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Seeking Arrangements has a rating of 1.5 stars from 386 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about Seeking Arrangements most frequently mention customer service, fake profiles, and sugar daddies problems. Seeking Arrangements ranks 694th among Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“Seeking.com, still 4 starts.”

Abu A.
12/30/23

After 8 months on this site, I still give it a 4 stars rating. If you can afford it, you'll meet gorgeous women. You're basically spending several hours or a whole night with a temporary girlfriend that is 20 or 30 years younger!

Top Critical Review

“Seeking.com”

Maddy B.
7/22/24

Great site...but a hit and miss...huge database of fake profiles trying to scam you. Please, please...if you're on that site stop sending money to people cause that why they think everyone else will. Do a video chat always! 9/10 within US will refuse. That's cause they are fake. They won't agree to texting but resort to WhatsApp and telegram etc...its a direct indication of them not being real!

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Thumbnail of user johnd613
New Jersey
1 review
15 helpful votes
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August 6th, 2016

Seeking Arrangement seems to be getting more and more populated by scammers, fakes, etc. They aren't monitoring their members. At $70/month I dont think its worth it to be continuously contacted by pimps, webcam-girls, etc.

Other site, like StrikeUps are better at regulating their membership - and that one is free.

After my subscription expires, I'm done with SA...

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

Hi John,

I'm very sorry about your experiences! We work hard to keep our site safe and fun for our users!

We have implemented many new and innovative ways to catch and remove users from the site that are not properly utilizing it!

If you would like to report any members, or have any suggestions/concerns, we would love to hear from you at Support@SeekingArrangement.com!

Best regards,
SeekingArrangement Support

Thumbnail of user davidp942
Canada
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
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May 6th, 2019

Whenever I have a business trip coming up ill spend a few weeks in advance on Seeking and HookupHangout setting up slags for shags! Takes a while for them to bite sometimes but with a bit of forward planning you can suddenly enjoy $#*!ty trips to Bristol or Norwich ha ha ha

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Alaska
1 review
4 helpful votes
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April 7th, 2022

Seeking ruined my marriage. It is a facilitator for sick old men who take advantage of young girls and their insecurities. Almost everybody on this site is using it in secret because they're in a relationship and all it does is put bandaids on bullet holes. There is also a ton of prostitution and extortion on this site. Use it if you want to be a homewrecker and ruin people's lives.

Thumbnail of user bgouldthorpe
New York
1 review
7 helpful votes
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April 26th, 2023

Yes, there are female scammers. Sireneyes in rochester is such a scammer, but there are others. College students offer a meetup at their place with a night of fun. Dont let them get up front pay or your phone.

Reported her to seeking, but they didnt do anything about her. In fact, she became a 'featured member'. Its unfortunate because there are some good women on here. Just hard to tell.

Its not a safe place

Tip for consumers:
Seeking has no interest in keeping the site clean with no scammers

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Thumbnail of user jonathanc1038
South Dakota
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
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August 30th, 2022

I was kicked off the site site for asking for credit's back after being solicited by what I believe are prostitutes.
I joked around with the scammers and I'm the one that got kicked off.
It really wasn't worth it as it seems the girls are not real or they are pros after your money

Thumbnail of user miam35
Hawaii
1 review
12 helpful votes
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April 7th, 2016

I've been denied access to my account, with no help or response from the support team. My account is still active, as people are still messaging me, and I'm getting email notifications. I either need access to my account, a reason why I've been denied access, or for my account to be deleted. I don't want my information/pictures to be on this site for people to see if I can't even respond.

Thumbnail of user naomij6
Mississippi
1 review
10 helpful votes
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December 9th, 2016

NaïveI think the problem most women have on this site, is that they are too money hungry. Yes there are fakes on this site, but it is painfully obvious who is fake and who is not please use common sense. Men on this site may be looking for sex / prostitution but if you are smart enough you will not give in. I actually found the love of my life on this site oddly enough, we have been together for seven months and we actually both love each other. Our relationship started off as platonic but we soon just started dating like normal people :) there is some good on this site. Please stop making quick, money hungry decisions and talk to these men, find out what they care about, face time them for hours before meeting. When finally meeting only meet in a public space, and don't have sex unless they are tested for STDs and you trust them. Stop being naïve and dumb and use your head!

Thumbnail of user melissag24
Colorado
1 review
11 helpful votes
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November 24th, 2014

Worst website ever. I was on here for a few weeks and kept having problems with my messages I contacted support a hand full of times and they kept saying they fixed the issue. They never did. Also theirs a lot of fake profiles on here..

Thumbnail of user axx3
Texas
1 review
12 helpful votes
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February 10th, 2017

SA must be paying some girls to lead you on and think that there are real girls. Don't take me wrong, there are real girls. You have to waste a lot of time to find one. You get a lot of replies. As soon as you ask them to meet outside they all went quiet. I am cancelling my membership.

