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Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.5 stars from 386 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and sugar daddies problems. Seeking Arrangements ranks 694th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Seeking.com, still 4 starts.”

Abu A.
12/30/23

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Top Critical Review

“Seeking.com”

Maddy B.
7/22/24

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you. Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

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Thumbnail of user joesmith52534
Florida
1 review
7 helpful votes
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April 16th, 2023

This website has gone completely downhill and is absolutely not moderated anymore. Most of the women are fakes, scammers, BOTS. Probably about 50% now

Just look at the profile names. It's so obvious

Comicalmusican
Prettygirlie
Enchantingmarathoner
Stunninggirlie

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Thumbnail of user katej156
Croatia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 29th, 2021

I was suspended for no reason and although I was not much active on the site.
Now I have no acess to the site anymore.

I contacted the customer service and they asked me to upload the photo of my ID because of "verification". I did it but didn't recive any feedback. Then I sent them e-mail again and asking about what is the reson of my suspension but no answear.

Before, some time ago, I had some troubles uploading my own photos as they declined them. They asked for photo of ID as well but they declined it and after very long time talking to them finally they approved it.

The site is very slow, It's very annoying!

However, although this site has many problems, *when it works* I like it because it's the only site of this type that is so popular. But it's too often problems with suspension and declined photos.

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Thumbnail of user elenat11
Georgia
1 review
11 helpful votes
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July 21st, 2016

Active4life invited me to meet and we met for a launch. He interviewed me and when he found out that I don't have a place to accommodate him for I was lying, I have a place to accommodate but I was just trying a guy if they are real. He ordered his food, I order my food, then after he ate, he went to bathroom, then he said he will go and didn't pay the food, left 10usd in the table. He never paid the food. For that matter, don't meet this guy. He lost all the opportunity for I dated a lot of guy like his age even without arrangement at all.

Thumbnail of user daniellew752
Colorado
1 review
0 helpful votes
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February 17th, 2023

I signed up for Seeking and the very first time I tried to log in - suspended. I wrote to support, they sent me a link to verify my identity. Ok no worries I verified and got back in. The second time I logged in to start my profile. First picture (a professional headshot) rejected because the ai said it wasn't me? Whatever. I uploaded two other headshots and suspended! No warning no email what I did wrong, just suspended. Emailed support, no response. So apparently professional photos are not allowed, only bad lighting and unflattering angles. This website is a total waste of time! I'm so glad I hadnt paid for a membership yet. There's no wonder the reviews are so low. They need to fix their AI. Their bad attempt at security is targeting new and paying members for no reason. Go somewhere else, this site is rubbish!

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Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
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July 19th, 2022
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I created my first Seek profile, stating that I am well-educated and wish to talk to someone, no expectation or any restraint. My profile can't be more sincere, truthful, and boring. Exactly the moment that my profile was created, it was deleted. No explanation. Seek support later responded to my inquiry:

"You are banned from Seeking.com and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response."

Why am I banned when I didn't really have a chance to violate anything? The only explanation is that Seeking is not looking for real people. Real people with advanced degrees, a job in policy, and a brain tell the truth about what they do, so better to prevent from people like me from using their site. Very alarming. I am sorry that I am not a prostitute, a 20-something looking for an easy life, or an idiot. The exact action of banning me says a lot about what a dirty and illegitimate site that you are running. SHAME ON YOU for preying on young people!

Tip for consumers:
If anyone wants to create a profile, sound dumber than you really are and maybe Seek will think that you are an easy target. Don't ever pay anything! I didn't even have a chance to be scammed. I guess Seek didn't even dare to let me get to the stage of being scammed.

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California
1 review
2 helpful votes
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August 24th, 2020

Getting scammed on this site is really easy, looking to try another site getting scammed on this site is really easy, looking to try another site getting scammed on this site is really easy, looking to try another site getting scammed on this site is really easy, looking to try another sitegetting scammed on this site is really easy, looking to try another site

Thumbnail of user parminderk
Washington
1 review
14 helpful votes
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March 5th, 2017

So far in 2, months I realized it's all fake and girls on this website are paid to engage you, until you ask them to meet. They will disappear few hours before meeting...

Thumbnail of user danr37
Texas
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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October 2nd, 2014

Join the site if you are interested in meeting prostitutes and nothing more than that... Worst site on the Internet by far! Owner is a convicted sex offender living under an assumed name as well.

Thumbnail of user joem2959
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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May 12th, 2023

Seerking arrangements used to be ok.
There are 3 types in the site
1- escorts
2- dreamers ( they think they can find Mr Gray)
3-scammers or webcams girls

Now seeking mentorship getting lower and they creat make account to drag new members or they want you renewe your membership.
I found 10s same or similar account made under the same profile. Me and my friends were reporting those accounts and seeking didn't do anything. Because made by them. Mostly under Asian girls members.
Escort cost much less now and no headache. 8 years ago was just okay. As I find few girls there.
The only good about seeking was no condoms and you can find girls who take up in her $#*!.

