I am in complete shock what happened to men, and since when they stopped wanting to take care of a woman, and then they say that women are bad and deceive. And they do it right because there are no freebies anywhere!

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Courtney D.
Wisconsin
1 review
7 helpful votes
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March 15th, 2019

I've been on this site for about 6 months. I've met 2 real, genuine sugar daddies but I guess I'm old school and would like to get to know the person first before the arrangement is agreed upon. Not too many responses or emails, takes quite a bit of time to meet someone but I was open to long distance, if we were able to see each other, at least twice a month. But overall, I probably wouldn't recommend it unless they were really wanting to put in the time.

Tip for consumers:
Don't join this site unless you want to put in the time. Lol

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California
1 review
18 helpful votes
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February 28th, 2015

A waste of time this site is. My account has been suspended and I still have so-called sugar daddies contacting me to meet. The men won't believe your pictures are real && want validation. If you think these men value your time as money -- forget about it. Every man I met through this site either milked the $#*! out of my patience or was plain rude as $#*!. Just got strangled by a so called sugar daddy and was threaten to be arrested for assault! HAHAHA better have expectations!

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West Virginia
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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August 15th, 2020

I've never seen so many fake accounts on one site! You can easily reverse image search them and find out they are famous you tubers or tik too etc. The biggest reason why I give this Site a 1 star is because I nonstop report These scammers and nothing is done.

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Colombia
1 review
7 helpful votes
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May 25th, 2020

Pro: it seems the website is going to implement *soon* an integrated videocall feature. Big big plus.

Cons: Claiming there's now a pandemic, it seems to be the main reason to do almost anything virtual you may think of, starting from asking wires to selling some oversold pictures+videos. There are a few people asking too many questions, for bad reasons as always.

Most of those people will refuse a normal, friendly videocall. Meaning: no videocall for them at all. Only money.

Since it's now almost a big chat room with tons of people offering the above, well... I can get that "free" elsewhere.

Other big big problem: "girls" can register for free. They only need to provide an email and that's it. Not even an ID proof is required, like some competitors do. It leads that it's easy and "cheap" to create fake profiles over and over.

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Ireland
1 review
3 helpful votes
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December 27th, 2020

Its very expensive and you join free and are bombarded with sugar baby profiles but when you pay and its near one hundred per month it dries up and you end up out of pocket, customer services are rude and unhelpful and its the most dishonest site to date i've been on, save you money and dont fall for it like i did

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please don't fall for their lies

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California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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May 24th, 2019

Not the best tbh. I'd rate a few above it - HookupHangout.com is my current weapon of choice - but probably works well in big cities as I have heard a lot of good things about it. Just not happening for me so far but will keep trying a bit longer, not many scammers or bots so worth giving it more of a chance. Plus some rather attractive ladies are on there, which helps of course;-)

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GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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October 6th, 2016

The site lures you in with promises and pretends to offer free opportunities. But when you've spend hours creating the perfect profile it won't even let you read any messages without spending £50. The girls look nice, but I've been on sites like this before which are all fake. Save your money, and time, don't bother with this site - waste of time. Coudln't give zero stars which is what this deserves

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Florida
4 reviews
55 helpful votes
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May 22nd, 2020

I'll keep it simple. They do not have a number to call in case of a problem. They deleted my account for absolutely no reason I know of. Then again, it says they can do that in their terms of service! No refunds, just deleted. I did imply in my profile that most of the "girls' were guys or scammers. They check and either refuse a profile or not. They approved my profile and pics, so it cannot be that. I have no idea why, but do not use them!

Thumbnail of user lorettac131
California
1 review
10 helpful votes
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February 4th, 2021

Yes, I am a woman seeking other women, and everyday my inbox is filled with responses, so much so that I have a hard time discerning who I want to get back to. The women tell me that most of the men just want immediate sex and don't really want to give anything in return, not even a meet up dinner. I treat women with respect and can have multiple dates a week if I want it.

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Belarus
1 review
12 helpful votes
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January 16th, 2021

As one of the comments below said: if you aren't trying to be a hooker, they will ban your account and take your money. I was banned in there, and all the sister sites and everything a support can do - threaten me via email (see screenshot attached)

Tip for consumers:
Just don’t use it, honestly

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Thumbnail of user dawnf154
California
1 review
28 helpful votes
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April 2nd, 2020

Sugar daddies my $#*!!
The site is full of scammers who favorite you cause they cannot even massage you. They don't have money to buy a membership
The ask to kik them instead or what's app or whatever
Why?
They are going to promise you $$$ for remote companionship but only if
You send them your bank info
You accept their fake check and send them your real money

Do not bite ladies
Stay away!

A few local people who write, want to bareback you for a couple of hundred, all night
An escort would not even give a hand job for those pennies
A joke

Seeing derangement

Thumbnail of user markb1311
Ukraine
1 review
2 helpful votes
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August 14th, 2019

This site is super simple to use and aint too expensive either, in fact its pretty average priced compared with some out there. I'd recommend it along with hookuphangout (hands down the coolest casual sex site out there IMO) as great options to get you laid. Give it the 3 month test, that's what i normally do. If I aint got lucky by then I move to another site, don't feel stuck with one site its a buyers market guys and there are plenty of options these days.

