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Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.5 stars from 386 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and sugar daddies problems. Seeking Arrangements ranks 694th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Seeking.com, still 4 starts.”

Abu A.
12/30/23

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Top Critical Review

“Seeking.com”

Maddy B.
7/22/24

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you. Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

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Thumbnail of user ottoh55
RU
3 reviews
7 helpful votes
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May 27th, 2023

I prefer AdultsFinder.club for hook up or short-term relationship. You don't have to pay their girls, and the girls are super hot, super fit and super exciting. I used to think it was not my cup of tea, but you never know until you try. Anyway, SeekingArrangement does not work, except of the few escort girls. But then again, why pay for ads? You can find bunch of escort sites and classified ads, you don't need to pay an extra fee to SeekingArrangement pimp.
It does not work even for an ordinary fling. It's total fraud to wipe out people's bank accounts, with 100% fake profiles, stolen photos, catfishers. The few real women they have are escort girls – that's really the best thing they can offer. If you want more search elsewhere.

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California
1 review
33 helpful votes
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January 22nd, 2016

I think this site is crap. Men never respond, and half of the profiles haven't been used in months. I've been on this site for two years, and I have yet to come even close to finding a sugar daddy. I guess guys just want gold diggers, because of the guys that respond, none of them are fond of the idea that I'm a college student.

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

Hi there,

I'm sorry that you haven't had much success on the site thus far! Finding the right Sugar Daddy for you is a process that probably won't happen over night, but if you're willing to put in some time and have some patience, we're sure that you'll eventually find the one for you.

Please note that the more you log in, the more detailed your profile is, and the more photos you have, the more views, favorites and responses you will receive. We suggest updating your profile with more different information about yourself and the relationship you're looking for, uploading more photos or different photos, or messaging/winking at more members.

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New Hampshire
1 review
12 helpful votes
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April 11th, 2021

This site was full of very inappropriate men.

It truly is just a sight for prostitutes and John's.
When I realize this after two days I completely deactivated my account.

Imagine my shock when I was charged another month even though I had absolutely no profile on the site.

When they refused to return my money I had to dispute it at the bank level and change my card number. Total pain in the $#*!!

These men are psychologically sick and quite scary so save yourself the trouble and go on match.com

Tip for consumers:
DO NOT SIGN UP!! Even after you deactivate your account they will still charge you and refuse to give your money back

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New Jersey
1 review
16 helpful votes
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March 30th, 2020

Alright so a couple of days ago I signed into the SA website! Everything was fun and games! Got thousands of messages. There was this older guy who caught my attention so I answered (p.s. I've never done this I guess I was just stupid) and we talked I felt very comfortable with him and all. The gentleman said that he was going to help me financially so he asked for my banking account so he could transfer money! So I gave him an old one that had about. 80c was of course I would never be that stupid! So I sign in to my bank, copied and pasted the numbers! And sent them he said that I'll receive it in the morning. Two days forward there was nothing and he tried to SCAM me! He said that there was a problem! If I didn't have another account that I gave him the wrong number! Like ha! I blocked his $#*!!

Ladies please do not sign into that hell hole! Use dating apps it's easier! Hinge and match are great for sugar daddies!

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California
1 review
9 helpful votes
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September 24th, 2016

Bunch of liars all of them. Everyone there is a scam artist. There is. Fun in the sun from Huntington beach his name is * and * from Brea. Ladies don't waste your time on that dumb site. It should be closed down and put out of commission immediately.

*Personal information redacted by admin

Thumbnail of user geirb3
Netherlands
4 reviews
15 helpful votes
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June 19th, 2022

There are so many red flags. If it quacks like a duck, it's a duck. Seekingarrangement is one of the phoniest sites I have ever dealt with. It turned out to be a total bull crap. They use plenty of bots to lure you into subscribing. Some women get paid to keep you hooked, they want you to chat and deplete credits. Others want you to pay them upfront and if you do so, they disappear, so don't get stood up by them. The overwhelming majority of profiles are fake AF. Photos are stolen from Instagram. There are photos of porn stars and well-known influencers. To cut a long story short, avoid these scumbags!

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North Carolina
1 review
19 helpful votes
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May 9th, 2015

I met my gf on match.com. SA was the worst.The women in my area were absolutely disgusting. Yes, many saying "average" to "full size." Why are you on a site looking for sugar daddies when you are 5 foot 174 pounds and disgusting? The site completely discredits itself by allowing ANY woman despite physical beauty and weight issues, to post a profile. Why are you even allowed a profile on a sugar daddy site when you are clearly overweight and unattractive? Most men who are sugar daddies are not looking for fat and ugly. I am on the younger side, still handsome, and a classy guy, but the women I encountered were horrible. Many were fat, extremely unattractive, trashy, and uneducated. Seriously, go do a female search for Greensboro, North Carolina within 100 miles and see what you come up with.