Tip for consumers:
Not worth it any more

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Thumbnail of user debrab1886
Texas
1 review
6 helpful votes
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January 12th, 2023

This site is not even professional. It's a bunch of old grandpa looking for young girls to sleep with. Looking for prostitutes. Disappointed and cancelled. Nothing has changed.

Thumbnail of user jasonr322
Australia
1 review
6 helpful votes
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December 31st, 2018

Been on SA for four years had twp great arrangements but over the last 18 months the site has been filled with scammers, PPM, prostitutes, and girls suffering from entitlement.

In my state there are 2765 girls registered with SA only 100 are physically active every week compared with over 1000 guys active every week you do the math. Pretty much way to hard to get a response from girls and when you do they have HIGH expectations.

Unfortunately news stories stating you can make $75k a year as a SB is unrealisitc.

Thumbnail of user fastob
New Jersey
1 review
0 helpful votes
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September 23rd, 2022

Met this girl called herself Callie Black. 2500 per month and she would do anything to keep her man happy. It was a great time she I would recommend this site to anyone.

Tip for consumers:
Always meet in person first loads of scammers.

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Thumbnail of user harunq
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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April 27th, 2017

Spoke to a few girls, most are prostitutes, also a few admitted to just being paid by the company "so very ethical" is not! But bravo on Mr wade who turned his desperation into a fraud business

Thumbnail of user jonj33
Maryland
1 review
12 helpful votes
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June 30th, 2016

Once upon a time you may have found a real sugar baby on seekingarrangement. Now it is a cesspool of professional prostitutes, escorts, itinerant whores, virtual cam girls, and time wasters.

Thumbnail of user tyieshab1
Georgia
1 review
10 helpful votes
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September 11th, 2021
Verified purchase

This website is a waste of time money and it's a scam. The men on here put fake net worth they don't make them verify anything and they are just regular everyday guys hell I have more money than them

Tip for consumers:
Don't use this site

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Thumbnail of user fj47
New Jersey
1 review
5 helpful votes
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June 2nd, 2021

I wish I could give a lower rating. I had actually used SA in the past with mixed results. Well, in late 2019, I signed up for the service after like a 2 year absence. I had stopped using it because there were clearly working girls and escorts on there and I had no interest in that. I wanted to see if it had changed. I sign up and pay the 3 months or whatever it was. I probably communicated with 2 women and all of a sudden, I can't log in anymore and I get an email saying my account was banned for solicitation. No explanation and no way to contact anyone to dispute this. They just took my money. A year late, I tried signing up again. I was able to sign up and create a profile. I waited a couple of days before paying. Once I paid, boom, same message telling me the account was banned due to solicitation. That's fine but why not do that before taking my payment and even if the cc was linked and banned, don't take payment from my card but they did.

This used to be a good site and I had about 6 or 7 good SB relationships from it but it's turned into nothing but a bunch of escorts and internet hookers who will get mad and report you if they don't get what they want.

Tip for consumers:
Stay away. They will rip you off.

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Thumbnail of user brandenp15
Australia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 25th, 2022

This scammer is on seeking arrangement as a girl and will ask you to send money on telegram to this email address ruthkin75n at yahoo.com. Do not fall for it.

Tip for consumers:
They will most likely ask for the money as taxi money or Uber money.

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Do not fall for this scammer

Thumbnail of user sama863
Colorado
1 review
2 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2022

It's nothing but a legal prostitution site which is promoted by customer service and website people itself. They allow women who does prostitution with no restrictions and anyone who joined the site can see openly what i mean. Women ask for money for sex or want to meet for hookups for money and have nude photos on site. Website claims they won't promote prostitution but anyone who has been on site knows it's nothing but pure prostitution and obviously women can message for free so they want as women to be on site for free to promote prostitution. As a guy, unless i pay for membership can't get to message women and like many men i assumed it to be a dating website as the website claims but after i paid, i continued to be on site for a week and realized every women asks for money and they want to come to your place same day and want to give and do anything you want!. And if you report to the customer Service they will block you and you lose remaining unused membership money as a guy but for women no rules and no penalty. I don't understand how law enforcement can allow legal prostitution in open like this. It's unbelievable and shameful. I suspended my account after a week even though i paid 110$ for a month.

Tip for consumers:
Never ever join this site. Its a pure legal prostitution site and not a dating site

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Thumbnail of user mackenzieo1
California
1 review
10 helpful votes
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June 6th, 2019

I went on 'seeking arrangements' in hopes of finding a sugar daddy to help me with college expenses. After exchanging numbers with one of them, they told me they wanted an online relationship and he would send me money for basically building a relationship with him. I agreed and after he was persistent on me giving him my bank information because other apps, such as Venmo, resulted in his bank account getting stolen, I decided to trust him. I know this was my first and major mistake but I was desperate. The next few days consisted if me driving around the city trying to find a bitcoin atm where I'd be transferring money he put into my account (thousands of dollars) to his bitcoin account. After not succeeding in finding an atm, he told me to purchase gamestop or game play giftcards at grocery stores and that he could use the codes to transfer it to bitcoin money. In the end, after driving for hours and purchasing tons of gift cards for him, he ended up taking all of the money he gave me out of my account and left my bank account in the negatives. I am speaking up about this to hopefully warn any women who goes on sugar daddy websites. Message being DO NOT go on sugar daddy websites.

