Seeking Arrangements

I have been on there over 2 years. Yes its expensive and requires time and work. Average guy in his late 40's. If you are cheap and do not want to pay for quality women, go elsewhere.
Price will vary by age/amenities/condition and your location. I average 1-2 young, fresh first timers and beginners per week. I also have 3 regulars I see every month. Don't hate. I am NOT forcing them to do this. I have sampled everything from a local HS cheerleader (yes legal age) to a teacher at my local high school. Typical price in my area (Midwest) is 100-400 per visit. Many are just offering arm candy and dinner dates. But the majority will do FWB if you are willing to pay a reasonable allowance. Be nice, be respectful and be willing to compensate them for their time. Currently there are over 4,000 members within a 50 mile radius of my zip. So cut that in half that joined and are inactive, then reduce it by 75% for whatever reason it wont work out. Most are 18-30 range (and yes some underage girls are on there, girls can join for free). The 15th and end of the month (bills are due, plus breaks from college) are the busiest. Its the typical needs, rent, phone bill, college or just fun money. Bottom line, it works for me.

Like so many others here, tried to log in one day to see that my account had been suspended. Tried emailing and got a bunch of cookie cutter responses about how I was reported as using their site for "journalism opportunities". Wtf. Not doing any research related to this, was only using for personal use. They made some comments about not being able to tell me what or why they came to this conclusion, because it could be seen as "coaching" people as to how to circumvent their terms. But I've contacted them repeatedly ever since just to ask that someone actually review my account and messages, because the claim is patently false, and it has been complete radio silence.

This site is full of lots of scammers and creeps, as others have also mentioned. I suspect that, if my account was actually reported at all, it was by a bunch of whiny, spurned profiles that didn't like that I wasn't using the site as a prostitute or that I'm just not looking to jump into having sex with people. Super dumb experience. CS may as well be non-existent. The fact that they make the guys pay for this is awful. Don't get roped in. It's a joke. A bad one at that.

These are the messages I received from CS. Never received any other replies with any info other than this. And the last 5 messages I have sent have been completely ignored by CS (it has been over the course of a month, so not like they haven't seen them).

If you're discerning and apply the appropriate level of caution, then it's possible to make a mutually beneficial arrangement on this website.

A lot of it depends on your location, as I've found some cities to have better prospects (more women) on this site than others.

If you're reasonably attractive for your age, have the means, and aren't a giant pervert or a jackass, then it's pretty easy to meet up with young women and go on what feels like an actual date (that includes romance).

While there are some pros, gold diggers, and scanmers on this site, they are usually easy enough to spot and avoid. On the other hand, in major metro areas and college towns, there are plenty of smart, beautiful young women who are looking for maturity and some financial stability in their lives.

Don't expect to find true love here easily or at all. The very nature of negotiated dating sets up an unspoken barrier that precludes a natural relationship. So called "Sugar Dating" requires somewhat of a thick skin and a lot of emotional maturity to navigate.

I joined this site for a year or so and all I could say is that the site is full of broke men and losers who want free chat and free sexy photos. All of them asked for another app where they will ask for further photos and chat. Then they will disappear or say that they will meet you on a specific day then that day comes and they will make an excuse for not being able to meet. It's terrible! WOMEN DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME ON THIS SITE IF YOU ARE SERIOUSLY LOOKING FOR SOME ARRANGEMENTS.

I'm a man and I've been on SA for about 3 years. It takes a lot of work to finally get to a real woman who looks like her pictures. I'm talking about many hours of weeding through people to find one who is the woman in the pics and wants to meet. The next problem is the money. There are articles all over the place saying sugar babies get huge amounts of money. I make $150K a year. I'm in the top 5%. After Federal and state tax I have about $95,000 left. I pay alimony and child support. Probably not much different than most guys on SA. I have kids college I pay for as well. I can free up about $12,000 a year, $1,000 a month for a sugar baby. The expectation of a lot of women is much more than that. There seriously can't be many men out there who can afford what SA calls Practical ($3,000) or Moderate ($5,000). But there are all these article from women talking about trips and cars and big allowances. I think most of those articles are fakes put out by the SA staff to encourage more women to sign up to the site. That drives more men to the site and keeps that $80 a month fee flowing.

