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Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.5 stars from 386 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and sugar daddies problems. Seeking Arrangements ranks 694th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Seeking.com, still 4 starts.”

Abu A.
12/30/23

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Top Critical Review

“Seeking.com”

Maddy B.
7/22/24

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you. Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

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Thumbnail of user gregb1018
South Carolina
1 review
0 helpful votes
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July 20th, 2022
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Yes 3 stars for a dating website in 2022. Best 'dating' site that gets results. However I'm running into more scammers and content sellers, this time around. Plus too many foreign women that favorite your profile but don't view it.

Thumbnail of user mikeg698
Colombia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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July 29th, 2019

1. Very few real "sugar babies", too many "working girls". Pretty sure this is eventually going to shut down imho.
2. Many fake profiles, scammers, "weirdos". People inquiring stuff none of their business. Internet anonymity is a great tool for criminal minds. They know you're not poor, that's your biggest disadvantage.

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Pennsylvania
1 review
1 helpful vote
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November 21st, 2022

This site is a joke. They permanently banned me for absolutely no reason whatsoever. And the person who emailed me back was rude. Yet it's ok to have creepy guys try anything they can to get with you. Here's an idea maybe your website should be banned and taken down permanently.

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Thumbnail of user isam18
Switzerland
1 review
5 helpful votes
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October 28th, 2021

I was looking to try to find a rich boyfriend without to beg for money or try to ask for sex against money, and the dude called Shan Kim from Manhattan said yes to all I said before like that we won‘t have sex until we know each other better and met up more than once, we met up and after lesser than one hour he already broke his promise in the hotel room he raped me, crazy $#*! liar.
I was scared alone and I haven‘t met a man in years nor dated any ever since. I‘m scared of men for life. Thank you for nothing but trauma.
November 2016 I will never forget. Worst scammer and rapist website ever. Stay away if you don‘t want to end up like me.

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Netherlands
2 reviews
36 helpful votes
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August 17th, 2020

There is no point in using Seeking unless you are ready to pay upfront to some scammer prostitute who doesn't even agree to show her face on Skype. I think Seeking was created by a pack of crooks who prey on people's money. They use fake photos, stolen identities and bots when they need to work you into buying membership. They deliberately don't ban scammers. I don't know how they are still in business, they should be shut down!

Thumbnail of user peterb1691
Luxembourg
1 review
5 helpful votes
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August 2nd, 2021

You pay, and then they decide your account its not valid and they did not return your money. This website its just full of ESCORTS.
Don't waste your time on Seeking and other lame sites.
This is an utter scam thinly disguised as hookup site. They must be getting huge profits especially now when they can exploit the pandemic.
All their female profiles are fake as hell.

Thumbnail of user davidr1161
Virginia
1 review
19 helpful votes
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February 22nd, 2019

I just terminated my membership to SA after being a loyal member for over 3 years. It was great in the beginning, with high quality women seeking more out of life. Unfortunately, ever since Backpage was shut down, the prostitutes and scammers have flocked to this site. Don't be fooled, SA is now a prostitution website. This is why Apple banned them from having an app. If you're looking for a hooker, this is a great place. If you're looking for a SD/SB arrangement, you'll have to look somewhere else.

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Pennsylvania
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
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May 12th, 2019

Well, I was banned today, after 8 days of a 30 day membership for "requesting sex for monies". Nowhere in my messages was this mentioned. The site is full of fakes and scammers the first being seeking.com itself.Of course I could have prevented the loss of $90 by reading these reviews. Lesson learned.

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New York
2 reviews
16 helpful votes
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June 12th, 2019

I do not recommend this site. It is a waste of time and money. Most profiles are fake. The site is infested with scammers that will ask you for your bank account info or for a credit card, or they will make you buy one.so Beware! Honestly if you're looking for a sugar daddy seeking arrangement is the wrong place.
The reviews on their website are fake; don't trust them. Anybody who's really been in seeking arrangement will not recommend it at all. Also nobody there likes black women.