Thumbnail of user kashema
GB
1 review
6 helpful votes
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February 8th, 2017

Spoke to a girl who confided in me that she is paid to message on whatsapp and make me believe she was actually interested. How disgusting. Just advertise the site as an escort site.

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

Hi Kashem,

I just wanted to say that we have no members on the site that we hire to message. That is not what we are about!

If you would please send us a message at Support@SeekingArrangement.com with that users information, we would gladly look into the situation and get that account removed!

I'm sorry that you had a bad experience, but please give the site another try and I'm sure you'll be able to find a wonderful and fulfilling relationship!

Best regards,
SeekingArrangement Support

Thumbnail of user stevek1416
Arizona
1 review
1 helpful vote
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August 11th, 2022

There are several fundamental problems with Seeking:
-The website has a very high proportion of escorts on it.
-There are many phony profiles. Additionally, Seeking leaves profiles on line of ex-members, that is, members that have left the site.
-There is no customer service on Seeking.
-The site is loaded with soft core porn sales ladies from South America.

But the main problem is the very shoddy business practices of Seeking. Very simply, even after you've turned off auto-renewal, they'll bill you. They have no qualms about this. I contacted them on the same day that the billing was process to object that the billing was not valid. Since there are no telephone numbers to contact Seeking, you have to email them. They give you the stock answer: No refunds. Hence, this review. BE CAREFUL. SEEKING CANNOT BE TRUSTED. THEY WILL DEFRAUD YOU WITH BOGUS BILLINGS.

Tip for consumers:
Be very careful with Seeking. They will bill you fraudulently.

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Thumbnail of user tomm1551
Pennsylvania
1 review
3 helpful votes
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April 13th, 2021

I've been a member for over 10years but will no longer be renewing my subscription.
Most profiles are fake with girls just looking for some online cash.

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Thumbnail of user marce70
Georgia
5 reviews
11 helpful votes
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December 31st, 2020
Verified purchase

Seeking (formerly SeekingArrangement) used to be a fairly decent place to find sex workers (AKA "sugar babies"), but over the past few years, this site, in my long and mostly trying experience there, has become overrun with criminals pretending to be attractive women, using stolen photos from who knows where, with the ultimate goal to either:

1. Scam you out of money, no matter how large or small the sum;

2. Keep you on the site, so you think there are plenty of available women there, or

3. To troll and frustrate you (the motives for this remain unclear)

That's all I really need to say about this site. My suggestion is to stop feeding the trolls and don't bother. You'll likely be wasting a fair share of your time and money attempting to find something real there. If you are truly interested in finding a whore, simply point your browser over to Eros, Slixa, or similar websites, and skip the expensive, time-wasting games that Seeking inevitably tangles you in. It's not worth the trouble.

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California
37 reviews
92 helpful votes
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August 30th, 2018

Otherwise known as Seeking Arrangements, the website is the most expensive sugar daddy site I have been on. With dates asking for $500 and over just to date with little chance of getting in bed with them, you might as well go to the Bunny Ranch north of Las Vegas. The app was pretty ok to find dates. I was able to go on one date for the price mention above. She was able to flirt with me while having dinner but no bedroom action. I tried to contact other profiles but some of them ask for $2000 for a monthly allowance with others wanting $700 for a pay per meeting arrangement (PPM for short). There were other profiles I thought were fake with only one photo and not of the local area. So, I flag some profiles I thought were fakes and block those I did not like for being too aggressive with their asking me of money. Several days later, my profile was suspended as being fraudulent. What?!?! I tried to make the website a lot better for people who want companionship and this is the treatment I got. When I got the email of what happened, the support email was incomprehensible since the website is based in China. I guess this Chinese company doesn't want a bad image in order to fleece hard working Americans of the money they earned for some fun that they should get. Save you money and avoid this website unless you like to waste your money like there is no tomorrow.

Thumbnail of user marka116
Virginia
1 review
37 helpful votes
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August 29th, 2015

There's a lot of "noise" on this site, it is true: fake profiles, escorts, girls who aren't really serious, and ladies who demand $5000/month and think they're going to get it LOL. The trick here is just be patient! It's a numbers game. I took time to write a good profile and post appealing photos, and message only the most attractive ladies who are "negotiable" on price or at most want $3000/month. In seven weeks, I've met numerous women and had a lot of fun. Since I still have kids at home half the time, I explain up front that a monthly allowance isn't practical, so with a little coaxing, most of the girls accept a per-visit payment. $500 per visit seems to be the going rate. This is much better than an escort, because for $500 you will only get an hour with the hottest escorts and at most two hours with average looking escorts. But on SA, $500 will give you an entire day or a half day including overnight. That's not what I'm really after, ultimately - I'm looking for a steady sugar baby with real affection and intimacy developing. But in time, I will find such a girl. And along the way, I'll keep having barrels of fun! For a 56 year old divorced man, this is paradise.

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