I moved to Los Angeles from Australia to work in my own business, i didn't know anyone so decided to give the site a go for fun after seeing it on Dr Phil. I am 32 and male. I started on the site when i was 27. I have meet great girls and had 3 long term arrangements and a few dates that didn't go much further than a few dinners. My last arrangement turned into a girlfriend and we are now engaged after 3 years. So i recommend the site, i met so many great girls, and i hope more people give it a go. I am writing the review because i was recommending it to a friend who has his own business and has no time to date. I am shocked at some of the statements by girls on this review. I understand that some have been scammed, i am sure that there are plenty of guys who are broke and pretending to pay. What shocked me was that they assumed most of the girls are hookers or escorts. Firstly there is no way to know that if you log on as a baby and not a daddy/mamma. Secondly out of the hundreds if not thousands of girls i spoke to, maybe 3 were after a hourly rate!. I never felt like a john ever. In my experience most of the girls were college girls looking for a little help, girls who were sick of dating guys with no ambition, drive or were plain broke. Or girls that were attracted to older mature men. I recommend it to anyone and everyone. Had nothing but great experiences and think everyone should give it a go.

This site is full of Splenda Daddies. I just dumped a Splenda Daddy cause he went from giving me 2
$200 per meet to $120. He basically wanted a girlfriend/sugar baby experienced but in reality he just doesn't have the funds to afford the real sugardaddy lifestyle. So I ran for the hills before he even thought about sexual intercourse plus he was annoying he loved to brag and he had endless stories about his past. He was very clingy too he would want to spend long hours performing oral sex and making out with me which was straight torture. I also met up with an old frail sugar daddy who reminded me of Mr. Burns he probably was a generous sugar daddy but he was just too old and had too much baggage kids and an "ex-wife". Oh and just last weekend I turned down an old fat married splenda daddy and a divorced splenda daddy who basically wanted a personal prostitute for $200 per meet. Maybe the girls are really desperate for cash on SA so maybe that's why the Splenda daddies are so cheap or maybe it's just my location NJ. Either way my experience with these pathetic splenda daddies was a bore and a waste of time.

I'm male, and set up a bland initial profile with 1 picture on seeking.com. I barely had time to browse around. I didn't even click on anyone else's profile and hadn't even finished setting up my account. Then I got logged out, and my account was deleted. Upon contacting customer service, I got this lovely gem of a response. I was open to paying for a premium account, but they are completely untrustworthy now. I wouldn't want them having access to my credit card. This is the worst customer setup experience, and customer service attitude I've seen at any company.

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Hi there,

Thank you for your inquiry regarding your account. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. Please review our FAQs for further information.

You are banned from Seeking.com and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Best Regards,
Sydney
Seeking Support

Do not waste your time with this organization. Here is my exchange:

I just got an email advertisement today. The Problem is my membership was turned down by your organization
My information submitted to you was correct.
You can either accept my membership or please remove my name from your email.

There reply: Thank you for your inquiry regarding your account. Unfortunately, we have permanently removed your account and we are unable to reinstate it. Please review our FAQs for further information.

You are banned from SeekingArrangement.com and any of our sister sites. Future attempts to access the site will be considered a continued violation of our Terms of Use. Our decision is final and any future inquiries about this suspension will not receive a response.

Rest assured, your profile information has been removed and is no longer available. We will retain certain data for analytical purposes and recordkeeping integrity, as well as to prevent fraud, collect any fees owed, enforce our terms and conditions, take actions we deem necessary to protect the integrity of our Services or our users or take other actions otherwise permitted by law.