Thumbnail of user alanp463
GB
1 review
4 helpful votes
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September 21st, 2021

Let's begin with the worst:
Customer care. They will ban you for no reason. A girl may say she is 17, you don't read her answer at night and by the morning, your account is suspended. Another girls reached me requesting money, I never answered but theysuspended me again.
The best about it? They will never, ever give any money back.

The second best thing:
Scammers. So many of them... this site was legit for a while, but now? Full of chinese and malay women trying to scam you with crypto currency or just telling you their momma is sick and if you don't help, she will die... don't be a fool, these people make money out of fools.

Seeking will try to scam you, the girls will try to scam you, now it's your choice to be scammed or not

Final note: when you create an account, if you are willing to pay, wait a few days, seeking will offer you discounts on the membership. Be wise and wait for the 33% off discount

Tip for consumers:
They will never refund any money, scammers

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Thumbnail of user larryz43
Florida
1 review
8 helpful votes
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July 2nd, 2020

Most of the ladies on there are scammers. They ask you for a deposit before they meet you but never show up. Found out some are guys pretending to be women just trying to scam you for a deposit!
Stay off the site

Thumbnail of user davidk258
New York
1 review
4 helpful votes
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October 29th, 2016

I've been on and off this site for 5 years now and I've had 2 long term relationships with some wonderful women. Each relationship lasted years. I'm not everyone's type and I have read a false report of myself! Saying I have HPV, lmao. I've never had an STD in my life and I guess this lady Jen R was having a bad day or maybe we didnt agree on allowance so she bad mouthed me, but overall the site is the same as most sites, some good people, some bad, if you weed through the fakes and escorts you can meet some great ladies.
To Jen R, who ever you are, sorry if we disagreed or I somehow angered you but no need to slander me with nonsensical claims. Best of luck to you

Thumbnail of user aleg15
Australia
1 review
7 helpful votes
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July 21st, 2021

I tried to open an account with this website and they ask for your government issued ID. No other dating website will ask for this. This is a big breach of security and privacy. If you send them your government issued ID and they are hacked you will surely become a victim of fraud and identity theft.

Tip for consumers:
Stay away as your government issued ID can be stolen if their website is hacked or someone in support leak your documents.

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Thumbnail of user annar2665
Texas
1 review
9 helpful votes
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July 30th, 2019

Horrible experience w/ Seeking Arrangement. It's just men trying to scam you for sex or money. The man behind the Catalyst4Blessings page is a complete fraud. He claims to be an oil & gas exec. His profile pic is of him & 3 puppies. He offers you the world, y'all agree to an arrangement, then ghosts you after you fulfill your end of the deal. He claims to have 12 houses all around the world, yet he lives in a garage apartment. He also lies abt his age, his profile 1st claimed that he is 49, he is now 44. The man looks to be in his 50s.

Thumbnail of user johnathonb13
District of Columbia
1 review
9 helpful votes
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January 14th, 2016

I am a Sugar Daddy on this website. The amount of women that respond to you without you even contacting them is astonishing. I currently have three Sugar Babies thanks to this amazing website. I have been a loyal customer of SeekingArrangement.com for over three years now.

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Thumbnail of user priscellaa
GB
1 review
9 helpful votes
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June 24th, 2016

I have met a few guys now; this guy named damiang on the website, real name ABHI who claims to be half Indian half Italian, is a SCAMMER. We agreed to an arrangement, met over coffee. He seemed lovely and harmless, 29 young. He asked me for the next meeting to meet him in a cafe where him and his friends would be, and pretend to give him my number out of the blue. So he could take me to a work party and they would think we met in a cafe. Before this; he RECORDED a online banking transfer of £4,200 sent out to my account. It didn't show; he said to wait a working day. Nothing. After all of that, he stopped communicating with me and basically did it all for some psychotic ego boost. I even took the video to a bank and they said it was LEGIT: this site is scary. Some weird weird men on here! BE careful girls. Always get money upfront, and before you do anything.!

Thumbnail of user alicel588
New York
1 review
2 helpful votes
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November 1st, 2023

Hello!
I have been successfully using Seeking website for many years, Seeking is a paradise for men and women who know exactly what they want in their personal relationship!
I wrote and published a beautiful book about my Seeking journey last week, my book "Men of Seeking Arrangement" by Alice London became a bestseller on Barns&Noble hours after it was published.
I hope every single man and woman on here can read it, it is a beautiful proof of finding love, friendship, arrangements, dates and relationships is easy with Seeking!
Eternally grateful for Seeking!
Thank you!
Alice London

Bestseller "Men of Seeking Arrangement" by Alice London is available on Amazon Books, Kindle, Barns&Noble, NOOK.

