Seeking Arrangements

Paid 80USD for membership then woke up the next morning to find I had been banned for "commercial activity" - I had barely even had a chance to use the site?! After contacting support each time I would be met with a copy and paste reply stating that my account had been banned for "commercial activity" and no other information. To ban someone within 24hours of payment and no clarification on what I did wrong is just simply a scam.

It is a scam pure and simple. They utilize fake accounts to send you messages and "likes" in order to keep your interest. I must have been Favorited by every woman in Columbia and Venezuela. And you will notice that all of their fake interest increases as you membership expiration date approaches. As for their collection of sugar babies, they should call them sugar scammers as is all that they are. Most just want to sell you their pictures or to be paid ahead of any face to face meeting. None have any interest in actually meeting face to face. I even had one go so far as to attempt to blackmail me. SA was unwilling to take any action other that to delete her account which she quickly re-established. But I manged to track her down by way of her social media accounts and made her family and friends aware of what she was doing. Ala in al, SA is a waste of time and money. Don't believe their BS ads.

I have been on this site for over a year now and I barely get any responses. I am a beautiful biracial woman and I have a lot to offer. It's starting to feel like to me that most of these men don't like women of color.

I'll make my review short and sweet.
DONT GO THERE!
I'm a female seeking a male and 100% of the guys I talked to either don't like you, don't like what you look like, or don't reply at all.
Save yourself some time and go on a different site!

Hello to everybody,
I cant recommend this website. Its using strange methods. I was creating account and it was suspended without any plausibel reason, already before i have become the activating code :D … i have never seen such manners no site. Very very strange and unserious.

I opened an account with SA because I wanted to try sugar baby dating, and not even twelve hours after they accuse me of being an escort and provide escort services, which was COMPLETELY false. Nowhere on my profile I said to be an escort, nor posted rates or whatever, and yet they banned me under false accusations. I have sent a complaint to them, not because I want to get back on the site, but because I was offended. STAY away. My friend also said that the whole site is full of scammers and impersonators lol

Do not go out with a guy named Tony Luke Monimala. He is a scammer. He will just take girls out to try to get them to sleep with him and never pays like he says he will. He will waste your time. Plus he is super ugly so why even bother. Look out for an ugly, short indian named tony.

The site has a fake account with my wife's picture on. We have been having these malicious accounts opened all over for a while. We told the South Africa site and they sorted it by cancelling my account( I had to join to find the account) and keeping the fake account of my wifes active. If it was real she's been hiding what she's making.

I found SA to be a good site, like every internet site you have to comb thru bs, but you do find good profiles, my only problem is the scam artists aka sugar babies that are on the site and after reporting them the administration didn't do anything.

So how not to get scammed:

Some girl might bring a friend and if you are not careful and don't check their ID's, they might scam you for money stating that they are under aged! Always check ID!

Some girls ask for the money upfront to get beautiful for a meeting and you will never see them.
Some girls are just to have a expensive dinner with you and you will never see them again.

Right off, the site does nothing to protect you if you are scammed. Issue 1 - In less than 5 days I watched the same pictures loaded on 28 different profiles, they did not even change a word in the presentation. All of these do their best to sell you pictures and videos. Issue 2 - the supposed "Online" ladies are likely men using pictures and get videos from either a friend to portray the female member or it is their girlfriend/wife. Phase 3- Scammers, they will create a profile to appeal to your kindhearted nature. When you fall for it, they play on emotions to have you send money to "Talk" or send you a very obvious fake story claiming they are in dire need. Once you send money (a friend shared his horror story of being taken for $4,500) they change the story enough to get more out of you. My friend was taken, and yes, he thought it was real, but when he told me, he closed his account. All I can say, is be careful. Phase 4 - This goes for both sides of the screen. Men do the same to female members. Make promises of money for romance, then have sex for free or what they tricked them into taking for sex. Also, both sides do their best to steal your personal information. I had one try it, thankfully, my phone has encryption software, but they did try to hack me. I did manage to have 2 arrangement from here though, very caring women. I was fortunate, but had to filter through the phony members. Phase 5 - Seeking needs to clean it up and why they cannot add a profile of shame or watch out for these fake members is just a class action lawsuit waiting to happen. Surprisingly, as of this writing, no one has been seriously injured from meeting a member from there. Rather surprising, and to the men, do not let them come to your home! Criminals? Home invasion ring a bell? Women - do not go to their home or a hotel thinking it is safe. Have you leanred nothing from the horror films? Police stories on the internet?

You are LIMITED to a total of 60 mails per 24 hours period even if you do pay a membership.

DON'T write back and forth to the same person: you will be blocked after a while and unable to communicate with anyone for 24 hours.

I do NOT recommend this site. Very, very deceived.

I met a guy on your site that seemed to be nice. He offered to send me $6000. 00 for my bills. Did I mention he wanted to give me $2000. 00 and send his mother $4000. 00? Yes his mother. He wanted me to give him my bank account number, credit card number mother's maiden name and her birthdate. Then he asked for my ssn. He said that was the only way he could get the money into my account. There's more to it but I just assume not. I wasn't about to give him any info. This site is a waste of any female's time. Men on this site just want to take you for a ride and I don't mean in the bedroom!