Kind Regards,
Sydney
SeekingArrangement Support

Run away from these people, there are far better websites!

I started an account on this site because I'm an ex-model in between relationships and I thought it could be nice to find a man who could help me with some of my expenses. I wasn't looking for anything extravagant, just baseline support.

Anyway, stuff came up with my family, and I couldn't log on for about 3 weeks. All of the sudden, when I could, Seeking Arrangement told me I have been flagged as an escort and could never restore my account... WHAT?

I totally am not an escort. Why would they say this about someone who could be an amazing source of new male clientele for them? I literally had about 500 men approach me off of the site.

Anyway, I think its good if you want someone to approach you, but not the greatest if you want stability because apparently if you don't respond to and engage with creepy old men they can complain about you and say you're a whore... like it would be hard to fabricate evidence for that lol.

All and all, I think the website might just be tantamount to prostitution anyway... so many of the messages I got asked if they could cum on me etc... Got really dirty without even meeting.

Not a good site... all women would be better off getting free dinners off of match or pof

ZERO customer service and tons of fake profiles. Lots of hookers too. They let women create multiple profiles and never check the scammer profiles apparently, even when reported.

Sites is riddled with scammers (both men and women), prostitutes and predatory men over 35 looking to entrap a young women and teenagers into a sexually exploitative relationship. Young women stay away unless you KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING.

This site is full of men who prey on young women who don't know their worth who are desperate to pay their bills

These are men in their 40-60's who know very well what an hour with a pretty escort will cost... but they prefer to try and spend AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE to $#*! some college aged student who is broke, for less then they would pay an escort. Its a game to them.
I talked to a millionaire today who offered me 300 for an entire evening.

An escort with my looks and brains would easily make $1000 for the same amount of time

He knows this, of course.

Avoid this site at all costs ladies. If you want to make money, real money, and you are ok with sex, become an escort. Thats real talk. But selling yourself to old grandpas who really just want to try and get the cheapest piece of $#*! they can find... thats just wrong.

All the marketing of this site is very clever. They know full well that some of their members have been members for 5,6 years. Those are the very same guys trying to $#*! as many young, naive and desperate for cash women as they can, and pay them a fraction of what they (used to) pay escorts.

Truly, it is the seediest site around. I have escorted for a couple years now. I have a few regular clients, who I have seen for years, who are young, attractive, care about me... who pay me top dollar ($1000 for two hours) and i couldnt be happier.

Real sugar daddies on that site are maybe 1 out of 50. Stay away

I've been on and off the site as a SB for a few years now. Mostly off of the site. There is probably 5-10% of real sugar daddies on there. Now there aren't many. The guys on there are pigs not gentlemen, they lie, and only think about themselves. People actually need help and they treat people like crap. Every guy on there is cheap and the new guys don't know what they're doing or are looking for a prostitute. Lots of creepy, crazy, strange, weird guys on there. I was almost raped about 2 weeks ago. Site management does not take action on any sugar daddies and there are a lot of fakes and horrible guys on there.

I've had a few good arrangements in the past but they never lasted that long. Also the site management and customer support is very slow and they always deny photos because they think the photo isn't you. I always had my real photos up there and they keep denying my photos saying they're not real. How can I provide them authenticity? It's ridiculous. It's not a great website. I don't want people knowing I'm on there, even the people that work there. They're only focused on social media marketing.

So, I decided to try seeking.com for a month, They had a sale and I could afford it and was a bit curious and honestly was just bored.

I open my free account about 2 months ago and paid for a month a week ago. Here's my feed back.

Within few days of actually paying for the account the daily interest went from 10-15 to 0, which leads me to believe that seeking uses bots to make the guys think they have all these available options, which you don't.
Next I went thru my list of girls that had shown interest in the past, got almost no response. I was nice and respectful in my texts which again leads me to believe that they were bots.
The few that did respond fell into these categories.