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Illinois
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June 9th, 2022

Terrible site that only profits from paying make members while deleting accounts of women without explanations. While majority of females on there trying to sell something, normal popular accounts gets deleted. And while they promote "love on everyone's terms" in reality they don't - they deleting accounts left and right that didn't break any rules or guidelines. Even thou there's plenty of great men on this site who pays money in hope of finding the right match for themselves, the way females are threaten in outrageous. Wouldn't recommend this site for anyone. And men should really think twice before placing their credit cards. I wouldn't be surprised if they have fake accounts of females to keep paying members coming back.

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Be cautious and careful this site looks like a scam.

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California
1 review
59 helpful votes
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May 18th, 2016

How are you all so butthurt?! I wish I could give a class on SA. I get the feeling that with a few minor adjustments and some simple techniques, most of you would be happy. You are totally missing the boat on how the site works... it's $#*!ing awesome and I have TOO MANY girls wanting to get together. I just did my taxes and I paid one girl 10,200.00 in 2016... divide by 200/meet. On top of that, I saw her approximately 20 times "off the books". After that, I started transferring money into her account. Win-win. Somebody needs to give a course for men and a course for women. Here's the deal. I will tutor anyone interested for a negotiated rate. I am in the LA area and have no problem sharing my techniques and helping you achieve your goals. There really is no secret but I think some of you could use some advice on strategy. I can help either side of the arrangement so ladies, don't be shy. Guys, you need help.

Tip for consumers:
This should be your standard initial contact note and I should charge you for this tip:

Hi, my name is (whatever your name is). I saw your profile and think you are just adorable. I would love to meet you for lunch and get to know you. Please text me at your convenience to set something up. (insert cell number), xoxo, (whatever your name is)

Actual SB I nailed pictured below...lunch plus 100.00 for full service...oh yeah, 19

Thumbnail of user hamids12
Illinois
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
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February 13th, 2019

Most of the women there are either fake people from other countries trying to ask for your money or waste you time. Or are escorts trying to use that site to solicit.

I have met a few women who were real. But you go through so many fake ones that you get bored.

Thumbnail of user billh431
California
1 review
9 helpful votes
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March 26th, 2019

Joined this as ive had such an awesome time on hookuphangout recently that I had to see if I could double the fun! It's not quite working out that way, it's not bad but not quite the same level. I get the feeling not many sites will be though. Will give it a bit longer, just in case

Thumbnail of user mickf25
California
1 review
6 helpful votes
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November 11th, 2021

They have ZERO customer support and often ban you for no apparent reason. Your subscription means nothing to them after they take your money. Look up people's complaints on them on Better Business Bureau bbb.org you will see why. They are an unethical company that is profiting off the back of the sex trade.

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Don't use it, for your own good.

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Thumbnail of user janell51
New Jersey
1 review
50 helpful votes
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May 23rd, 2015

Been on the site for 2 years not one successful relationship. These men want barbie, the hot blonde, the skinny white girl type its just the way it is. Unfortunately. I have seen some SB insta and most of the girls are not that attractive just slim and not in shape yet they are getting a 4000 a month allowance. All members knows the situation and difficulty for ethnic women, they write about it all the time. All the guys use the site too hook up lol they want to give you 300 dollars to sleep with them on the first meet. That is escorting smh the men are well aware of that yet they still do it. I send a 20 messages a day and get 2 replies from losers and the request to look at my private pics. They should make a site only for ethnic n exotic sugar babies just saying

Thumbnail of user camillej10
Maryland
1 review
19 helpful votes
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September 27th, 2016

OMG! Ladies stay off this site! Whatever you do don't make any arrangements with these crazy $#*! men who are a bunch of liars and scammers. Had the worst experiences with three guys. One wrote me a bunch of fake checks and I had to pay a huge fee because of the checks being bounced. The other guy was just rude, controlling and pushy. The last one was to demanding and crazy. He really didn't know how to treat a women. Ladies the only thing you can do is help yourself and be successful and make money on your own terms. They think we are broke and worthless little do they know is that we or in school pursuing degrees, opening business,
Working or whatever that case maybe, they don't realize that we can give to $#*!s about them but not their money because obviously we are just using ugly, old, and unattractive bastatds,

Thumbnail of user danielp2140
California
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November 16th, 2022

Seeking does not value you or anyone for that matter. Their customer service is absolutely terrible, and you will be met with disrespect, and a horribly unprofessional staff. Their "security" system is majorly flawed and if your account is suspended 9/10 times they will NOT give you a reason, and you have to chase them down to tell you.

I am an artist which has worked with some of the world's biggest acts, and my girl had been on seeking since 2018 prior to meeting me. She never had an issue until recently when she was suspended when Seeking is trying to transform itself into a regular "dating" site which is a horrible business decision. Specially when the original site was for people wanting a luxury lifestyle and sugar baby, sugar daddies relationship.

Seeking has destroyed its reputation with many successful people, hence the reason why there is so many negative reviews. Find another option. Seeking isn't it, and you wont get any respect from them.

Tip for consumers:
AVOID AT ALL COSTS UNLESS YOU ARE OK WITH BEING DISRESPECTED.

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