Instagram: alicelondonbooks

Tip for consumers:
I love Seeking, it is not perfect, but if you are not lazy, Seeking will make all your dreams come true! Like it did for me year after year ♥️

Thumbnail of user gladeg
Georgia
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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May 14th, 2019

They would suspend you and ot to give you any detail of the reason for suspending you. Then they will ban you and not refunding your subscription money. They do not care if the report from people are legit or not. Their goal is to rob your money.

Thumbnail of user barbaral91
South Carolina
1 review
7 helpful votes
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February 15th, 2017

I am a women on this site and I find this with many of the men. I am serious about seeking an arrangement and I am not a pay to play girl. And that is what I see now. Strippers, Asian women and really more of a prostitution thing.
And the men say they want an arrangement because I make it clear I am not a one night stand girl. So we make and discuss what each others needs are in an arrangement and we are intimate. He gifts me saying in a couple weeks we will go on a month allowance. Then guess what,( you have probable already guessed), he disappears. And I am left feeling very filthy. Filthy because I feel like a prostitute even though I made it very clear I only was with the man I was in an arrangement with and I had to have a connection as I could not be with someone I did not like or have a connection to.

Thumbnail of user alexg407
Australia
1 review
11 helpful votes
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October 13th, 2019

This site charges you for a premium membership and before it expires they ban you permanently from their website without telling you exactly what action you did that got you banned. Stay away as they take your money and ban you with no refund and specific explanation. They should warn you or temporarily ban but not permanently and take your money.

Tip for consumers:
Stay away or they will take tour money and ban you without a warning or telling you exactly what action caused a ban.

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Thumbnail of user vanessaa20
Georgia
1 review
19 helpful votes
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October 15th, 2015

I had been a member of SA since 2007 until today. I am NOT an escort, I have met many SD from here and had several successful relationships. I go to log on and my account is suspended, they claim one of my photo's was on an escort site, they refuse to give me link to that I can find the person who stole my photo's and refuse to restore my account. They claim no escorts however they are the biggest prostitution ring around and the only one's punished are the ones who play by the rules. The quality gentlemen don't go near this site, and as I'm finding out now, there are reasons the quality ladies won't go near it either. Don't waste your time and energy, you can contribute to the site, respond to blogs and use the site as it's intended and if you aren't a whore they remove you for unbiased accusations. If that is how they treat their longest clients I promise it's isn't worth becoming invested in for any reason.

Thumbnail of user lynnm859
South Dakota
1 review
2 helpful votes
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September 8th, 2021

I was suspended for nudity, when I posted none. I was sent many "D" pics and propositioned many times and nothing was done. The pic I posted was taken off the internet and was not R rated. I was kicked off for nothing, especially compared to what some men do. I'm guessing it's a good old boys society.

Tip for consumers:
Be careful of what others may “think”. They don’t go by proof alone

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Thumbnail of user alexg504
Australia
1 review
9 helpful votes
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January 19th, 2020

This website says your profile has been deleted but if you sign up again they say you have already been on the website before even if you havent. They keep your data and photos and lie that they have been erased. Stay away from this site.

Thumbnail of user jackc987
China
1 review
3 helpful votes
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September 1st, 2021

I kinda like Japanese idols recently, tried to find an Asian sugar baby, then I saw someone with photos of Asuka Saito, hilarious.
Google the image on the web, you will find many famous people or not-so-famous people on Instagram.
So many scammers and prostitute agencies using fake information to gather yours yet there's no report button, I even saw two different accounts using the same person's photo, one is 19 yr and another is 25, which made the whole website untrustworthy to me.

Tip for consumers:
Driving a Porsche to your nearby university is easier.

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Thumbnail of user joea98
North Carolina
1 review
11 helpful votes
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September 14th, 2016

I used the site 4 years ago, and it was pretty good. I was able to find someone within a month and we were together about 1.5 years. I joined again about 3 months ago, and the site is a complete disaster now. There are a large number of escorts on the site that are pretending to be SBs. You will spend a significant amount of time messaging women, and when it comes to to discuss meeting, they will disappear. Also, if you are "fortunate" enough to schedule a meeting, about half of them won't show up. There are also a large number of scammers and rinsers on the site (let alone women wanting money for a platonic or online relationship). If you report them, the site does nothing. I highly recommend against the site.

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Allison H. – Seeking Arrangements Rep

Hi Joe!

I'm so sorry about that! We are working hard to remove all members that mis-use the site! And I just wanted to say that we take all reports made on the site seriously!

Due to the number of reports we get, however, it may take time for us to get to each individual report, but that does not mean we won't take action!

Again, I'm sorry for your time and mishaps on the site, if you have any other suggestions or comments, please feel free to send us a message at Support@SeekingArrangement.com!

Best regards,
SeekingArrangement Support

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