Probably under age, when asked if they are above legal age, the communications stopped.
Ex strippers/ escort/ just scammers. Most of them want you to pay their rent or start giving them allowance before they do any meetings. I don't mind helping but why would I pay for something that I can get for free.

The few that want to meet will refuse to send a picture proving that they are actually who they say they are and if you ask for just a headshot proving themself, well that's the end of that.

There was only one that seemed interested and I even offered to meet in public place of her choosing and take her Christmas shopping, and she kept canceling the last minute.

I can be wrong but Just solely based on my experience I would tell the guys to save your money and stay away.

I hope this helps.

I have been on this site for some time and I have been robbed, lied to, ghosted, scammed numerous times, seen women who look absolutely nothing like their photos and extorted. Do not join this site without having your eyes wide open and be extremely cautious about who you meet, where you meet, the money arrangement and keep your address and money hidden. NEVER, EVER send anyone money through Cashapp or Paypal, you will absolutely lose your money, no doubt whatsoever. Always meet in a public place first. Never give anyone any money until you have made the terms of the arrangement perfectly clear including intimacy. Never give these women money before sex, period or they will sneak out. Meet in public, make the arrangement and go home, never have sex on the first date, ever. Do not fall for: I want to be your lady but I have to be sure you are serious. They are a scammer and usually a man posing as a woman to scam you. If they look like a model, they are probably a man trying to scam you.
Please be extremely careful with this site!

Been a premium member on seeking arrangements for several months and have had absolutely no response besides fake profiles (bots) not worth the time or money!

Seeking was formerly known as seekingarrangement.com. Advice: women do not need a paid or "premium" account on this sugardaddy or sugardating website. Men do, otherwise you can't send messages or read / open them.

Compared to other similar sites in northern Europe I think Seeking (Arrangement) is the best one: most active members and most complete profiles. (Meaning: profiles with actual text and from women that made an effort to write about themselves and upload multiple photos

Cost for men is 80 euros per month

Site works well, and complaints or if I report something against their rules are handled quickly. They seem to have an external company that deals with such things.

Quality of members in general is good. But do accept that most women are quite young, the majority are around 20 years old.
So the 30 - 35 or 35 to 40 year groups are scarce

In my experience (having an account for more than one year) fake profiles are very rare. And dealt with rapidly
Their notification emails (if you get a new message for example) arrive within minutes

Final recommendation for girls / women: take your privacy seriously. Fill in a town about 10 kilometers from where you actually live and NEVER upload photos that show your face.
Always make sure every picture shows your strong points, whilst remaining anonymous
(This advice imo applies to all such dating sites)

I know I'll probably be burned at the stake for this but I had to write a review just to clap back at some/most of the women writing reviews here. I'll preface by saying yes there are absolutely horrible men on the site who have no clue how to act and write terrible things to you ladies. With that being said, you ladies go on there with only dollar signs in your eyes and offer nothing more than a hand held out and a laundry list of insane expectations. Telling complete strangers to "buy something off your wishlist" or expecting a gigantic allowance for him to treat YOU out to dinner for a greet. Then you wonder why guys are just writing to you at 2AM telling you to go to their hotel rooms and other filthy things.

Because of these bad things (again we men aren't completely free of guilt here) this site has taken an absolute nosedive in the last 4 or 5 years. It's been really noticeable in the last 2. These girls expect you to just offer them hundreds and thousands of dollars in your first message to them or they'll just leave you on read. Clearly a ton are bots who just write Hey or if it's a real person they string you along until the desperation plea "I'm out of gas or can't afford lunch can you cashapp me" comes along.

Start charging these girls to be on the site...even if it's a tiny fraction of what we men pay. I don't care if it's $10. Once you do that these girls will take their 30 day memberships a hell of a lot more serious and not treat it like a free online ATM machine. Giving 2 stars because the site DOES work and I've met wonderful women on here but those days are clearly over.