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Ireland
1 review
43 helpful votes
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January 24th, 2014

I went on this site to date educated and mature men who want to take care of a girl but the site is full of old married guys or young nerds who are rude poor and ill mannered. They are just looking to buy a girl for cheaper than an escort. I did not meet anyone from this site just wasted time answering emails from cheap rude fake guys who want sex with a hot girl 20 years younger than them for the price of a meal.
Don't waste your time on this site unless you want to be used by cheap old guys with no manners or intelligence.

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Netherlands
1 review
1 helpful vote
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January 5th, 2022

We are a couple... yes indeed... and we met eachother on this site. We both had experience in this site before and it was amazing.

If you treat people with respect you get respect. Just 100% phenomenal website. Nowadays we are in this site together to meet guys for a threesome.

Tip for consumers:
You get what you give ... so start with giving respect

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GB
6 reviews
6 helpful votes
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October 18th, 2021

It's meant to be a relationship with money involved yet if you try to mention anything you get banned and even if you don't and just try to chat somewhere else to avoid mentioning they still ban so why create a site if you deny it's only purpose. It only benefits the time wasters men who are 95% and just want a free chat without ever meeting

Thumbnail of user joans44
Maryland
1 review
13 helpful votes
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September 6th, 2015

This site is a dream for the Johns or Tricks. They say they don't want escorts because escorts charge hundreds per hour sex or not. I hope this site gets shut down. I found two men I knew were lying on profile. One was my cousins married husband and one was a neighbor. Both were far from millionaires. They want coeds or non pro only bc they know a pro will charge per hour. They are all very very cheap. I made very little money here and I am educated and beautiful. They try to manipulate women into doing stuff for very little in return bc they fall into trap that the guy is prince charming.

Thumbnail of user hamishl1
New Zealand
1 review
19 helpful votes
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May 5th, 2016

Met a couple of real people early in the piece, but I was looking for something a bit more meaningful than on offer so stayed... and the longer I stayed, the more I was targeted by fakes. Finally I began to see the patterns. As soon as I reported them they disappeared, so I'm guessing that SA itself is behind the fakes. VERY disappointed. Won't be back, and as I found SA through a media article in my country I'll be reporting my experience on that same media article.

Thumbnail of user echom1
Nevada
1 review
21 helpful votes
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March 28th, 2016

Have been on this site for over 7 months. While i have met 3 decent women who honored their side of the arrangement. Most of the women are escorts or just plain scammers. So far the bad outweighs the good. The site WILL NOT clean up the profiles after one reports them as scammers or fake. So far i have met

One girl that turned out to have a criminal record for fraud. She had served 6 months for shoplifting and fraud under 600.00

One woman that just left prison for stabbing her mother to death. She is on parole after 16 years in state prison.

Even after you report this to the site, they wont take the profile down. Even after i contacted the owner of the site who takes "pride" in being ethical. A simple reverse image search of the pics in the profile will at times show you that their profiles have stolen pics or different names on it.

Stay away guys, seriously.

Thumbnail of user terril166
Illinois
1 review
10 helpful votes
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August 27th, 2019

Watched dateline NBC to see a girl met a guy off this site and was murdered. How sad.

Anyway. This site is full of predators. Be careful. Most of them don't have money and aren't real sugar daddies. They're all Johns on the hunt for prostitutes and when you wont do what they say or tell them respectfully that you Dont have sex for money they report you and you get permanently banned.

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Australia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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March 5th, 2022

I got banned saying i had broken their terms and conditions which i did not do at all on their website or platform. They show you no evidence. And steal your money. Please dont pay them or use their website. They will steal your money!

Tip for consumers:
Do not use their website as they will ban you without evidence to show you and steal your money.

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Thumbnail of user johns1655
Illinois
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
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February 28th, 2017

The Seeking Arrangements website and owner Brandon Wade are a complete scam. Don't waste your money because you will lose it and not be able to get a refund. They will take your money and then suspend your membership because "reports" come in. These "reports" can be from women who are upset because you won't give them money or because they are angry at you. Even if you are offline, your phone's personal and private "text" messages can be used against you! The Support Team of "Sarah" and "Thomas" will continually feed you excuses for why your account is suspended and why they can't stop it from happening due to how the website is programmed. Don't lose your money and find yourself in the process of having to file for a chargeback on your credit card. I hope this helps new members before they find themselves ripped off.

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GB
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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October 13th, 2021

Been a member for over a year paying £95 a month.
Woke up yesterday and got an email saying my account was banned for spam. Zero contents. Zero evidence.
Been emailing them for 48 hours straight with no response.