I sent in a picture of myself and they denied it. Said that it wasn't mee. They requested a picture ID taken of myself holding the ID. I sent that in and they said that it wasn't me and said that the best way was to just upgrade my account to the paid version. It's a SCAM and I am sure no one ever meets anyone on this forum.

So if I am a 26 year old pharmacist who is from a rich family and owns 4 succesful drug stores. Looking for a girl who doesn't want me to remember 360 special days a year... I don't like flings or one night stands. Just want a clean girl who would go out with me on dates have fun and sleep with me... Wtf do I do lol.
I am not looking for an escort or a married woman just a girl who needs some money to help with school. Or whatever.
I am not a scammer or a rapist and I can Oxford to pay very well for this agreement how the fuk do I do that lol

My account has been deleted over seven times without reasoning without warning I haven't violated anything I wasn't prostituting and I am over 18 there's no reason why my profile should've gotten deleted over and over without warning or reasoning. There are sick perverts on the site that maybe paid for their account but are sick perverts and their accounts don't get deleted. I'm infuriated it's no reason why my count should've been deleted over seven $#*!ing times. Three in one week!

There's someone in the San Jose, Ca area that goes by Flora & Cats, she's actually a cam girl that also goes by flora, and her main reason for being on SA seems to be to get people to go to her cam site (myfreecam). She scammed/defrauded me out of $1500 by making a LOT of promises, always having a sad story where she needed money fast, being super sweet and super sexy, but always having some issue where she couldn't see me when next week came around, then the next week, then the one after... until months had gone by. She told me once that it was her job to 'trick men into believing she liked them' and she's good at it. That's how she makes money on the cam site, and that's how she makes it off of idiots like myself on SA. You live and you learn I guess.

They take your money and then ban you with fake excuses.

The site is supposed to be for mutual benefit arrangements, but they block you after first 5 messages and you cannot even read any messages or send anything unless you pay them the extortionate monthly fee.

You then get bombarded with fake women from other continents who you will never meet, scammers offering photos, videos and webcams and then ugly ordinary looking dreamers demanding you pay them monthly allowances.

The site itself is part of the scam, and they block your membership without explanation or evidence after a few days of taking your money, in the hope you will re-join and pay them more money.

STAY WELL AWAY FROM SEEKING.COM

I'm a 19yr old college student who basically wanted tuition money. Plenty of guys will ask to delete the account and be "only theirs" send you extra money, ask you to send some of it to another account and then dispute their original transaction so that they don't only get their money back but they get the money you sent. Don't be ashame to share your story with the bank, they will help you, be honest. If you decide to use the page please be careful and don't accept any agreement until you have at least video called the person. Please girls, be safe. Think it twice when it's too good to be true.

I used Seeking about a year ago (results were OK) so decided to try it again. I immediately discovered how poor the software is for searching! You can't set filters to refine your search; e.g. can't say you want non-smoker or athletic body type.
Geez, this is 2021 so there's NO excuse for a subscription site to have such PATHETIC search function!
I've decided it's NOT WORTH PAYING the monthly fee for Premium member if I can't even search in an efficient way. I'm going to stick with Secret Benefit; that site has much better search capability!

The site has It's ups and downs. Most men are time wasters and full of shyt. RainMaker. Whose other name is Wayne Michael Cousins is one of them he's a morally empty narcissistic. Swine! Becareful of him. All he's looking for is narcissistic supply. He's from NY. If you are to meet him, make sure you get all you can first then send him on a hike back to his Jew$#*!up. Of a family.

They limit the amount of messages you can send. You send a few messages, then you're blocked from doing so for 24hrs. This happened every other day. Now I can't send any messages, and haven't been able to for almost a week. What kind of dating site limits the amount of messages you can send? $70 for a site that only lets you send 10 messages a day? Stay away from SA, and it's sister site What'syourprice.

Unless you are willing to have sex for money on this site your chances of finding a guy to financially support you are slim. Not to mention most men on here are looking for a woman who looks like a victorias secret model which is so unrealistic because a woman that attractive will be successful in her own and you will not find on some sleezy website. The men are all just looking for a call girl on the regular, to put it simply. Never have I ever talked to so many douchebags who have an inflated sense of self just because they have money. However, the owner of this site laughs all the way to the bank so he could careless that he's making money off a prostitution site

You subscribe because the concept is to meet sugar babies in exchange of a financial support & when you start discussing the terms of the meeting, you get banned for solliciting sex. This website is simply a ripoff & once you get banned or suspended, it's almost impossible to get back your account or to create a new one

I got banned for no reason! I wrote to the customer service and rep wrote, in verbatim

"I'm sorry for the inconvenience. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. We are also unable to reply to you again or disclose further details. Please read our FAQs for further information.

You have been permanently banned from SeekingArrangement and are not allowed to access the website again. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a violation of our Terms of Use."

They will steal your money and use your nice username for their spambots! They are racist and they pick who is deserving to be in the site - regardless of your activity, educational background or purpose! Also if you use professionally taken photos and they think you're too perfect, they will delete you too. Horrible.