A lot of fake guys and guys who would normally have zero chance finding a girl. Being on a date with these guys made me feel cheap as if I lowered my standards. Girls be true to yourself and dont believe these men, even when they claim to be millionaires, generous or attractive. They're not. They're just want to mess with you and hoping you will fall for their BS. There is this guy username Peter R in the London erea with houses around the world, who still lives with his wive but lies about it, he's too cheap to buy his wife a house and complains about girls on that site who want money, isnt that what the site is about? A big liar who happened to be into politics. Non of these men are serious about investing in a girl. Most of the time you get the worse deal as a girl, meaning you get an ugly guy (yes you Patrick), who smells like alcohol even at noon. With a horrible persona, small penis, stingy, who has nothing to offer than wasting your time. If you read the dude's profile he makes it seem like he will give you the world but dont be fooled. They want the best deal for themselves and lie and cheat whenever they can to make you believe that you should be happy with what you are getting. Dont fall for mister Robertson in London/ Bahamas. He's an ugly old liar. Full of scumbags

It's pretty obvious when you smell the bs or smell money. I screen quickly when I'm interested and I have had pretty good success. I don't usually get less than 100 to have coffee with someone while meeting for the first time. I've only had a few arrangements but all lasting a few months. My first was 6 months at 4k a month. I reject pay for play. I do get lots of messages that are cheap and distasteful but I don't expect everything to be roses. Just have to be smart. Been sent money online just for having a friendly Skype chat. And I do mean completely pg. Some of the men are nice family men who need some excitement in their life. Others are real aholes. I learned quickly how to find and get what I want and in one year I had received over 50k. Lucky me! Thank you daddies! I've made real friendships and they really did help me out. I'm not a shopper. I applied the money towards investments and becoming debt free. Now that I knocked that out of the way I am going to school. The boost I got in life from SA took me 5-10 years ahead of where I would have been from working my but off. Only thing I wish is that all sd members were required to be diamond verified so that less fakes could waste others time.
Guess it works for some

I wrote a followup to my Secrets Benefits review which so I will concentrate on Seeking here.
After an arrangement with a lady that I met on Seeking ended suddenly I decided to give Secret Benefits I intially contacted 2 ladies who didn't respond so a day later I renewed my membership for a month with Seeking $US89.
After 10 days I had initiated 60 conversations to ladies whose tags matched what I was looking for. I probably got into conversations with 20 of them. Some didn't read my message, which is ok (thats their choice) but at least I knew. I received access to 20 hidden photo's at no extra cost.
Yes some promising discussions stalled and there were ladies wanting to rip me off but I have started an arrangement with a lady who is "way out of my league" and will be seeing seeing her for the third time in a few days. The real telling thing is that I have told since told 3 interested, "way out of my league" ladies that I am taken. I am still receiving (another 3) very positive enquiries 8 days after I stopped initiating conversations.
Yes I can see the issues that others raise about being kicked off the site but for the life of me I can't understand why SB is rated in the mid 4's while Seeking under 2.

Hahahaha you thought l will never get a good package right but all shame to you l just received my package now big time from (ganja-estates.com) hahahaha all thanks to dem

My account was permanently banned without warning or notice. I had to email customer service and after days I finally received an email stating I had violated their terms of service (I hadn't) and refusing to peruse the matter any further. It clearly stated that any further inquiries on the same information would not receive a response. They claimed I linked an escort site or service in my profile. I mentioned i used to be one as a matter of full disclosure. A lot of guys dont like that and it's better to get it out of the way right of the bat then have it come up later. Nothing in my profile suggested I was on it as an escort. I even read the terms and conditions to make sure I wouldn't get flagged. So the only conclusion I can draw from their response is that I was banned for being an escort in the past and not for the way I was using their site (keeping in mind I hadnt even been verified at the time of banning, this was right out of the gates). That's discrimination and I'm going to continue putting complaints on any site I can find. Especially as a first offense. No warning, no notification, no fair review process that included my side, simply: once an escort, always an escort