Thumbnail of user christ401
Netherlands
2 reviews
35 helpful votes
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September 3rd, 2019

I was kicked off this site just for sharing few fantasies with a woman a week after I paid them. I see it happened not just to me. There are plenty of other sites who value their paid members. You won't get blocked there for talking about sex. Moreover, there are many stunning girls, open to talk about anything. They are looking for a sugar daddy, but they're truly beautiful, adequate in communication and not too demanding.

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Canada
1 review
7 helpful votes
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February 6th, 2017

So a friend of mine said I always dated the traditional way and got nothing in return. Try Seeking arrangement says the friend! Most of the men on here are either cheaters or old saggy $$&$ trying to get a piece of something younger. A week ago, thought finally met a gentleman? He turned out to be a cheap bipolar creep too! First date he was a full sweet heart. By the second? He was cheaper! Told me he'd take me for a coffee? Instead he sat down so I'd pay. No prob! Just a coffee right? I'm broke but not that broke. Then he flipped out at me nagging that I'm not allowed to leave even a lipstick behind. That's just invading his space? I said I didn't and if he saw anything of mine throw in the trash...

This website isn't a place for the well-established to find company of younger women. It's a place where cheap men want to get freebies by the young, naive and desperate!

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Colombia
1 review
17 helpful votes
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March 6th, 2016

This site is about prostitution mostly. Over 50% of the girls I contacted were offering hourly or nightly services. They want quick money, no hassles asked.

I got "mocked" for claiming I was looking for something else, some even told me I was not on the right website.

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

Hi Doug!

I am so sorry to hear about that! We work diligently to remove any users who break our Terms of Use, especially those of whom solicit on our site!

It has been some time since you left this review, however if you are still using the site, we would love for you to report these users! Or better yet, you can send in an email to Support@SeekingArrangement.com. We will then be able to look into these users accounts!

We appreciate your review, and we are working hard to make the site fun and safe for all of users. Thank you for taking the time to leave a review!

Best regards,
Seeking Arrangement Support

Thumbnail of user enchanteds
Texas
1 review
0 helpful votes
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December 31st, 2021

This is by far, the WORST SD site ever! There are 85% catfish and 15% salt daddies on this site! First of all when you join their site they start sending you a fake verification to identify you when they know it's you! There are robots that work in this site not real people! When you get that verification your stuck you can't log in ever again! They don't even have an actual customer service phone number to chat with a real live person as some legitimate sites do! The co founder needs to change this option and stop sending fake verification to women who just happen to get in free with their pics! A lot of men from
This site had warned me of this lousy below average site but I didn't listen! Now I regret being ignorant! I highly DONT RECOMMEND this bogus site! You will get nothing but disappointment ladies and especially gents! Watch out!

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They scam you by sending you a notification to verify your account through email pretending to log in to a diff location or device !! And when you put verification it won’t let you log in before they never did that but now It doesn’t matter because there are legit sites that don’t do that and there are catfishes and robots on this site and no real people !! They suck !! I highly DONT RECOMMEND this fake scam sleazy site !!

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Thumbnail of user lisac811
Colorado
1 review
6 helpful votes
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March 18th, 2019

Some women are posting on a predator board men's profile pics and the numbers that they give them. As you well know that their is no true agreement for confidentiality but this is a step beyond that. Buyer beware!

Thumbnail of user michaelf166
Washington
1 review
10 helpful votes
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August 9th, 2016

Last Thursday I had 140 inbox messages from sugar babies wanting to connect. (I'm real, not a company shill. I'm also not terribly handsome or wealthy.)

Put effort into developing an excellent and honest profile and you'll be rewarded. Demonstrate to the women that you live an amazing life (without overtly bragging) and they'll want a part of it.

SA has literally transformed my life because I use it to affirm and push my own success move it forward. I've also used it to transform the lives of some amazing young women because that's something I enjoy doing. In a nutshell, whatever effort you put into SA relationships, you'll get exactly that back.

Best,

- M

Thumbnail of user ndeaj
Maryland
1 review
20 helpful votes
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December 4th, 2020

Honestly, I never knew I was that unattractive until I went seeking. I have sent messages to at least 100 out of that only 1 guy messaged me back stating he was not interested, this site had really took a turn in my life where I feel ugly. I understand every one has preferences but I would've thought some guy would have some interest

Thumbnail of user joshual607
Singapore
1 review
3 helpful votes
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September 29th, 2022

From the guy's perspective: this site doesn't give a $#*! about scammers. A lot of shady women there. If you intend to go in, I suggest you never transfer money to a girl - no matter the sob story or promises she makes - ever.