Tip for consumers:
DONT SIGN UP

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Thumbnail of user folsomdff
Arkansas
1 review
7 helpful votes
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July 29th, 2023

There was a time when you met a few legitimate women on the site. Today there are so many fakers. The site is a waste of time and money. If that's your only option to meet women. I would suggest you take up gardening and maybe be into a monastery.

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Thumbnail of user leew722
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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June 20th, 2022

Just full of scammers, never met anyone, all wanted payment before met, one even wanted me to send payment to gentleman for babysitting, i have been hit by every scammer you can think of, then when you report, you get account deletion, soon as they mention cash app i knew fake, soon as they mention travel money fake, everything in past month as been scam after scam after scam, also sure they sold my details on because been bombarded with phone calls & emails, my advice guys i wouldnt bother, save your £95.94, i have put claim in to bank for my money to be returned. You have been warned!

Tip for consumers:
Stay away or gonna be scammed

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Thumbnail of user aliceb507
Missouri
1 review
32 helpful votes
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July 26th, 2020

Myself and My boyfriend were both banned on different occasions under false pretenses. ALWAYS after reporting members for being underage and/or for soliciting prostitution which is exactly what the site says its not for. Make no mistake if you are a female who ISN'T trying to be a hooker, or a man/woman who wants to actually date and provide for someone versus hiring a hooker they will ban your account and take your money. When asked for proof they will refuse. AVOID. Passing screenshots onto the authorities.

Thumbnail of user xixxixax
New York
1 review
31 helpful votes
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December 12th, 2015

Waste of time, not real rich man on this site. A bunch of old married man looking for free sex! 98% are fat, old and married living in a difficult relationship! They waste your time, take your number but can't pay for your cab! Mostly fake profile and the owner is a Filipino man with criminal past. Keep away from an Asian guy that smells like garlic called "MR ENTREPRENEUR", he is rude, fat, a liar and ugly smelly creature.He lies about his income and he is not rich, I went out to meet him and he was so smelly that I couldn't handle a conversation with him because his breath is terrible.He define himself as being tall, 1.80 and athletic but he is fat and his face is so big and chubby that looks weird, he said he lives in Clapham Common which is a poor area and he sad he is 29 but he is almost 40!. He's rude and have no money so don't meet him. His number is *******8096. For who wants to see his photo here is his link. I will post his real name so people be careful with this freak.

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

We are sorry that you did not have the best experience on our website. We are working on removing members that are not who they say they are. We have been implementing new processes to catch them. If you could please contact support@seekingarrangement.com with any profiles you encountered this would be greatly appreciated. We hope to see you back, and would be more than willing to resolve any issues you have via email.

Thumbnail of user alexl743
California
1 review
8 helpful votes
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May 6th, 2021
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Ivey tried to upgrade my account to a higher tier twice, and they've suspended my account both times blaming my bank. My bank has disputed this claim, and said it is on their end. What business bans users who are trying to pay for their services? This is the second time I've tried this site, and now I'm done for good.

Tip for consumers:
They’ll suspend you for trying to pay them. And there are people on there just trying to scam you.

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Thumbnail of user rachelm1352
Minnesota
1 review
4 helpful votes
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October 6th, 2022
Verified purchase

I tried to make an account from the get go it told me they deleted my account. So I sent an email asking why, I really don't know. I received an email back I was deleted and banned and review the TOC. I did that still don't know what I did. Sent another email after still not figuring out what I did, got a similar email to the first returned of deleted and banned. I would say don't waste your time‍

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Thumbnail of user mikec865
Michigan
1 review
4 helpful votes
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September 17th, 2019

I joined but only was able to stay on pretend days because they kicked me off. Reason they kicked me off was told a prostitute on there I was going to turn her in but netting instead she said I was asking for escort which I didn't. Then when they reinstated me after not verifying her story she did it again and they still didn't verify. So basically a rip off unless you give every prostitute on their money for nothing

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GB
1 review
16 helpful votes
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November 30th, 2015

The same thing that had to Vanessa A. Happened to me. I signed up to the website and as soon as they had taken membership fees from me they suspended my account. The said they were investigating some sort of fraud alert but noone was ever able to tell me what the so called fraud was. Each time I emailed to ask what was going on they made an excuse. They were clearly lying and this website its a scam to get money from people. I asked for my money back but they refused to refund me. Please don't be fooled and waste your time, energy or money..

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

We do have several methods in place to catch fraudsters on our website, and sometimes they have the negative side effect of catching legitimate members. All members that are deleted for fraud from our website are refunded. Depending on your bank this takes between 5 - 10 business days to show up on your statement. If you would like to provide us with your email that was deleted for fraud to support@seekingarrangement.com we would be more than willing to look into this for you.

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