Thumbnail of user ianw55
New Jersey
1 review
8 helpful votes
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August 13th, 2016

It sound like the positive reviews are all fakes too...
This site is horrible.
I joined it for a few months only to find it all these women are prostitutes with criminal records, mental illnesses, many are into taking dope and alcoholics and some are smokers which is not my type of women at all. Most are dreamers in wishing they meet their rich men and spend money and having a good time.
Most are average to below average looking women that are brainless. Most use a ton of makeup and still look ugly...

Thumbnail of user billh150
Ohio
1 review
4 helpful votes
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March 21st, 2017

These guys are worse then sexual predators. Only the men pay. Most of the women are either fake, prostitutes, or they work for these $#*!s to lure guys in and lead them on. As other reviewers here have posted, they take your money and they find ways to suspend you by saying there's been complaints but they refuse to provide details. These guys should be prosecuted

Thumbnail of user petem109
Florida
1 review
13 helpful votes
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January 3rd, 2019

Once you sign up and pay they permanently ban you by saying you violated term, I never said anything that was inappropriate. No warning, they just shut you down. I was only talking to 2 people with maybe 5 messages sent between the 2 then banned, big scam stay away.

Thumbnail of user hankr52
New York
1 review
0 helpful votes
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September 11th, 2023

I have been on the site for a number of years and have had very long term arrangements with some lovely members. Despite a large age gap I usually can find members who are unaffected by that. I'm not rich. Kind of in the middle of the road with a small business. I don't pay huge amounts, but the smart girls see the advantage of a years long steady income. And the arrangements are never one-dimensional. I like dinners, salon days, hiking, some travel, and just hanging out. Good job SA!

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Thumbnail of user johnz1181
California
1 review
4 helpful votes
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March 15th, 2022

They said that constitutes commercial activity and is in violation of their rules. I think that's ridiculous! Don't they have bigger fish to fry? How about all the guys and gals who are looking for sex with someone for a quick cash turnover. Seeking probably is too busy to check into that, but they want to make sure no one makes money video chatting. Or how about the fact that around 50% of the men on that site are married and are cheating on their wives and looking for some action with a younger woman? That doesn't seem to bother them either, but my offering to pay someone to video chat is a major offense to them. What a bunch of hypocrites!

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Find another,

Thumbnail of user aaliyahg1
Virginia
1 review
57 helpful votes
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December 6th, 2015

I met this man named giver man 00 located in Potomac Maryland is name is Bryan and drives a black truck. He kept telling me how he was going to give me a weekly allowance of 1000. I should have known something was off. I'm 5'3 about 125 pounds this man is at least 6 feet and about 250 if not more. This man raped me and took videos and pics. I contacted the site and he still has a profile. Lady's please avoid this man at all cost I've gone to the police please be careful

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

Hi there,

We were unable to locate anyone by this name on our website. We take matters like this very seriously, and would request that you contact support@seekingarrangement.com with any details you can provide. Please provide us with any evidence you have including any police reports you may have. This will allow us to make sure this person is removed from our website.

Thumbnail of user stevea90
Netherlands
1 review
10 helpful votes
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April 10th, 2016

SA is a good site and IMO the only legit site together with SugarDating69. Don't understand why so many people complaining?!?! I think it is maybe the biggest "Sugar Daddy Site" you will find. Yep, maybe a little expensive, but hey: You get what you pay for! I don't see no reason to not give it 5 stars!

Thumbnail of user chrisb3325
Nevada
1 review
2 helpful votes
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November 27th, 2022

I know for a fact seeking arrangements hires people to pretend to be interested hence why 95% of the dates are flakes or they stop responding! This site is a waste of money and energy and honesty should be shut down

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Relationships on your terms. Date generous men & attractive women. SeekingArrangement has over 10 million members! The world's largest sugar dating site.

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